So I was at my neighbors garage hanging out, watching the Bucks, drinking beer and talking to a friend of my neighbors'. He wanted to know if my co. was hiring. My standard reply depends on what you do (not that I fucking know because I want to leave).
Anyway, we start talking and this guy tells me he has been unemployed for a year. OK, I get it (I am not judging anyone). Then he starts to tell me his "story". And I became real pissed at this fucked up society we have created!!!!!!!!!! 3 companies have told him to his face "we don't hire the unemployed". How the fuck is this not ILLEGAL LIKE 10 FUCKING TIMES OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So then I come home and wadda ya know there is an article in the NY Times about this same shit. So I am curious if a woman has been providing for several years "how does she explain that when she goes back to work" And don't give me any shit you have to go back to work at some point. For the record my advice to this guy was this: rent a mailbox at the UPS store. Incorporate a company for $99. Get a google voice mail box. Make up a company name and put that on your resume as your current employer. Fuck it. If corporate America plays dirt then you play dirt too. BTW this works for Providers as wellI've been in position to hire people for many years. I'll interview someone with a gap in employment if their resume is otherwise attractive. The reason for the gap in employment will almost always come up during that first interview however.
If they don't have a reasonable explanation, chances are...they aren't going to rise to the top of the list of candidates. Just a fact of life. I work in a pretty competitive industry. The A players don't tolerate the non-A-players for very long. Also, managers hiring practices are usually evaluated in some fashion in larger companies. This makes it even more difficult for someone with even a reasonable employment gap to land a job on a cold call. It's very easy to rule people out of consideration for a position...especially if you have a lot of applicants. Even one bad hire mars the reputation of a hiring mgr in a competitive industry.
I'd advise someone staring at unemployment to do something to advance themselves. Take classes. Get a technical certification. Start a small business doing anything. It's relatively easy to set up an online retail outfit and dropship merchandise these days. Now...it's hard to be really good at that and make a decent living...don't get me wrong. But, it does show a certain industrial nature and desire to produce. In any case...prospective employers will look favorably on industriousness. Just my 2 cents....
Wrt providers and this issue....I got nuthin for ya there....
Anyway, we start talking and this guy tells me he has been unemployed for a year. OK, I get it (I am not judging anyone). Then he starts to tell me his "story". And I became real pissed at this fucked up society we have created!!!!!!!!!!
3 companies have told him to his face "we don't hire the unemployed". How the fuck is this not ILLEGAL LIKE 10 FUCKING TIMES OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So then I come home and wadda ya know there is an article in the NY Times about this same shit.
So I am curious if a woman has been providing for several years "how does she explain that when she goes back to work"
And don't give me any shit you have to go back to work at some point.
For the record my advice to this guy was this: rent a mailbox at the UPS store. Incorporate a company for $99. Get a google voice mail box. Make up a company name and put that on your resume as your current employer. Fuck it. If corporate America plays dirt then you play dirt too. BTW this works for Providers as well.
How would people who don't have any funds to invest, pull this off ?
The drop ship online retail option has me LMAO...
Have you ever heard of Amazon.com?
Yes. I'm actually very familiar with amazon. And ebay. Those are two marketplaces I had in mind in my previous post. Anyone can set up online retail store fronts on either platform. Not sure why you are Lmao...hundreds of thousands if not millions of people do just that.
I get it...ppl without money can't invest. The point is...you can always do something. Demonstrate desire, motivation, drive, etc. There is not one silver bullet that is the "right" thing to do. When you interview with a prospective employer...the 'anything' you did will look better than whining about how no one will hire you. Libraries still exist (believe it or not) and are free. You can often use computer labs there and do free online training or checkout training manuals and teach yourself a new skill. When you are employed...put some of your money aside so that if you are ever unemployed and hit hard times...you have something in reserve.
In the end...if you lose your job and you didn't save any of your money....who do YOU have to blame? Before you all flame me...yes...bad things do happen to good people that do everything "right". These scenarios are often not straightforward. But no amount of analysis of the misfortune is going to change the present circumstance. However, hard work, drive, desire, etc....these can potentially change circumstance. There is always something you can do.
That's my point.
How would people who don't have any funds to invest, pull this off ?
The drop ship online retail option has me LMAO...
Have you ever heard of Amazon.com?
I can't believe your drop ship idea can be very profitable.
First of all why would a person buy an item on ebay, when they could buy that same item on Amazon?
When I buy products on Amazon I buy the cheapest one I can find. Whoever the seller is does get the sale, but with the least amount of return on their investment
You are missing the point. Don't fixate on the retail drop ship concept...it is one idea. If you can't make that work....do something else.
The point is....do something to improve your circumstance.
First of all why would a person buy an item on ebay, when they could buy that same item on Amazon?
When I buy products on Amazon I buy the cheapest one I can find. Whoever the seller is does get the sale, but with the least amount of return on their investment.
I know you said go to the library, and try to learn something that way. Which i wouldn't discourage any one from doing so.
I don't think the public library hands out degrees.
I don't think the public library hands out degrees.
You're the one pedaling nonsense, not me. I do agree with your over all premise "Do Something".
I also find it funny there are so many HR people on this board.
$3.50-$5.00 a gallon for fuel adds up QUICK! Not too mention simply maintaining a home phone and the now necessary "cell phone" service in case you're out "doing something". There are historic and natural reasons also why OLDER folks are(and have always been) far and few between on college campuses. And those "Student Loans" are expected to be paid back! Or maybe just a humble $5,000+ for a "Certification" class so a 55 year old can spend 8 hours a day on a cold concrete floor working on someone elses car or truck while competing with 22year olds?
Oh' forgive me I forgot. If and when you reach 62 you can sell your home to the Banksters for a "Reverse Mortgage" so you can pay off your "Student Loan"! But WTF, you still get too live there.
God Bless America; land of opportunity!..........And Santa Clause is coming again soon!
That's exactly what I say AFTER I buy shit and look at my bank account.
So I know I was beaten up brutally for my English .. and nobody here believes I do hold and Bachelors and Masters in states form accredited college with graduation date of 2008.
It is when economy dived deep in to ... you know .. crisis so not just immigrants with sexy accent lost employment and homes but and few generations Americans were out to streets and need come up with other means of earning income.
So I am ended up doing escorts.. as one my 2 years long so called BF advised me to do saying Iam good in the sex so I can be paid a lot .. and he you know .. kept me around 3 years... and I never knew about escorting .. till .. hmmmm need cash and he as always gave me 1000 and I needed more .. so he directed me HERE ..
and why I did not know all that before? Have just one regret..
meeting now better gentlemen..
But .. long story short -
same here - unemployed few years poor job history in states - I did worked actually before 2008 as I was trained to be an ""$$$$"""
With me even worth- HR people said me the same as they said to your friend - "we do not hire unemployed.."
then she added -
"If I would be hiring for massaging saloon , parlors - I would hire you on the spot becuase of your sexy accent" told me fat ugly few college credits fake blond HR ..
