So.. A provider released a short film that didn't portray escorts in the best manner.. I am not judging this girl.. But she said things in regards to.. While the guy is on top she's staring at her manicure.. That was probably one of the nicer things..
The guys, understandably so, called her every name in the book.
I appreciate all sides
so some guy giving you money cant call you his bitch ? I heard your bf called you that for free I AM ONLY JOKING , ..lol
and yes I don't like you . but rod does , and he will beat up anyone who calls you names .. just put a disclaimer on your website no foul language during sex you find it offensive ..
if I may, did something happen that made you write this ? and when you said you don't care .. sure you do , if you didn't you wouldn't have wrote this .. so maybe be more specific...but people don't always get along , that's life and you don't have to please everyone .. but maybe lighten up a bit , and look at things from a different perspective ... have a great week xoxo
The guys, understandably so, called her every name in the book.
So.. There are guys here who are degrading, rude, nasty, hostile.. A lady replies to it basically telling them to stop being a dick and all of a sudden that lady is a bitch. It's not only me who replies, other ladies do. Others PM. Others just don't visit the GD board due to the hostility.
I know there are double standards in life.
This issue has nothing to do with the men pay for it, the ladies have to put up with it.
We are allowed to say no. We aren't governed by any law that says we have to be an equal opportunity.
This is a public board. It's neither the mans board nor the ladies board.
I personally don't care if someone doesn't like me.. I just wonder why if a lady says something negative about the men that they get reprimanded, but when a lady does it to a guy who is doing the exact same thing.. Well, apparently were not allowed to do that. Like this is some country in the Middle East or 1940 when women had to stay quiet.
I would appreciate some honest non angry feedback by some of the more reasonable people on the boards..
I know we will never all get along. I know this isn't a rose garden where we frolic barefoot and have to enjoy all of the simple things in life. I just want to know why the double standard. Why can the men bash the women as a whole (I'm not talking about in a review) and think they can get away with it.
Ready for thoughts on this.
I appreciate all sides.
Would you like me to go away before or after I answer your questions?
Solution: ignore user button.
see know your fun , quick witty . I like the question thing you did ...I would do that .. look be yourself and maybe be a little open minded since your not really old yet .. but I don't know your true motive for your post so id say ...I don't really know ..but have some fun and I think theyres more to your story ... xoxo.. really have a nice week ....
Solution: ignore user button.
There is a huge difference between cracking jokes here and there and constantly spewing hatred. That's the point of this post.
In adults, aggression can develop from negative life experiences or mental illness. In some cases, people who suffer from depression, anxiety, or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) unintentionally exhibit aggressive behaviors as a result of their condition. For those without an underlying medical or emotional disorder, aggressive behavior is usually a response to frustration. It can also occur when someone stops caring about others or the consequences of their behavior.
Kinda on subject here is a story to lighten the mood . I was talking to two guys at beach across street 2 summers ago. The building i live in has bad wrap because they allow section 8 and i am not making fun or classifying but many many see that as inviting lower end or trouble into a what could be a nice building. So conversation has arose in neighborhood about how these were intended to be nice apts then they let all the section 8 s in and it became like a ginormous project . So never the less. these two guys say . "yeah but you gotta live amongst the shit!"
Refering to how i pay alot at 1750 for a tiny one bedroom with no closet space. Some say thats alot but for Boston it is cheap. It aint alot especially not for an escort. So anyways they made a wise crack about "having to pay alot but then ya gotta live among the shit." This was kinda to me the same attitude they take on here . Very yang, very uncompassionate un motherly. Rough primitive, i see men as just having at times a uncompassionate rough, yang , place they stand,.
My response to them and i was furious is... There are all vets living in my building that godam fought for this country! They risked thier godam lives for our freedom and your calling that living among the shit?" Many and all vets should all be taken care of after returning from war and yes section 8 is what they give many of them and i have a few neighbors they have ptsd and luckily they have section 8. What in gods name how can you say "yeah but ya gotta live among the shit."
Like people with mental or physical disabilities are shit?
I feel sorry for any one whom cant wwork for whatever there reason, and wouldnt call them or any human "shit"
especially not vets. These two gents were young nice dressed handsome faces. But to hear the negativity and uncompassion and stupidity, I have had family that raised in projects , uncle aunt cousins. To me just making fun of people to me is just crappy. But it is a sign of sadness mental illness and things. you have to find ciompassion in your heart and just chaulk it up as a loss. They wont ever get to meet you and thats thier problem, i have wise cracks even one person once responded whatever her fate may be I hope it is quick and painless! Some the aliases get pretty nuts and hostile, Just keep in mind , is it my friends from the street.answer no. Is it my regulars? answer no. Is it guys i met or know? answer no .
Do you have any one talk to you like that in real life to you face ? answer no. So dont give em a second glance. Ignore emand use this board to attract like minded people and network and enjoy seeing all the different brains god has created and how wonderful {most} of them are. I like the boards to show a different perspective and hear different perspectives. Most the posts are positive and have some good advice and alot , most the times they are funny,
Just put them on ignore and dont let some one you ve never met and never will meet rent space in your head. ................Or you can give em hell back if in mood. Or if some one is actually bashin you dont worry.
remeber this jz quote
"Loud as a motor bike, but wouldnt bust a grape in a food fight."