I did cried at home .. and become an escort.
While escorting one my darling client knowing all my credentials and past work in Russia ( and I do have MBA there as well ) he arranged me resume.
Tell you true it is amazing- I have now jobs interviews... but yes every time I have to explain my employment gap.
And I am sooo tied from no stopping testing of my Excel, Access, Power Point , Word, and other specific related to my professional training softwares .. every every every interview every company every temp agency putting you through OWN test systems ..
It is just frustrating ...
I do always above 85 to 95 % and can you imagine??!!!
She - staff of temp agency- holding in her hands results of my tests with 95 % scores as well as my 4.00 GPA transcripts for bachelors and masters degrees, certificates of recognition in the Sigma Beta Delta, Theta Kappa Phi ( last one is for 2 years an associate degrees because yes I did started my eduction from very basics in states....) My Biography published in National Dean list .. and all memberships in professional organizations related to my training - I did become a member back then in hope it will help me with networking for employment and .. and as general pic who I am .. so
this F*Ing better to say NON F*ed" Bitch
holding all my hard work for last 5 years with all those credentials .. PLUS results of the test form HER computer system.. she has guts to ask me -
"When you was taking those test .. did you understood english well" ?
How you would feel about that?
What you would answer to her?
So Yes .. I am new American ... I always was thinking before that for me it is harder ..but.. but I see in states all sooo screwed up that and non New americans not doing well .. and we re in he same boat..
yet I am still beaten up even here for my English .. and I am by the way trained not in Human science or Art science but in Applied science field .. so English should not be a problem?
But .. being here .. doing escorts I am still am just humiliated by some people here for my English .. and I tell you true .. just never care lately what I write and how..on TER .. is not it is .. also Applied skills ..
I think I am good and in Applied skills here and Applied art of talking and writing .. what do you think .. did you understood well what I wanted to share with you- those who took time to read and listen?
Country this country should be ashamed for many thing .. and by the way now it is my country as well I am citizen of many years yet keeping dual citizenship ..
Educational Loan %, amount if Debts kid would care on its shoulder upon graduation - it is just unethical in my opinion have ANY % on educational loans ...
College staff as deans and rectors and professors able have loans with zero interest while poor kids graduating and ready to hung themselves after few years of looking for employment ....
in near by Canada cost of one year of college would be 10 000 while in NYC it be 55 000 .. BUT but professors are the same!!! they teach here in NYC and they do teach in Canada ..just flying back and forth .. so why we all not yet moved to Canada do not know .. I would be looking in to that now may be will get my third one citizenship and I am seriously consider to return to Geneva where is rest of my family is .. but .. BUT if MY ENGLISH here is not good for an employment ..
My German and French as well way not what is has to be for corporate world.
Here I at list went to colleges ... so
sorry taking so much of your attention ...
any way .. I do have resume now and going to the interviews ..I tell you true ..I was employed last year in NYC for bit but .. but it was not a career building position and low paid so I do better now in escorting .. but still have hope to do something more meaningful and see ONLY those I truly want to see .. tell you true even now I do conduct my escorting ONLY that way - lovers nice, real, men ..
see my 9/10 review
You need to improve your english communication skills. Both verbal and written. This is must in business and you can look at job posting on Monster or any other job site. They all say the same thing.
No issues with accent as long as you verbally communicate. Written communication speaks for itself.
Hope you don’t take this as basing.
Unless of course, you had someone edit your work before turning it in? How did you pass the GMAT? I had a total of 14 courses in grad school and all but 3 were comprised of 20-40 page papers, business and marketing plans, 100 page Thesis with video presentation, etc. I did not have a single test in any class except for Accounting from what I remember, and I graduated in 2011. English courses from most Universities here are extremely hard. One comma splice, and you're not getting higher than a C.
pass even TOEFL . try.. it ha ha a to GMAT it was easy I Pass also and GRE and I did earned 155 credits in states and pass 3 CPA exams - before started do escorting ( and btw have all B and A in English writing classes as well as Business Communication and other classes which did require writing ..
Ok back to my professional life before I got involved with escorts
I did not pass Taxation ONLY - because it is different concept then I used too in Russia and you know
I failed on Taxations of Individuals .. it is where I performed in 50 % while Corporate Taxation Partnership, and Ethics parts was within passing grade ... so I worked hard on CPA exams and at time when I did not pass Taxation - my boss CPA for whom I worked - Lady - she committed suicide .. because as they wrote in papers - She Committed fraud on 1031 sec -LIke Kind exchanges of investemnt property ..
those who knows Tax Regulations - those should know how it was possible .. may she did commit fraud may be not. I not going to explain here all what she was investigated for
but she killed herself in the office inhaling helium.. she was Certified in all what is possible - CPA, CFI CFA CMA CBV and I think some more even may be as CFA too - she worked for corporations before so she was sooooo respectful person in the community yet everybody turns against her ..
she was overweight, 5 dogs ,, few horses ..and had sleep disorders and no kids and very lonely..
it was wake up cll for me - DO I REALLY WANT to have life as hers ??
so when I failed Taxation .. I even did not tried to repeat exam .. I went to escorting when firm was closed with no any attempts to work .. ah .. a bit for HR .. no money bunch of old ladies with attitudes
I did established for some one on side Non profit 501(c) (3)
and it is my other then that hobby
I do take donations as Tax deductible fully to support my other love and if any gentlemen want to benefit and have double yummy on your money you take to escorts - come to me
It is not on my name at all that.. I am helping to raise money there for one purpose of course not living expense .. I do cover it other way ..and yet the charity I talk about is real deal
Of course you have to be real deal as well
to play that way with me - you would know all about me then and I would know all about you .
It is who are my real lovers are
They are even not here . but few and here .
I still do escorting as work and do travel
just for cash .. so whatever rules your boat ...
Do not judge me please for mY English it is not ONLY I can not find employment I would enjoy
I am good in sales here but not be working in sales for anybody else ... not really love sales people personalities
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I would've never know this if I'd just stayed put but naw...I went to NYC and nobody could understand me. It was embarrassing! I swore I wouldn't return til I take some of those speech therapy classes.
Serafema is doing dang good and I commend her...wo
Милая, я в настоящее время наставничества 3 проститутки, каждый с несколькими степенями и мире путешествовал, в письменной форме, говорить и понимать английский язык.
Пожалуйста, заполните форму до конца в полном объеме и на английском языке в применении. Если вы не можете позволить Лондоне помочь вам. ![]()
Candidate "how much will i get paid?"
Me "20 - 30% of sale amount"
Candidate "So if i don't sell i don't get paid???? I need salary"
Me "next"
Sorry but a LOT of unemployed people don't have jobs for a reason. When I NEEDED a job in 2008 I found one in 3 days . I did take about 50% pay cut though.
People in my field at that time were either taking similar 40 - 60 % pay cuts or stayed at home bitching about being unemployed.
For someone seeking steady employment. Like you said if you don't sell, you don't make any money. The problem is the sales person already spent ten dollars to get to work.
I agree if I was hiring a sales person, I would make the same decision as you.
Young, attractive females do over 100k in Pharm Sales...I worked for a company for a long time right out of high school. Should have never quit. Sure, you're still basically still a whore, but you're a high paid one with benefits, commission, and connections, and no degree is required. They "say" a marketing degree is preferred, but I have seen countless hotties hired on the spot. The Big Five are always hiring too. You put in a good 50 hours a week running around, then you get to go to dinners and on trips with select docs...well worth it.
Better living through chemistry...People can't live out the drugs.
...and what guy didn't go to med school, so he could buy pussy?
With the right personality, and the right product sales can be fairly lucrative
you're talking about the article in the Business section today. I would post a link but I don't believe it's allowed because it has specific names.
Instead of making up a company as an employer, I would probably advice things like:
-trying out entrepreneurship that didn't succeed
-taking care of an ill family member
-taking time off after being burnt out
-taking time off after being laid off to advance your education
There is definitely a snowball effect. In some industries/companies, people who have been laid off can be seen as less valuable than those who have a job or are recent college graduates because they were laid off, a stigma that somehow when the company was in trouble of efficiencies were essential they weren't needed to save it. It's unfortunate.
somebody picked the phone and gave you job related references and you even can create and website for the company
I have been evident how one family member gave reference to her brother .. as she was once upon a time his employer ..
she felt soo uncomfortable that I was seating there and overheard all conversation - we just worked in the same office
but even back then- before all this nonsense with strong work history and recent employment- was started ,
in 2004 even back then people were faking and employment and references I do not feel guilty at all do what ever it takes ..
I always say - Corporate world of America is a Pirate ship in the middle of the ocean where captain is ONLY one authority
do not have idea why they brain wash kids in colleges with corporate cultures motivation vision /mission, diversity and affirmative actions and Title 7 discriminations ..,
I think what you said will not work ..
may be for some other people .. for me - Nope .
It seems you do very well with this, but if you're unhappy, PM me your qualifications. I can at the very least try to help.
Thank you.
!!!!
I will !!!
Action, diversity or title 7.
I can assure that while those things exist the real world application is so very small that it is not a real factor in the hiring of women or minorities. The only exceptions are when companies have been found to be willfully discriminating or certain aspects of the public sector. Which is only right. Women and minorities pay taxes and some share of public contracts should go to those segments.
As far as all the BS about unqualified blacks being hired. Someone please tell me where that happens!!!!!!!!
I have a BS and MBA and from the very start I was put through the fucking ringer like you would not believe. So I can't imagine some uneducated black guy being given a great position just because he is black. No fucking way that is going to happen EVER NEVER EVER NEVER EVER.
If you believe that I got some swamp land in Florida that is a great buy.
I have seen many business owners transfer ownership over to their wives, for that very reason.
Entirely different. There is something called set asides. You have to be minority or a veteran to bid for the set sides. It is created to protect smaller contractors, i.e., small businesses from gobbling all federal contracts.
There is also stipulation on the amount of revenue the small business can have. Once, they pass the revenue ceiling they cannot bid. Veterans get the highest preference of all.
There are many businesses are in the names of veterans. In any case, minority owner must own >50%.
You brought up federal contracts...Who's confused?
I should have referenced construction contractors. Who bid on state, and locally funded jobs. This was before the fed stimulus, on infrastructure. I'm not totally sure, but I believe there are tax incentives. For hiring minority contractors, on private development projects as well.
You mentioned federal contracts, and Veterans. I think that has something to do with defense contractors, as to why Veteran owned companies are awarded federal contracts. My best uneducated guess.
Sure didn't take long to play the race card did it? And if you have two college degrees then you're O'bama. Your crap wears me out.
I can assure that while those things exist the real world application is so very small that it is not a real factor in the hiring of women or minorities. The only exceptions are when companies have been found to be willfully discriminating or certain aspects of the public sector. Which is only right. Women and minorities pay taxes and some share of public contracts should go to those segments.
As far as all the BS about unqualified blacks being hired. Someone please tell me where that happens!!!!!!!!
I have a BS and MBA and from the very start I was put through the fucking ringer like you would not believe. So I can't imagine some uneducated black guy being given a great position just because he is black. No fucking way that is going to happen EVER NEVER EVER NEVER EVER.
If you believe that I got some swamp land in Florida that is a great buy.
They hire most qualified person within their salary range. I have seen hundred’s of resumes and hired hundreds of people. The one consistent issue I have encountered is resume inflation. They inflate their experience and their degrees are from on-line education. When you start asking questions, can’t answer.
I was about hire an individual for 85K past Friday. When we checked his education (which he stated was from University of Maryland) turned that he went Maryland but never graduated.
Really don’t know what the fuck he was thinking?
I am not saying this is the case here but there are all sorts of crap going so, employers are very careful and most use Professional Background Checking firms.
The last one I can remember, I was interviewing for a part time entry level position, at a very large corporation. The only way one could possibly screw up on the job, once employed. Would be if you didn't show up for work. During the interview, they asked me so many questions. That I thought I applied for a position on the Board of directors.
I told then I'm hear to operate the forklift, not manage the company's finances.
One feels as if they're under Federal indictment in the current job market. A colonoscopy is a walk in the park compared to applying for a job now-a-days.
Jobs today require basic skills. It doesn’t matter whether you driving a fork lift, tractor trailer or pouring asphalt. They are controlled by technology so anyone who cannot add 2+2 and not get 4 is going to have one hell of problem.
As far white collar jobs are concerned, you better have your shit and be able to communicate. Most interviewers are trying to understand your thought process, and decision making style.
If you don’t have your shit and unable to communicate it effectively over the phone mostly for first interview, you are not getting past the gate keeper
The "Patriot Act" along with "Insurance Underwriters" have summarily by defacto law & rules nixed any chance of proving oneself to the "Gate Keepers".
I have 35 years in ground transportation; but because it has been over 6 months since I last drove a lightweight "Class C (Non-commercial) license" 'cube-van' I was summarily denied by an HR representative because "Their Insurance Carrier" stipulated "6 months or LESS professional in-activity" in the position.
I listed TEN different Pull-it out-your-Ass pre-interview reasons HR departments can simply pass on a candidate as "unacceptable" elsewhere in this thread. I'll list them again for your benefit
1. If you're over 45yo.
2. Too much education.
3. Too little education.
4. Formerly self employed or 1099 contractor.
5. Unemployed over 6 months.
6. Not employed doing the particular type job you're seeking for over 6 months.
7. Less than stellar credit rating.
8.Current IRS or State tax problems .