The ones with the loud mouths trying too hard to show they are super smaht , superior, tough, its usually quite the opposite, If your trying to look or act tough chances are your probly some one who s never even been in a street fight. probly never will, and if they do . well. we will never know because these people that go bananas from an alias and they never met ya. Dont worry about em,... Just tell em to come book and appt and see if they will say same shit in person? They wont. !!!!!So dont worry, about em.
your an italian right>?
so ..."Don Worry about it...." !!!!!!
I don't know enough about what Alyssa talking about ...but I agree with you 100% .. hate is a bad thing and again thanks for "your reply" .xo
Kinda on subject here is a story to lighten the mood . I was talking to two guys at beach across street 2 summers ago. The building i live in has bad wrap because they allow section 8 and i am not making fun or classifying but many many see that as inviting lower end or trouble into a what could be a nice building. So conversation has arose in neighborhood about how these were intended to be nice apts then they let all the section 8 s in and it became like a ginormous project . So never the less. these two guys say . "yeah but you gotta live amongst the shit!"
Refering to how i pay alot at 1750 for a tiny one bedroom with no closet space. Some say thats alot but for Boston it is cheap. It aint alot especially not for an escort. So anyways they made a wise crack about "having to pay alot but then ya gotta live among the shit." This was kinda to me the same attitude they take on here . Very yang, very uncompassionate un motherly. Rough primitive, i see men as just having at times a uncompassionate rough, yang , place they stand,.
My response to them and i was furious is... There are all vets living in my building that godam fought for this country! They risked thier godam lives for our freedom and your calling that living among the shit?" Many and all vets should all be taken care of after returning from war and yes section 8 is what they give many of them and i have a few neighbors they have ptsd and luckily they have section 8. What in gods name how can you say "yeah but ya gotta live among the shit."
Like people with mental or physical disabilities are shit?
I feel sorry for any one whom cant wwork for whatever there reason, and wouldnt call them or any human "shit"
especially not vets. These two gents were young nice dressed handsome faces. But to hear the negativity and uncompassion and stupidity, I have had family that raised in projects , uncle aunt cousins. To me just making fun of people to me is just crappy. But it is a sign of sadness mental illness and things. you have to find ciompassion in your heart and just chaulk it up as a loss. They wont ever get to meet you and thats thier problem, i have wise cracks even one person once responded whatever her fate may be I hope it is quick and painless! Some the aliases get pretty nuts and hostile, Just keep in mind , is it my friends from the street.answer no. Is it my regulars? answer no. Is it guys i met or know? answer no .
Do you have any one talk to you like that in real life to you face ? answer no. So dont give em a second glance. Ignore emand use this board to attract like minded people and network and enjoy seeing all the different brains god has created and how wonderful {most} of them are. I like the boards to show a different perspective and hear different perspectives. Most the posts are positive and have some good advice and alot , most the times they are funny,
Just put them on ignore and dont let some one you ve never met and never will meet rent space in your head. ................Or you can give em hell back if in mood. Or if some one is actually bashin you dont worry.
remeber this jz quote
"Loud as a motor bike, but wouldnt bust a grape in a food fight."
The ones with the loud mouths trying too hard to show they are super smaht , superior, tough, its usually quite the opposite, If your trying to look or act tough chances are your probly some one who s never even been in a street fight. probly never will, and if they do . well. we will never know because these people that go bananas from an alias and they never met ya. Dont worry about em,... Just tell em to come book and appt and see if they will say same shit in person? They wont. !!!!!So dont worry, about em.
your an italian right>?
so ..."Don Worry about it...." !!!!!!
I'm actually Irish, but...
I'm fortunate to have a childhood friend who always works in the sex industry.. We can discuss things with each other..
I was talking about this to her.
She said something along the lines of some people are just negative.
Here was her example dialogue,
"Where are you from?"
"Vegas!"
"Oh? Really? I would never be able to live there.. It must suck. All of the crazy drunk, homeless,...."
"Why do you say that? Have you ever been?"
"Well, no... But....... "
She says that sometimes people just want to make conversation, but their negative minds don't allow them.
Like, why wouldn't some just reply, "Oh. How is it living there?" Why not just ask?
And then combining a negative attitude with two others things:
1) Internet courage
2) Men feeling the need to impress other men that they do not know
That a primal instinct will come out.
She took a marketing class to help be more financially successful and learned that women will only try to impress ones that feel to be in competition with. Men want to impress everyone. I guess I can understand it, but they say it can suck being a woman.. Man.. If I had to impress every guy on here.
And before I go any further, as people like Curly/Jack can't seem to understand this.. I am not discussing this as all men. Or a black&white statement. I'm discussing this to the people that it applies to
Fist off they dont call em the fightn' Irsih for nuthn so. Your heritage may play a part in your fighting rebel spirit. Some may not be accustomed to it depnding on heritage of thier mothers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
In psychology men will be drawn to women like thier mother as thier mother was the first version of what a female should be acting like. Maybe the rougher Irish Boston Clients will be more your pace. You should do a Boston Tour and see. I know guys around Boston in my experience i never encountered any clients acting like some the ruder personas on the boards.
So when they piss you off next time tell them this one in Gaelic.
"Iss min-ick a vvish bay- al din-eh ahrone."
which in English translates to, "Many a time a man's mouth broke his nose.