9. Criminal 'arrest' record (conviction is a worse story).
10. Medicate with a "Doctor prescribed drug" that Pfizer, Amgen, or Lilly do not currently market
I agree with you on the "caring" of the corporate machine....it doesn't. It is harsh and cruel. It will always make choices in its best interest and not in ours.
I can't speak to the other items you mention as I've not personally had experience with any of them. I do grow tired of the chew-you-up-spit-you-out mentality. But...I don't see that changing anytime soon
I started providing because I was out of work for over a year and I could not get a job and I ran into the same thing nobody wanted to talk to me because I was unemployed basically I have to kind of fun to make it look like I was never unemployed and finally got a law firm to interview me and luckily one of the lawyers that I interviewed with new another lawyer that I work with at a previous firm and he gave me a good reference that's how I got the job but if it wasn't for that who who knows how long I could have been unemployed
Or not so rhetorical questions..
What happens with company training of its employees?
as it always was ?
Of course I do know even Department of Defense now out source in order to reduce fixed costs .. overhead cost and such and such .. ( insurance, training ) etc ..
Why it is tendencies now in corporate culture for hiring someone wow would be as born within organization?
Fact is that NO one has this precise knowledge of particular task and what he is hired for.. it will vary company to company Especially in capitalistic systems - where even invoices are different format for every business - it was just under government control when whole country - from North to South from east to West had same templates for documents .. in states every small business can adopt whatever they want to .. so in fact all your candidates are in the same position - they have to learn - I think HR staff just hiring those who are more ... sales people .. can sell themselves better who created their own image better not those who actually have broader knowledge capability ..
your wording as A players Not A players sound as you are in video game not in reality .. or in sales ..
so .. it is not necessary the best minds are hired .. just those who can write better , talk better have better sales teachings - you are hiring an IMAGE not a person ..
I think it can apply and for escorting - IMAGE paid the most then real person
It upsets me terribly ...
Serafima,
I'm going to do my best to interpret and respond to some of your comments below. Don't take offense...but...your English is pretty rough so I may not be latching on to the precise points or questions your are attempting to raise.
What happens with company training of its employees?
as it always was ?
Of course I do know even Department of Defense now out source in order to reduce fixed costs .. overhead cost and such and such .. ( insurance, training ) etc ..
Why it is tendencies now in corporate culture for hiring someone wow would be as born within organization?
Fact is that NO one has this precise knowledge of particular task and what he is hired for.. it will vary company to company Especially in capitalistic systems - where even invoices are different format for every business - it was just under government control when whole country - from North to South from east to West had same templates for documents .. in states every small business can adopt whatever they want to .. so in fact all your candidates are in the same position - they have to learn - I think HR staff just hiring those who are more ... sales people .. can sell themselves better who created their own image better not those who actually have broader knowledge capability ..
To a degree, you are correct. Everyone will need to learn context to be successful at a new job. But, the amount of training required can vary dramatically depending on the skill set and experience they bring to the table. The hiring manager creates a job description and may also put together a list of required skills to even be considered for a role. For entry level roles, these requirements are less demanding. As the salaries go up, so do the requirements. Employers demand you bring more to the table to warrant a higher compensation.
For instance, let's say your escort business is picking up to the point that you need to hire someone to do your screening and maintain your calendar, etc. Since you are working in the states where English is the predominate language of your clientele, you will more than likely choose someone that also speaks English very well. You could hire someone that doesn't know English and then "train" them to do the job. But, that would require a significant investment of your time and resources to teach them English. The entire time you are training them, you have to pay them. If you have two candidates that are otherwise equally qualified for your position, you would be a wise and prudent business manager to choose the candidate that will complete training the fastest so that they start contributing sooner....and thereby reduce your expense as the business owner.
This is an extreme example, I admit. But, it's not that extreme. I've had to choose between two candidates for a role within my organization and the only separating characteristic during the interview phases was their English. The ESL was unfortunately not the best fit for the role.
Let's return to your escort business example from above. You've just hired a new screener/booker. He/she speaks wonderful English. However, after a time, you find out he/she is not completing your screening according to the guidelines you provided. Undesirable clients start showing up at your incall and you have some really bad sessions. Let me ask you...how long will you employ this screener/booker? They could be compromising your safety. My guess is that you'd have a very low tolerance for those types of performance issues.
In the civie business world...things don't usually get to a life/death point, thankfully. But, the point still applies. If you have a really good programmer on your software team...he/she will not want to work with shitty programmers. Because people that can write code are in very high demand, an adept programmer has more control over the working circumstances they tolerate. He/she could influence the development team manager to take corrective action to obtain better performance from a laggard employee...up to and including termination. If the manger does not act on these matters...the adept programmer will likely leave and find a better situation. This hurts the company..so..the manager is incentivized to prevent it.
The more in demand your skills are...the more control you have over your working circumstances. This is just simple economics. Supply and demand.
I think it can apply and for escorting - IMAGE paid the most then real person
It upsets me terribly ...
A good hiring manager will know the requirements of the job or involve others in the interview process that do. The idea is to avoid the bad hire in the first place. That's why skilled positions will have more hoops to jump through to be considered for the job. But, an "A-player" recognizes that and appreciates the scrutiny. This is actually an indicator that this company takes the hiring process seriously and cares about hiring people that are a good fit
They will not hire you. This is the reason most applications have the following questions:
Do you have any relatives working for the company or its divisions?
Has any of your relatives worked for the company or its divisions?
Most companies have strict rule against spouses working for the company and employees dating each other and getting married. If it does happen, in some companies, one has to leave and in some companies, both spouses cannot work for the same boss, and division.
Is this allowed by EEOC. Absolutely. EEOC only mandates equal treatment and as long as policy is applied uniformly, there are no issues with EEOC.
People blame numerous things that has nothing to do with them getting a job. Instead they need to think through the real reasons. There are many books, read a few and take the best ideas from all. Minimum of 3 books.
Most employers, hire based on a persons, corporate personality. When all the candidates have the same qualifications, you run out of options. On why I should hire Bob instead of John. I don't believe the majority of people benefit from this superficial system.
SecretMe11 is too full of himself to see reality. Just look at the drivel he posted in response to you.
If you're over 45yo.
Too much education.
Too little education.
Formerly self employed or 1099 contractor.
Unemployed over 6 months.
Not employed doing the particular type job you're seeking for over 6 months.
Less than stellar credit rating.
Current IRS or State tax problems .
Ever been "arrested" (conviction is another story).
Or use a Doctor prescribed drug that Pfizer, Amgen, or Lilly do not currently market
you can save yourself the time and trouble of sending your resume and filling out their "on-line" job application along with their insufferable "Aptitude" test.
It will be interesting too see what effect one's 'Gun Ownership' status will have on employment eligibility when a “National Gun Registration” is ultimately legislated. If they're having EVERYBODY pee in a cup NOW; what ever will happen when THAT data is available to the Human Resources Dept
You know of course this show? and one character there - Red
so as red said "
"if american government put tracking devices in your assess - you have to say "Thank you" and "God BlessAmerica
so as red said "
"if american government put tracking devices in your assess - you have to say "Thank you" and "God BlessAmerica"
If one applies for food-stamps the Government WILL inform you of ALL your rights on PAPER for your later reference. They even give you a list of every agency available if you feel your "RIGHTS" have been violated.
If you wish to earn a living you are commonly dealing with an "EMPLOYER" who if employs more than 200 individuals MUST abide by a truckload of "PATRIOT ACT" law. As we all know the "Patriot Act" has been the greatest violation to American Civil Liberties EVER! That along with the historical tendency of "Business" to exploit its workers one CANNOT exercise their "RIGHTS" if they wish to hold a job.
Employers are now regularly demanding Criminal "Arrest" history rather than a "Conviction" history("Innocent until proven guilty" has taken 3 giant steps backward if you need a job)
20 years ago mainly commercial airline pilots, tractor-trailer, heavy equipment operators and other high responsibility jobs required a job applicant to piss in a cup. Today selling Christmas trees in a shopping center parking lot requires a urological sample, and even if you have a ‘Doctors prescription’ for what is found in your urine you can be rejected for presence of the long past metabolized substance.
In short our Bill of Rights has been pimped to the corporations who will use, abuse and deny for whatever is in THEIR interest. And if you petition for your historical Civil Rights the Government will essentially say "Not my Job...Man"
Depending on where you live, employment is a hot commodity and once you have been out of the working force, employers do tend to question gaps between jobs. Even if it is for 6 months and not years. If you talk to many providers, you'll notice that quite a few have either taken up part-time work for their own reasons (ie health benefits, advancement for future career growth, etc) or have an entrepeneurial side project that if not brings--states the potential, to bring in financial profit and gain.
The key is to ALWAYS have a business plan/strategy in line for the sake of your CV. If someone doesn't and they are making a clean break back into a corporate atmosphere, lack of protecting yourself and credibility is on them. Best advice, always stay active in the community in ways that benefit your situation
Yes, putting career student and home maker on a resume does set you back, and it's harder than ever to get anyone to take you seriously. I've been turned down for being over qualified on one hand, and for not having enough experience on the other hand.
When you go into a Human Resources Dept. full of catty women for a Mgmt. position with a Master's Degree, they fear you will eventually take their job, so they blow you off....the CEO never knows about this, of course. OTOH, when you apply for a damn entry level position with that same degree, they think you're just taking any job you can get and will quit in six months when you find a better one. I have had more trouble finding a job in the last 2 years than I did right out of high school, and that's fkin sad. The job I took has NOTHING to do with my field, except that it is health related, but I am nowhere near the position my degree prepared me for. I took it, because I figured I had to start somewhere. The pay and benefits are decent, but the hours suck.
If you file for unemployment they look at that as a bad thing...that's just how it is. They fear you will do that to them if you don't work out at their co. and don't want to hire a person they might have to pay NOT to work in the future.
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First of it is not illegal because there is no discrimination of any kind involved. Company’s can have any policy as long as it is not discriminatory and applied uniformly to all applicants.
Second, I would say I was layer off from my last job, and I am did some part time work of short duration (depending on the type of work), it is not unusual, even for programmers to work on a contract for 10 days, a month or whatever. If it is forklift driver, they may work a day or two here and there.
The best policy always is to tell the truth and remembering there are 100 other companies out there for one idiot company
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Have him create a consulting business with a couple of friends as business refs. That would work for him. It is shame that he has to do this in order to get work. Got to play the game......I agree its ridiculous....trying to do the right thing and not being able to get ahead. Luck to your friend
that is exactly what I am talking about.
And it is not lying because the company is real (it is incorporated, which only costs $99 or less).
And you do work there. So what if you don't get a paycheck. Many companies have positions where it is eat what you kill (commission only).
The point I was trying to make to this guy is the rules have changed and you have to as well
While you might be able to get away with creating a fake company just to use as a reference, it's very likely to backfire if they spend any time at all checking. It's easy enough to play the reference game while still being honest that you should do so.
I know many guys that are over 50 and had high paying jobs $200k+ in industries that got killed in the crash. (golf, real estate and finance) Only 1 of them was able to get a full time job and that took 3 years. You are pretty much unemployable if you are over 50 in this world. Especially if you previously made big money.
My best friend's wife was the manager of Human Resources for the state's power company. Not long after she turned 50, her position was eliminated and she couldn't find another job. She was overqualified. She finally went to temp help places and got a few weeks of work here and there, and wound up making a fraction of what she'd made before being let go.
I never suggested she look into being a provider, but she could have been a star in the ebony niche. ![]()
Can kill your chances of landing a job very quickly
This is not always the case. Certain industries or skill sets...yes. It goes back to supply and demand. I'm not intimately familiar with finance or real estate industries...I work in web and data technology. If an employer can hire a 20 or 30-something yo for half the cost of a 50+ yo and get anywhere north of 50% production out of them....the math works in the employer's favor. Consequently, it will be harder for a higher-priced 50+ yo to get the same position. In my industry, programmers in a variety of specialties are in severe shortage. Big data/Hadoop, sas, hbase, hive, c#, Java, JavaScript, Mdx, SQL, ruby, HTML, flash, flex, html5, and on and on and on. If you have skill in any of these areas...you will not be limited by age whatsoever. We've hired four possibly even five (he looks old...not real sure his real age
) 50+ yo programmers in the last 6 months alone. These 4/5 are in addition to several other 50+ yo's already on the team. And, we pay top dollar for these people because their skills are so valuable.
So, while I agree that what SFTD is saying is likely true in some industries/skill sets...it is not universally true. That's why continuous improvement is so important. If your skills exist in a marketplace where demand is slipping...then you are wise to shift so that you can maintain a competitive edge. Look at the trajectory of hiring in your industry or in jobs with your skill set:
1) are they hiring/are there new jobs in your industry or field?
2) are they able to easily fill all the openings or are there constant shortages?
3) if they are hiring, do the hires tend toward the recent college grad end of the spectrum, the older/experienced side, or some distribution across the spectrum?
If they aren't hiring people with your skill set...or if there are way more people seeking those jobs than openings available...it's a buyers market. This is bad for you and good for the companies. It can mean the value of that role will go down (not always). If there are more jobs than people to fill them...it's a sellers market. You want to continuously develop your skills so that you exist in a high(er) or growing demand field. Right now...everything is technology and data. Coders, programmers, scripters, developers, dbas, etc can write their own ticket.
Some people choose to 'stay put'. I'm not trying to be critical of their choice...but...there are natural consequences. It does no good to blame "the world" when your choice leads to its natural end and you don't like it. If you choose to eat mcdonalds 3 meals a day...you're going to be one of two things...dead or a fat ass. Those are natural consequences of that continued choice
Try being on company disability for over a year and trying to get into a company, lol. My old company legally had to re-hire me, even for jobs I was over qualified for… i applied for 40 jobs within that company and they rejected every application… even though I was still officially an active employee.