Just remeber why they are gettn thier rocks off on a board where you cant actually reach out and break thier nose. They probly never fihgt in real life so this is thier chance. Disrespect verbal threats. Most cant and never have been tough in real time and never will be or as said above. In real life they d never talk to people that way, trust me i been a memeber for 3 years or more, and been doing massage for memebrs the ter community for over 13 years , My first massage parlour was in southie in 2000. Back then it was HOLLYWOOD massage, Any ways, Trust me the big mouths and tough guys, You will never meet them in real life, they are just getn thier rocks off playn out a fantasy they want to feel powerful and strong but trust and believe you will never meet them in real life and the one being mean to you trust me they will never book an appt and let you know hi i am the one that talked shit to you under xyz alias past year and a half, My experience i have beef or some aliases have beef with me, i never met em, they never revealed them selves or came to see me, and if they did they were cowards and kissed my ass when here, cuz like i said i havent any any clients i had to crack any skulls of in like, hmmm last guy i had to send the e.r. that was.............................................
I was 26 so that was. 7 years ago. He shorted my girlfriend, big mistake,
Its ok the 27 staples he got after driving himself to e.r. taught him never to do that, He had messed with providers before too, He had track record of being abusive. Any ways, They will never come approach in real life and where you irsih aand stuff i am sure you can scrap so just dont sweat it and just pray they reveal themselves to you one day so you can give em the old fashioned irish beat down they deserve.
If your dad is irish i am sure he taught you basics on fighting , Mine did. Most irish dads will make sure thier littlegirl knows how to crack skulls if need be, so just dont worry bout em, I like your post . I like crazy and i like the irish, i am biased UI lived in southie with my nana all my childhool. {my mum or dad couldnt handle me only nana could.} so hey they dont call us the fightn itish for nothin in its your veins to fight, .....................Just be one with the rage princess.
So what is the second Gaelic saying?
Now that I got that out of the way.
Your post is conflicting, first you talk about an illegal enterprise. Then go on about women's rights. Should the state support your right to profit from illegal activity?
Isn't that a double standard, as far as DS go?
The guys, understandably so, called her every name in the book.
So.. There are guys here who are degrading, rude, nasty, hostile.. A lady replies to it basically telling them to stop being a dick and all of a sudden that lady is a bitch. It's not only me who replies, other ladies do. Others PM. Others just don't visit the GD board due to the hostility.
I know there are double standards in life.
This issue has nothing to do with the men pay for it, the ladies have to put up with it.
We are allowed to say no. We aren't governed by any law that says we have to be an equal opportunity.
This is a public board. It's neither the mans board nor the ladies board.
I personally don't care if someone doesn't like me.. I just wonder why if a lady says something negative about the men that they get reprimanded, but when a lady does it to a guy who is doing the exact same thing.. Well, apparently were not allowed to do that. Like this is some country in the Middle East or 1940 when women had to stay quiet.
I would appreciate some honest non angry feedback by some of the more reasonable people on the boards..
I know we will never all get along. I know this isn't a rose garden where we frolic barefoot and have to enjoy all of the simple things in life. I just want to know why the double standard. Why can the men bash the women as a whole (I'm not talking about in a review) and think they can get away with it.
Ready for thoughts on this.
I appreciate all sides.
What does this being illegal have anything to with respect?
Your reply would make more sense to me if you were a so called outsider.. But you're also partaking in the same activity.
How is the state having anything to do with me fit in to this? I pay taxes, so yes.. If I am harmed I do expect the state to help me as I help it.
Are you enjoying your cigarette?
Like these babes. lol
But thanks for continuing to demonstrate your twisted "logic" and your monumental toolishness.
As well the other posters can reply in kind.
The only thing that I look for in a post(er) is some intelligence...logic...interesting ideas or thoughts.
It is irrelevant to me if the poster is man, woman, hooker, john, reviewer, non-reviewer, brown envelope or alien. It's the relevance of the comments that I find interesting. When someone posts up something I find stupid...I'll question their post. They have every right to retort with ad hominem or to converse in kind.
I have often agreed with many of the hookers here who try and tell some lovelorn johnnie boy that she's all about the money. I often bash johnnie boys who kow tow to hookers simply for the sake of shilling (which is fine on the regional boards...but on the GD it is pathetic). As well faux ads belong on the ad boards.
All boards have their trolls, champions, keyboard warriors and so on. This one is no different.
As we discussed a few days ago...respect is earned. Just as IRL posters are given the opportunity to find a niche here. Some like to be assholes all the time, some are assholes some of the time, as well some are never assholes unless they use their alias.
Find your niche and ignore the posters that you don't care to read. It's an option...exercise it.
The guys, understandably so, called her every name in the book.
So.. There are guys here who are degrading, rude, nasty, hostile.. A lady replies to it basically telling them to stop being a dick and all of a sudden that lady is a bitch. It's not only me who replies, other ladies do. Others PM. Others just don't visit the GD board due to the hostility.
I know there are double standards in life.
This issue has nothing to do with the men pay for it, the ladies have to put up with it.
We are allowed to say no. We aren't governed by any law that says we have to be an equal opportunity.
This is a public board. It's neither the mans board nor the ladies board.