Same thing with other employers. "So, may we ask why you've been our of work for over a year?"
You have to tell 'em. Then when you do, you're an instant liability. I wanted to say to their blank faces, "Don't worry about it. I know you're illegally going to say 'We found someone better who fits the position' in an email, so I'll illegally go…
Anywhoo, I think it's six months. May have changed, I started applying and interviewing while still sick in five months after my leave started.
But your company idea is extremely amazing IMO. Saying, "I ventured out to start my business." I'm writing little magazine articles and things like that for samples, and have done a couple resumes, have a shit ton of my own writing done, etc. A portfolio, etc.
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I need to get a job by the end of December and I've been "unemployed" for over a year and a half. However I know SOMEONE will hire me, even if it's McDonald's or Walmart. I think that most people who complain they are unemployed are only applying for jobs in their field and refuse to go to the bottom of the totem pole. Sometimes you just have to work your way up, that's how life goes I guess.
So it was old russian joke ..
as you know and Russia and States has and prostitution and alcoholism
... and yes .. those two problems has to be addressed by social services in states .. and Party in USSR .. so they decided collaborate - US and USSR - already a joke yes ?
so .. russians asking americans - what do you do with those people
Americans
- we send them to rehabs.. to colleges .. women becoming good wives mothers and men alcoholics becoming fully functional members of the society
so .." what do you do to address those problems" Americans asking Russians-
Russian answer was -
"we breed them and we have good sales people"
So here was free add for Russian DDDBabe ha ha ha ..
enjoy your clientele .. darling ..
again .. as soon as I see on reviews you went to her - you never will see me then. applying nd to those who already went to her and now trying book with me - go repeat there .
and the real reason HR people flat out tell you that you are only suitable for massage parlors ..
Ready? It is not your English. It is your fucked up attitude.
Should I remind you the time when you begged me to do doubles? Or about the time when you were emailing me non stop asking to share an apartment with you?
Sorry but I don't do crazy.
Feel free to direct potential clients to my ads and website. Oh, wait - there are no ads and no website. Could it be because I am ... omg ... no longer advertising?
I am .. Iam not a blond - but as in Movie "legally Blond" it is my type
Iam red head .. though
I agree with you actually you got it .. about my attitudes
You got it .. but I do not care what other would think about me. Smart men people would know why Iam that way if they do ot know - they would make steps to meet me and learn I do have nice reviews which shows me normal sweet woman as well so as how I talk here to those who never be my clients I do not care
I wish you the best My dear and I promise not to say one word any more
I do feel when someone say s right things it is my attitude yes .
... BUT but . trust me I am normal I am just sooo tied to be politically correct
in states always I do escorting BY reasons
..I do not care how I come across nor I try to be not who I am
.. I am not here to marry .. then I never will marry if he would not like my ways .
it is how Monro said - “I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
then again her words- everything happens for reasons ..I do belie in that .. - I am here just becuase I do not want hide myself and pretend and here I am as I am .. not bad person at all .. just take time to know me Iam all but mean .. and I
I wish you the best My dear and I promise not to say one word any more
I do feel when someone say s right things it is my attitude yes .
. but yet still can not get why begging doubles can disqualify me as professional lets say in accounting woman ?
Doubles no crazy .. and it is a help for older man have fun and make his woman be happy .. she also can invite other girl please him
Iam open ..
Iam not a crazy at all in long ran I just love to get it off from the beginning then talk and kiss and do it again not as Iam always in to active mood but yes .. Iam not asian nor you ... yI bet you love fuck too active one not just oral..
Doubles are for me- not often I do it in states because it is never as I can do and enjoy and I do not do for money only doubles .. but for experiment
not as I am better because I do it and you not .. no .. but you know one other russian lady was mad on me because I do Greece and she said - you make me look bad because I say to men Russians do not do greek .. who cares .. Russian not Russian..
We all are Earth citizens
I am legally" blond" ha ha yes I do know that - naive as .. as .. sometime even can t believe myself how come Iam in my age of over 35 able still have soooo naive believes and feelings .. yet my mind is tiger on its tale .. and Iam soooo good in numbers .. ah . answer is
MY IQ type is Mathematician Spatial and MY personality type is ENTP - The Visionary read about it online if you wish find out more about me as person I feel in escorting I am known and performing ONLY on 35 % and still have 10 there is just has to be VERY alike men to enjoy me I am balancing between hobby and pleasure and work
I am sure you are as well - I do respect you actually - you got it all straight - you not advertising - you are NOT proud PROVIDER ha ha i you know what I mean .. and those who bulling me they do bull me NOT just for my attitudes- they do not like idea that I not say Iam hooker for you I am provider for you My dear DDDbabe .. you are the same .... you are NOT advertising any more - I wish you my best my dear ..you re NOT proud to be a provider .. yet why not love sex ? davalka .. not word to be proud? but yet we are sexy
Kissess to you
- nice Good luck to you in all I want say sister .. but we never say that In Russian
so you got it .. I will drink shoot of samagon for your success in all I am all - but mean
I would not say one word any more mean or what ever ..I just was .. responding .. now all clear
Love to you
let s my attitudes not to be a problem between us nor other intelligent people here
it was all miscommunication
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what I see ??
let me demonstre just on 2 examples -
1. casher - russian girl cashier - how she processed all - I shop heavy as 2 baskets of all may be 100 items .. sooo how about that she ringed all in less then 2 min ??
Wow wow and WWWWWOOOWWW I was laughing and told there - nd americans think I am energized ..
2. National Restaurant - go there for parties as Ukrainian national day .. Jewish holidays nd singles evens once a month - have you seen EVER people dance that way ??!!! Iam from Russia myself - Iam going wow wow and WOOOWWWWW .. it is as in speed up movie women stand in horovod and spinning the way that I do not see their legs feet .. it is just blurry ... from the speed ..
and again I got on my mind
- what would say our TER men when they say I AM TOO MUCH ..
Iam half American now.. trust me..
I need go there more often not too losse this fire
3
I am here kind of under the fire from my sister DDDbabe that I am crazy loving 3 somes ..
let me share - where else you saw 2 men approaching one women inviting her to dance floor - TOGETHER dancing erotically TOGETHER everybody is ok with such ..
so it is NOT crazy in Russian community
even our grandmas and grandpas have pic as 3 some s - not sex of course just he is in the middle and two girls by side -
she is in the middle and tow boys by her side ?? DDDbabe .. agree or not ??
and those pics standing next to wedding pics in family albums .. so it is customs ..
always whenIam on Briton I wonder .. and why it is that my american men say I m wild too much energy crazy .. iam pretty normal for being from Russia
I guess .. half Americanized already but DDD babe Knows what I talk about when she said - IT WAS NOT hardcore .. you yet have it if you wish
I can pull it and in hardcore if needed and is mood for that but generally ..I am .. not so crazy.. so do not fear us Russians.. or those who are from russia .. there now on political board some news I responded too have desire check it out sorry as always for English but I am learning with your help
yet I never be sorry for who I am
Iam good person and am very sexy
too bad in russian you can not understand it to put short
- she never promised her heart to anybody
Love sex friendship ..promise and hate life with no obligations
with no values with no goals so .... who is moth who is flame ...
moral do not burn your wings and fly free I do love and video and words also I love dance and act and make love and promise and give but can not guarantee internal love
I thought you were some kinda investment banker advising clients on capital structure and strategic finance options.
OH WAIT THAT'S ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
First you claim to know about the insurance industry and now you are "somehow" hiring sales people at no pay!!!! LOL
Here is a tip. Slavery has been illegal in this country for a long time. May want to open a history book. Assuming you can read.
Compare Serafimas' reviews and yours and she blows you out the box. Big time.
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1) The jury is still out on you being an investment banker dear . If you truly are advising anyone on capital structure and strategic finance options, this country is even in deeper shit than we thought.
2) Yes I am hiring sales people for commission based jobs.
You know the ones where you have to WORK and SELL products/services in order to EARN your living. I understand that for you it is hard to grasp, but I am not welfare office and have no intention to hand out checks for no work.
3) I am not negative - i just have low tolerance level for self promoting attention seeking pompous pretentious shitheads of either sex. I had to kinda watch what I say until recently but being EX hooker has its benefits.
4) I know my reviews are terrible. This is why I was on NYC's top 100 without having to take it up the ass ![]()
Ask yourself this genius. If I was going to pretend to be "something" why wouldn't I pick Doctor, Pro Athlete or Movie Star.
News flash: Investment Bankers aren't exactly held in high regard now a days (some of it justly deserved). For a while there I would tell people at my kids functions "I work @ XYZ bank". Which is technically true. But there are several facets of banking. But you know this right.
See unlike you some of us don't have to pretend at what we do. I am an Investment Banker. Trust me it is not as special as you think. But to people like you who have nothing you think it is a big deal. But that's not my fault its' yours.
And yes anyone can read your reviews and Serafimas she blows you out the box and off the planet. Period end of story. Nothing to see here move along.
As far as your phony ass business. Please!!!!!!!!! Here is a tip selling vitamin supplements, cosmetics or home alarm systems run by some multi level marketing bullshit company is NOT REAL.
GO GET A REAL FUCKING JOB AND PAY YOUR TAXES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You obviously don't know who's who or what's what ! Yeah their are also TS providers outscoring top girls do you want them too ? And the American Serefima rates high too !
When you ever figure it out let me know, as far as lina , her reviews are solid ! As a provider professional . And as a lady one with class !
Yeah those guys on TV picking trash put a high value on the garbage they pick but its still TRASH !
News flash: Investment Bankers aren't exactly held in high regard now a days (some of it justly deserved). For a while there I would tell people at my kids functions "I work @ XYZ bank". Which is technically true. But there are several facets of banking. But you know this right.
See unlike you some of us don't have to pretend at what we do. I am an Investment Banker. Trust me it is not as special as you think. But to people like you who have nothing you think it is a big deal. But that's not my fault its' yours.
And yes anyone can read your reviews and Serafimas she blows you out the box and off the planet. Period end of story. Nothing to see here move along.
As far as your phony ass business. Please!!!!!!!!! Here is a tip selling vitamin supplements, cosmetics or home alarm systems run by some multi level marketing bullshit company is NOT REAL.
GO GET A REAL FUCKING JOB AND PAY YOUR TAXES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
For the record, "investment banker" may seem like a big deal to YOU, here in NYC they are dime a dozen.
And you are correct they are not held in high regard, they are more like despised.
I don't know why you picked that particular pretend job ... but then you like your providers to eat cotton candy while wearing clown costumes so I guess IB fantasy is not that inconceivable.
As for taxes, I pay both corporate and personal so dont worry, your food stamps are coming.
Did you finally figure out the difference between loss reserves and escrows? Gotta know that stuff if you are going to advise your insurance clients on that one.
FYI - I will call your bullshit every time i see it. Get used to it.
at least not about their own industry.
I bet RT is somewhere in the banking industry, and likes to call himself an "investment banker" to make himself feel like less of a loser. No real investment banker is going to lose an argument to a HOOKER of all people in a discussion about banking matters. lmao
One other thing about any investment banker worth his/her salt, they don't give a fuck whether people like them or not, they pull down 7 digits minimum and could care less what a bunch of hookers and johns think about them. Now a bank clerk like RT? well that's quite a different story
I honestly never met anyone who insisted on calling himself "Investment Banker", and I have met a few of those who actually ARE in investment banking.
And they usually make a bit more than 94k a year.
DDDBabe you are in sales correct?
so check it and stop envy me that I do marketing and NOT as a hooker
http://www.coachingforchange.com/pub06.html
then anal sex is good an not demeaning at all I wonder for what men pay you at all ?? with your messed up undersanding of sexuality ? O boy .. if you was doing it for 800 then I should 8000 ...
by the way there is no such ex hooker recent hooker or hooker to be ha ha
woman who was hooker she is a hooker
for the rest of the life
and it is not if she sells sex any more or not - it is about her messed up personality in most cases
it is academical example on you- you seems quite the business yet you kept attitudes of hooker - be mean and bitter why?
what is wrong ?
better promote yourself that all I mean what you do now .. whatever it is and I wish you best I did tried lift you up to my level I am failed - you did show yourself true you again in this words
self promoting attention seeking pompous pretentious shitheads
i
PURE water jealousy and stupidity sorry sister..
stop show more of your hooker habbits to m be mean to people .. bad bad bad hooker ha ah a not enjoying take it up to ass a ??? ha ha what for you paid for ? to be mean as hell fat and not classy ?
1) Write in shorter sentences and use paragraphs more liberally.
2) Proof read.
You would be amazed how extra few minutes spent on post can positively affect the responses.
3) Try not to insult pretty much EVERYONE on this board.
There is literally not one single post you have made where you did not insult at least part of the community.
4) Try not to add to every single post "i am the best".
If you ARE the best you should not have to say it repeatedly
5) There is difference between Regional AD boards and Discussion Boards.
There is hard marketing (ads) and soft marketing (discussion boards). Self promotion via discussion boards should not be THAT blatant. Its a turn off to both men and women.
6) Finally, try actually READING what people say before posting.
Desperately trying to do its because nobody's buying ! Yeah some guy throws her a "pity fuck" every know an then , guess its like charity work ! And if I had to guess her scale slidesssssss downward ! Drives= junk , wears =nothing ( that crap got thrown out ) talks =shit ! That about sums her up ...
Lina trying to explain normal to stupid will never work , and these two are stupid !
L8r xoxo...
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2) Proof read.