I personally don't care if someone doesn't like me.. I just wonder why if a lady says something negative about the men that they get reprimanded, but when a lady does it to a guy who is doing the exact same thing.. Well, apparently were not allowed to do that. Like this is some country in the Middle East or 1940 when women had to stay quiet.
I would appreciate some honest non angry feedback by some of the more reasonable people on the boards..
I know we will never all get along. I know this isn't a rose garden where we frolic barefoot and have to enjoy all of the simple things in life. I just want to know why the double standard. Why can the men bash the women as a whole (I'm not talking about in a review) and think they can get away with it.
Ready for thoughts on this.
I appreciate all sides.
most men are egocentric snobs who think that paying for pussy gives them the right to do anything they please..
I know it's a bit long...but give it a shot and try another reply that actually answers the question.
It's not you. The majority of the outspoken guys on this board are just flat out miserable assholes, no matter who you are. Who gives a fuck? If they don't like you it just means you've already got that screening out of the way and don't have to worry about them contacting you and finding out later you gave your time and energy to an asshole who blames women for all his insecurities. Some people are determined to be miserable and choose this to be their platform for screaming it to the world. The great thing about that is that it's their own fuggin problem.
I do love the whiney ass "but what about the girls who are mean to the mennnn" posts. Come fucking on. Look at the posts on this board. There might be a man hatey girl every once in a while, but it's the pigs like the guys on here that make them that way and instigate for their sick little shits and giggles. Complete shit heads who spend the majority of their time trying to come up with new insults for the ladies on here. And now you're all butt hurt cause she called you or someone else out for being prick? Boo fuckin hoo. A lot of you are. Welcome to being told what people think of you. Most of the assholes on here are LUCKY the ladies they've seen choose to take the high road and not call them out on all the horse shit they post.
Go ahead and call me a bitch, I don't care. Tell me to get another job if I'm soooooo miserable, cause I don't need one. I'm not the one on here all day getting my rocks off harassing people. You guys are the ones who can't just disagree or choose not to see someone. You are the ones who spend all day coming up with new ways to get a pat on the back from other assholes. People who have nothing better to do than troll the way y'all do have issues, and I am not part of them. Feel like this is personal to you? Well, maybe it is then.
Nanner nanner boo boo. Gargle my balls AND her fuckin balls if you don't like being spoken to the way you speak to us on here, or get your shit together and act like you deserve to be treated like an adult.
Alyssa, don't let a few guys with no life get to you on here. There really are a ton of reasonable ladies and gentlemen who avoid posting, and that's a fucking shame. All we have to do is change what has become acceptable, and that starts with making it clear what isn't. There are a lot more guys posting that don't hate women in the last few months, and the guys and girls on here are being more outspoken about the posts that are so misogynistic. We just have to keep it up until they all go die in their hole on icky.
No one forces you to play here, so if it's so bad, fkin leave.
I don't like the ballet. Do I try and change it? Fk no, I just don't go.
Apparently you don't like the concept of "choice" huh? You a pro-lifer I guess? LOL. I like choice. Lots of boards to play on here at TER and on other chat sites. I only play on a few of them. I care about "changing" the others not one bit.
And aren't you the one babbling about that you can't make your johns accept your "no" during a session when they do/ask for something unpleasant? Thought I forgot about that, huh?
And YOU'RE gonna call ANYONE here a "whiny ass" when you don't even have the balls to keep your own house in order?
Yep, now I see why you are so angry. You want Alyssa to be something you can't. A take charge gal that doesn't take shit from guys.
Sad that you can't be that example for her
First of all, not everyone who participates on the board is an asshole. But those who are are often the loudest. I think there are just some angry people out there and on a forum like this they can vent without having to be held accountable for their words. It's not just this board, just go read the comments to any random story on CNN. You'll see it there too.
Not sure what can be done other than to use the ignore user button. That's what it's there for.
ones are usin aliases. I never had an alias, This is my alias and I say what i want unlike some pussy as muther fuckers.
ne thing he mentioned , is this, by your posting and telling off the annoying mystery alaises whom it is in fact always guy that never met you and are trying to be bullies. Take it from me your doing yourself a huge future favor, like he said, Your detering the losers from coming to see you. ... I have close to 90 good reviews. Out of which 4 were bummer appts and its reflected in the score on the 4 bad appts that stand out, Conflicts of personalities. Only 4 emorable eh not stellar appst , they werent terrible just not as fun as all the others. I get into it with SOOOO many aliases on here, none of which i ever met, None of which i will meet. There are 25 thousand people logged in here at a time , not as many posting however.
Look to the top left of screen it tells how many are logged in . Then to right it tells how many reviews have been posted. You can find all the exact clients that will love the hell outta ya, and you them by totally speaking your mind on here freely. The more freely you speak your mind as opposed to only posting stuff that is supposed to help business. Your posting how you feel even if it may not seem helpful for business. Your letting certain guys know your not a sub or willing to play that way. I think for me the pros far out weigh the cons for me posting here.
I been hard core posting and on boards since i joined. i met so many awsome classy clients too. There are a few being rude but thats good because like he said now you and the aliases being rude to you, All can know not to book with each other and dodge a bullet.
Wait and see you l attract clients that can handle you and that you can handle. I know i fight with certain aliases on here and by reading thier reviews, after i get into it with them i can tell alot by thier reviews or even thier alias and then i am glad i duked it out on here with them instead of having to meet them Scaring some the potential clients away is agood thing, Out of my close to 90 good reviews {even the bad experiences reviewed me good cuz i can tolerate a high amount of stupidity its a talent we learn as escorts...as you know.} I been pretty ballsy about my beliefs , my style, and very outspoken in my responses to threads, since day one. I also have to say every single reviewer and all close to 200 whitelists i have,,,,,,,,,,,They all were amazing and sweethearts, .............I scare away guys that are assholes apparently because i get only nice clients, .... Thats why i dont use p411 or datecheck any more either and i definetly am against and and all black list or verify him sites. Just cuz another lady seen him DOES not mean he is safe clean nice. You l have to decide that yourself. On p411 and datecheck The guys that have a ton of oks, ...It dont mean they are clients youd wanna be doin business with. The best thing is to read thier reviews. A guy with 100 reviews and no whitelistm, For example that speaks volumes, A guy who never gave more than 6 again it can show he is never satisfied and chooses to actually pay for sex with people he isnt even thrilled and delighted to meet,.
Just be grateful now you and the guys your fighting with will dodge a bullet and now can avoid doing an appt together, it will help your business in long run, Fighting with dickheads on here has done nothing but helped my business. And kept me outta jail, If they had come to meet me in person as opposed to first fighting with me on here, i d surely be gettn lugged . For me i dont JUST talk shit. My saying is "TALK SHIT GET HIT." so if one of em actually talked to me like that in person, It would be back to framingham and more violent felony charges on my ass!!
So jus be happy you get a chance to see who is not compatable before having to endure them in person, xoxoxo
I like having ans seeing more girls here and i like that you mentioned how annoying negative assholes are, So go figure i liked your post. xo And your italian, so . Italian can go through red lights after midnight did you know about that? lol. I am italian too. Just remeber your a tough italian broad and you could beat thier ass with a mixing spoon when you meet them .
Daaaamn you're one angry gal. Why don't you and your 13 pals find something you like for a living? Just sayin' who's the 'miserable asshole?' Wow
I do love the whiney ass "but what about the girls who are mean to the mennnn" posts. Come fucking on. Look at the posts on this board. There might be a man hatey girl every once in a while, but it's the pigs like the guys on here that make them that way and instigate for their sick little shits and giggles. Complete shit heads who spend the majority of their time trying to come up with new insults for the ladies on here. And now you're all butt hurt cause she called you or someone else out for being prick? Boo fuckin hoo. A lot of you are. Welcome to being told what people think of you. Most of the assholes on here are LUCKY the ladies they've seen choose to take the high road and not call them out on all the horse shit they post.
Go ahead and call me a bitch, I don't care. Tell me to get another job if I'm soooooo miserable, cause I don't need one. I'm not the one on here all day getting my rocks off harassing people. You guys are the ones who can't just disagree or choose not to see someone. You are the ones who spend all day coming up with new ways to get a pat on the back from other assholes. People who have nothing better to do than troll the way y'all do have issues, and I am not part of them. Feel like this is personal to you? Well, maybe it is then.
Nanner nanner boo boo. Gargle my balls AND her fuckin balls if you don't like being spoken to the way you speak to us on here, or get your shit together and act like you deserve to be treated like an adult.
Alyssa, don't let a few guys with no life get to you on here. There really are a ton of reasonable ladies and gentlemen who avoid posting, and that's a fucking shame. All we have to do is change what has become acceptable, and that starts with making it clear what isn't. There are a lot more guys posting that don't hate women in the last few months, and the guys and girls on here are being more outspoken about the posts that are so misogynistic. We just have to keep it up until they all go die in their hole on icky.
And you are who she is referring to, with the "find something else to do". EVERY job has assholes someone has to deal with, this one is no different, possibly even more on a daily basis. Not sure what else to say to that asinine comment you freaks like to make other than go fuck yourself. For every asshole there are possibly 8 guys who make this job okay.
"Ok?" Just "ok?" Get a real job that pays $25 an hour not $150 like you get now and see how "ok" that is. You clearly are a miserable lady. Good luck with that.
It is okay, and sorry your meager ego suffered a huge dent because I was not fawning over tricks like a diabetic in a candy store.
You are in the asshole category. many others make up that other 8 which makes this JOB okay.
How can I possibly be miserable when I can piss you off in a heart beat and earn quite considerably more than your assumption per hour? Oh no, tis a very happy day indeed!
Yes so busy is your plump bottom why you camp out here lol
You are in the asshole category. many others make up that other 8 which makes this JOB okay.
How can I possibly be miserable when I can piss you off in a heart beat and earn quite considerably more than your assumption per hour? Oh no, tis a very happy day indeed!
And you don't fail to throw poop every chance you get. And a hooker only has to work a couple of hours a day to make very good money. So you're right I do have some spare time to poke the gorillas.
Old, fat saggy trick? Do you have a six pack or a keg? Are you bald or have a nice head of hair? Is your dick cut or uncut? Tell me about yourself?
Isn't it fun?
You can be just as big a bitch as you want, and guess what? No consequences. lol
It is a lot more fun when you do it with a smile on your face, but some "negative" people will never see that smile, no matter how big it is, or how hard you are laughing when posting crap.