You would be amazed how extra few minutes spent on post can positively affect the responses.
3) Try not to insult pretty much EVERYONE on this board.
There is literally not one single post you have made where you did not insult at least part of the community.
4) Try not to add to every single post "i am the best".
If you ARE the best you should not have to say it repeatedly
5) There is difference between Regional AD boards and Discussion Boards.
There is hard marketing (ads) and soft marketing (discussion boards). Self promotion via discussion boards should not be THAT blatant. Its a turn off to both men and women.
6) Finally, try actually READING what people say before posting.
Photo Mr.Chow !!!!
And thens there's the "Boy George" !!!
And the "Michael Jackson"
Zoo commercial with one hooker acting as a Panda in the zoo ..
ah .. better hyaena do you have idea about whom I do talk about
as for ex hooker it is surprises you a sale concept
or as person who claims to be in the sales ? you know you sold yourself with all you guts
- You are jealous kind of primitive and do not enjoy sex that all
I doubt you will succeed and in your civic sale work you do not understand basics of marketing is mean and is Russian Ex Hooker ... decent americans will stay away from such combination ..and here men stay aways just because you are not smart to say all that about anal sex - even you do not do it - it is NOT demeaning .. you show yourself not sexy at all plus you are just .. just fat go hit some fitness room after you drink coca cola
Gentlemen - lok at my post above I was giving a hand to this stupid hooker .. she still not figure out that beein mean is not sexy .. speak and type broken English is way better
kissess gentlemen and .. follow all our conversations I know you american men - you will find the answer on all. Stop her please if you want be with me one day sooner or earlier
I know it will be many asking now :
All I did was to give you kind and constructive advise.
Keep this up, so far this has been one of the most entertaining threads.
gave advice ONLY if you are asked?
truly you are from soviet Russia, seems you are not too old?
why sooooo sooo soviet oriented ?? No anal sex .. advices when they are not asked .. no fitness habits, no style,
Go away!! you are pathetic with your advices and your taboos about sexuality and repeating all over over - ..
why you need talk to me at all may I ask ? what bothers you dear?
My nala skills? Money I make? my look? what?
I openly admit - I am meeting men here and it is what for Iam here
I DO LOVE SEX
unlike you
allof kind I do love men
allof kind
I am intelligent enough not gave advices when Iam not asked
So I already have about a dozen PM asking me not stop to post and ignore you.. and I told them - see her - not ask me then
soo you are just loosing your buz here if you do not need buz and sex what you do here then ?
No need to answer everybody knows ...
Take care You are on ignore now
I can't understand a fkin thing you are writing, but I can easily pick up the tone. Putting down another woman's physical appearance is simply elementary, yet you've done it a dozen times. Wake up...you're far from all that, or you might be able to do something OTHER than spread your legs for a living. You might not be nuts, but you sure the hell come across that way. Anyone (you) who has to go on and on and oooooon about how sexy they are, is in fact the exact opposite. Classy people never say they are classy. Any idiot from the ghetto knows that.
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just going mad on me that I do love anal? and is soo jealous that I do provide it .. you know you are not first russian woman who approached me here before on TER but she done it privately - she said me following
can you stop provide anal sex because I tell to my clients that we Russians not doing it it was Katay Zaiko she is banned from TER
My dear DDDBabe I advise you do not bother me yes .. because Iam good in what I do anal not anal .. many men do not need anal at all but they say 0 good to know that all is available . and you ?? you feel as .. as.. you are hooker fucked up to ass and it is feels demeaning for you or what ?
sems word hooker did not hurt you so then what? you know dear .. if I would be you and if I would love have sex at list sometime not often .. as you said you do it - then then stop bother me or you will loose last one men - I told them - have seen DDDBabe .. I can not see you
they love me they already I think not booking with you because of that .. any way .. take care and refrain "sister" from Plagiarism I know it is always easy to repeat what already was told and hard to be original
but if you would try some other place not under my postings - be NOT as Russia was .. if you know Sovet translates advice Country of advises a ?? NEVER gave advice unless you mot asked for that Ask your fellows americans they will confirm such statements finally become an american stop be justRussian DDbabe .. ex hooker OMg //
Iam get exited just talk to you what I will do when you be gone from my horizons Iam already can t live with no you stupid Plagiarism..
Anyway, we start talking and this guy tells me he has been unemployed for a year. OK, I get it (I am not judging anyone). Then he starts to tell me his "story". And I became real pissed at this fucked up society we have created!!!!!!!!!!
3 companies have told him to his face "we don't hire the unemployed". How the fuck is this not ILLEGAL LIKE 10 FUCKING TIMES OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So then I come home and wadda ya know there is an article in the NY Times about this same shit.
So I am curious if a woman has been providing for several years "how does she explain that when she goes back to work"
And don't give me any shit you have to go back to work at some point.
For the record my advice to this guy was this: rent a mailbox at the UPS store. Incorporate a company for $99. Get a google voice mail box. Make up a company name and put that on your resume as your current employer. Fuck it. If corporate America plays dirt then you play dirt too. BTW this works for Providers as well.
Subscribe to their own advice?
I had to take a $12K pay cut. But it was Ok I was not married and did not have kids.
So I moved to a cheaper apartment, stopped going out so much and things actually got better. Go figure.
The job was about a step or 2 below what I had previously. But I could not take the 1st job anymore. I was bout to go postal on my boss. I mean I fucking hated this guys guts. Could not stand to be within 4 feet of him.
18 months later I got my dream job as an Investment Banker. So in the end it worked out.
But my point of the original post was that this is bullshit to tell someone we don't hire the unemployed.
IMO it is right up there with No Black, Irish, Jews or dogs.
No wonder the economy has not recovered.
Wait… you meant it's bullshit that people don't hire unemployed, correct? Not saying the guy who asked was bullshitting.
Another thing… about the less pay thing… you're exactly right, a lot of people learn, (or start exercising their knowledge,) to condense their spending/need for things.
There are people who lose jobs but want the same lifestyle, so they deplete their savings, then start taking loans, then borrowing from family, then friends, then strangers, etc… it's crazy.
I'm eating easy mac. Not ordering room service, oh hell no lol.
Probably 20%. I offer advice, but exercise it when I remember to… lol
After having provided for about a year, earlier this year, I decided to go back to being a "normal person" and applied for some entry level stuff. My age probably has a lot to do with this, but just claiming that I took time off to travel (and then talking about my travels) worked in that I got plenty of callbacks. That probably wouldn't work for a more long-term provider, but, just start your own business, right? That's my plan.
I'm not an economist, but I've read quite a few book on the subject so maybe I am an educated layman. We're in a recession. Many big companies aren't hiring because of the uncertainty, so maybe you can create your own future with an LLC and a bigger and better mousetrap or are a provider who is essentially a black market independent contractor. It really isn't anything more than this...As far as hiring goes, many times it is who you know or perhaps what you know, but usually it is who you know and whether you play well with others...
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