Now you know firsthand why I laugh when people call me negative, or "angry" how can you possibly be angry when you are the stick? Only the piñata gets angry, not the stick. So take that, you man hating bitch. roflmfao
Where have you been hiding? I didn't miss you.
Since part of my job is based around understanding men and their wants and needs..
I can totally understand the locker room mentality, in the locker room.
Women do it too.
If I went on a vacation with a group of couples I would think it's safe to assume that when the men go off to play basketball there is some ego and shit talking.
Similar to when the ladies break off to the spa there can be some whining and complaining..
Both the workout and shit talking for the guys and the venting and spa treatment for the ladies should be enough so that when we rejoin for dinner no one is being disrespectful to the other..
There are ladies only areas for the ladies that we can whine about whatever we want. Similar to a slumber party, many things are talked about. Not only pillow fights.. Are there no men only areas for the men to go and stroke their ego then get that out of their system before returning to a general population so to speak?
Or am I missing something completely?
However, I might suggest that one aspect of the tacit logic might be erroneous. It's this notion that the ladies' only spa dialogues and the men's locker room trash talk can function as a way to, "...get it out of their system before returning to a general population." Seems things could work that way, but I'll dare to assert that such is not really the case.
Group dynamics doesn't work that way, though it might seem it would.
In the South, back in the '50's, KKK rallies were held on the outskirts of towns. White elitist mmen would "trash talk" (excuse the euphemosm) African Americans. Did they then return to everyday life with greater tolerance and open-minded attitudes? No, their hatred grew more and they became more vile.
When men gather to trash women they nurture a very similar hatred within them that pumps them up got greater ferocity in their everyday treatment of women.
And why do they hate women so much? Some here on the board actually do hate feminism and the power a woman wields through her femininity. A few resent that women are allowed to vote or are allowed to struggle for equal pay in the labor market. But as we know there are a great number of "woman haters" on this particular board, and they don't all feel these extreme sentiments yet. Given time, and continued exposer to the group dynamics, they well might.
The majority of women haters on this board really hate their emotional response to women. They live with a resentment that their bodies and emotional needs force them to seek out the company of women, share their goods with them, and then receive what attention and gratufication they can from some of the women available, not always the ones they most desire. A man sees a woman who enjoys or at least consents to have a relationship with some men but not all, inspires an extreme anger in those deemed unworthy. When it is a question of monetary reward--cash on the barrel head rather than a promise of a protected life--this anger flares more radically.
I don't know if the same principles apply to the ladies' only spa group, but when men gather to "let off steam" they only emerge more vicious.
I can totally understand the locker room mentality, in the locker room.
Women do it too.
If I went on a vacation with a group of couples I would think it's safe to assume that when the men go off to play basketball there is some ego and shit talking.
Similar to when the ladies break off to the spa there can be some whining and complaining..
Both the workout and shit talking for the guys and the venting and spa treatment for the ladies should be enough so that when we rejoin for dinner no one is being disrespectful to the other..
There are ladies only areas for the ladies that we can whine about whatever we want. Similar to a slumber party, many things are talked about. Not only pillow fights.. Are there no men only areas for the men to go and stroke their ego then get that out of their system before returning to a general population so to speak?
Or am I missing something completely?
Well, now that you have psychoanalyzed the "majority" of women haters here, can you also give us your nifty insight into what the "minority" of woman haters here really hate?
Cry baby assholes who dish it out but piss their pants when it's thrown back at them. Talk about balless losers.
We can't have that. Quick call me a name so I feel unloved by a trick.
And just to let you know, I typed this extra fast as to not wanting to make you wait one extra second of feeling unloved by a john! LOL
Your extra effort is appreciated....asshole.
I truly appreciate the time that you took to make a serious reply to the post for exactly what I asked in the post!
Fresh air, thank you!
First off, I'm not trying to impress you. So, you can throw all of that junk out of the window about you liking me or not.
Odds are., even if you loved me, we would never meet.. So.. There's really no point to overly try to impress you. Nor anyone for that. We are who we are. But. There is a huge difference between trying to impress someone and just not being a raging dickhead.
That being said.. You used to try to talk to me all of the time when I replied on the boards when I was alyssainnewyork. I haven't changed, just my handle.
I really always ignored you.. But you kept trying.
One day I told you that I couldn't stand you. Then you thought I was crazy.
After that you tried to join in a conversation on betting and baseball with me.. I ignored you.
You tried a couple of other times.. I still ignored you.
I didn't make this a personal situation towards "me."
But if you want to, well.. There's a little bit of history that you may have forgotten.
I couldn't stand your constant talking about fat providers and the etc.. See, you were actually already a dickhead before you didn't like me, so.. What's new?
I honestly personal rarely remember handles after someone says something. But I do remember yours. You're the first one that I put on my ignore list.
Why don't you change your tone? You're the one who thinks you're superior and owns this board. Can't you try to impress more strangers by inviting them to your baseball private club? Really.. You don't have to try to kiss the rear of the men you find cool, make fun of the guys who you think are beneath you and rate hookers that you will never meet anyway.. At least not everyday.
By the way, this is over the 10th time (and that's being generous) of someone who has tried to keep speaking with me since I have put your handle on ignore.. The first time I have replied. Who crazy?
Hmm.
Because this is a review board and it mainly based on being for men and reviews. i have heard guys say that response about how the gd board and ter in general is meant to be for men to review escorts.
I only play spa with men so i never have to endure catty whiny girls only spa outing,Most my clients are willing to play spa with me sometimes to fill the voide for needing to do something girly for a change, I put mr fisher in t eh little plastic toe seperaters and paint his toenails when he comes over you know, just kidding, but men do look good in clear polish, nails and feet.
The weirdest thing alysa i heard you say once was that "thier arent many slang terms for white people" i remeber that one and kinda thought you were strange . then i went on my white slangs rants. that was one weird post of yours where i felt like you may be a little off. Aside from that i may have mis read and maybe you didnt mean it that way , Things getting taken out of context when you cannot hear some ones tone in the voice things can get misunderstood alot.
It's not ONLY men!!
Just as foolish an escort to come here bashing men as a whole as it will lose her clients is a man bashing women as a whole as it will get him blacklisted by the ladies that he wants to see. 
If you only knew...but you don't and never will.
Fixing stupid is simply not an option here LOL
Just as foolish an escort to come here bashing men as a whole as it will lose her clients is a man bashing women as a whole as it will get him blacklisted by the ladies that he wants to see.
Personal blacklist, personal.
Just like you base who you see of of how they present themselves, a girl will do the same.
Some of you think it's only about the money.. I wouldn't hang out in a room with gag for an hour even if I didn't have to touch him. You guys wouldn't hang out with a girl that would repulse you, so why should we be expected to hang out with a guy who repulses us.
That's why I commented on your "blacklist" post. A DNS list is something a few gals use to avoid an email/text from a john they don't want to see. No problem. It's their choice.
But you also realize that some BSC hookers post on the national BL guys (and presumably) real information for posting on board(s).
Whether you decide to see some dude is your call...I have no problems with any of that. Your OP did not discuss that at all...rather your disdain for why some on a board are not nice.
Try any Sports board in the country (probably the world) if you want to see a bunch of otherwise nice people go ballistic arguing over their favorite team or player. Same with a Religion board...or Politics board.
There's plenty of research (check google and educate yourself) on why Inet boards operate the way they do. And then try and slowly explain to posters like RodT why he is so disrespected here. He'll never understand...but if you explain it slowly to him with maybe a few pictures he'll start to understand.
Just like you base who you see of of how they present themselves, a girl will do the same.
Some of you think it's only about the money.. I wouldn't hang out in a room with gag for an hour even if I didn't have to touch him. You guys wouldn't hang out with a girl that would repulse you, so why should we be expected to hang out with a guy who repulses us.
You just don't seem to be able to pull off the bitch act and still remain likeable.
There are many other women here that "speak their mind" without being shouted down. Hotplants is a "man hating lesbian", but more guys like her than not. The list goes on and on.
and it's not just a man/woman issue although I am sure you would like to frame it that way. Turdwell is a clueless mangina, and gets flamed regularly, mrfisher is every bit the mangina that Turdwell is, but NOBODY picks on him without getting beat up by the rest of us. The same with my friend SCOED, he too is a mangina, and he still gets respect from the "cool kids"
I am going to give you the same advice I give Turdy, Look inward for your answers to this question. Ask yourself why some women here cannot only speak their minds, but be downright bitchy at times and still hold the respect of 90% of the men here, while you are disliked by almost every man here.
The standard is not a double standard based on sex no matter how much you would like that to be the cause, No Alyssa, we don't like you for YOU, not because you are a woman. Or if you prefer that I speak only for myself, fine. I don't like you because you aren't very likeable, not because you speak your mind. So please quit your fucking whining. and notice I did say PLEASE, don't ever say I wasn't polite. lol
... and had a session with her a couple of years before it came out. I emailed her after I saw it and we had a nice conversation about it. She was very forthcoming and ok with the fall out although she has changed her name. Who the fuck cares what she is thinking while being fucked. Absurd. This girl is comfortable in her skin. More power to her.
BTW she did not release the video. She was approached by a professional company who produced it and paid her for her performance.
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I found her to be very professional. She was always quick to respond to references.
I told her that I thought it was very gutsy to share how she viewed her experiences.
I don't judge her for it. Not in the least.
I just wonder why so many men were so quick to jump down her throat to the point that she felt the need to change her name to continue, yet the same men think it's ok to spew negativity towards women. And to do if so publicly.
Is it because they're paying for it?
I know it's not every guy. There are so many awesome guys that I have met. In my on and off years of this, I have only met six people that I wish I could turn back time, but that's life, I just move on. We have all made mistakes, we can all grow.
guys do actually have feelings. We think they are tough and whatever but as much as they say they dont care, If they see a video where a girl is bored to be in bed with them and staring into space, some will actually get feelings and or ego hurt.
It sounds to me like it was kinda meant to be a dramatic re inactment type of comedy joke thing, She certainly doesnt stare at her nails during an appt. She d never have a job, People twist things around for the worst, It sounds like the video was kinda overdramatizing and joking, that is too bad realistically she obviiously cant stare at her nails in an appt she d never get another appt.
I am sure her regulars know how she really acts in a session and i highly doubt thats how. it sounds like maybe some guys took it personally, like we do when they say we are all hollow and use the guys and only care about thier wallets. thats just as untrue, Many of us enjoy the clients as friends too but we cant lose our apt over trying to maintain otc freindships with every customer that ever seen us.
Question for OP - is the video in the public domain via internet, or can you provide a link? Would share my opinion after a first person viewing of the piece of work ( and by piece, I am NOT referring to her in any cute or sly way!).
And before you WO-men start flaming, I'm totally kidding....
But I'm thinking that since we're not the ones on the market and we're the ones paying, that might have something to do with it. Had it been the other way around, we'll be the ones complaining about what you said.
I noticed that there are many providers bashing men and still get away with it. Not sure why you think they don't get away with it. There are still here aren't they?
If I recall, you were the FIRST to take pot shots at me, even when I never said anything about YOU and think you can get away with it? I didn't even know your handle before that. Being the great asian american hobbyist that I am, I figured you're trying to get the attention of this handsome asian man. I mean, what girl wouldn't??? rofl
Don't make it sound like women are all innocent and without fault. You're the bully. :
Pennies for pennies, dollar for dollar, or dollars for pennies?
ROFL
Or just groceries and dry cleaning.
You trade money for goods...for the good things in life...for goodness.
You say to Trixie, "I have some dollars. I will give them to you in exchange for sex."
Trixie decides to BUY your dollars, so she says, "Very well. Give me your dollars; here is your sex."
You are constantly selling your money, and you always want to get as high a price for it as possible. You are the market. We all are.
Yes, this is a public board, but on a site that was created for men, or maybe better put, for "people" who are attracted to and wanna fk women, as I know some lesbians frequent this site.
Of course there is a double standard here, as there should be. You sound confused as to why so let me break it down for you:
You are of the misunderstanding that men and women are "equals" here, but they are not. And the inequality isn't based on misogyny, it's based on the difference in the client/business relationship.
The "business" or "service" does not, and should not, seek equilibrium with its clientele. For example, the service usually refers to the customer as "sir" or "maam", "Mr." or "Ms." But the client usually does not respond in kind. The business woos the client, not the other way around.
Why is that you might ask? The relationship is based on the business "serving" its customer. In essence, the business is subservient to the client. The business needs the customer. The customer does not necessarily need the service/product offered.
You either dont understand these differences, aren't educated about them or don't give a fk about them. In any case, it's YOUR fault.
You are not liked Alyssa b/c you do not like men, at least the ones here for the most part. That is what I see time and time in your posts.
You consistently tell that us that you don't want a boyfriend. That's fine. That is your right. But where you get into trouble is that you conflate having a "boyfriend" in your posts with someone who is necessarily immature, dishonest, and who possesses a poor character.
In addition, you don't seem to have any fun here. That also comes through in your posts. You're rude and condescending, especially to the men.
So, the combination of your anti-male hang up with your piss poor attitude makes people like myself want to take a shot at you.
If you knocked off the man hating bull shit, showed just a touch of being thicker skinned by maybe adding some self deprecating humor and realized the aforementioned difference in the client/business relationship, the guys here, myself included, would treat you much better.
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...but you might consider that this thread hosts a discussion of a more serious nature, and that rude, chauvinistic remarks from smart-alecks might appear inappropriate.
And are you going for Turdwells record for the most "likes" by a john in a single thread? Good luck with that.
It would be swell, too, if you checked out some of Alyssa's man hating nonsense but that would make you look at these girls in a less than angelic fashion and you would then have to admit that she is not what you think, and thus force you to clean your keyboard off of all your saliva.
My bad, I forgot it doesn't matter what they post, as the love in your eyes will just block your vision anyway.
And I'll get back to you too, so you can proofread my future posts about their "inappropriateness."
Until that time, why don't you do a little research on some of these gals and their condescending male bashing drivel?
I am sure someone like yourself that wants to be "more serious", while regularly posting on a fk board that goes into detail about how many loads a girl will take to the face, will do just that. ;
From the biggest man hating hooker on here, and I wear that title proudly, LOL, It's not ALL men, just some men. But you and a couple of other knuckleheads LOVE to add that word ALL.
Sure I hate some but not all. Some johns hate some hookers but not all. How hard is that to grasp
but you may be speaking of the implication of some of my posts so I hear ya.
And you're right, some johns do hate the hookers here, I would assume. Not me. Love to play with them. All of them, really. If TER gave me the power to kick someone off of this island, I'd check the "no, thanks" box. And it really isn't even close with that call.
Sure, I like to get under some gals skin a bit, especially the nutty ones. But I do the same with the johns here too. But there is never any need for anger here. If I ever get angry on fk board, time to leave. LOL
But this crap espoused by others, not saying you, that me (and my ilk, here. LOL) want to run someone off the boards or silence someone is pure b.s.
I'll say it again. I LOVE the gals that show balls here, don't fold their tent b/c they had one bad day, and give it back. I am in Tobi's camp here. She gets it. As a lot of women here do.
And me thinks you do to.
This is the third time we agree. I do get it...*wink
The buyer has the perceived "power" but abusing that just shows those types as butt licking cowards. Sometimes just because you think you can, does not make it right.
You seriously say I'm supposed to use some self depreciating humor to "fit in" ???
Here, I will make it better - "I don't want a boyfriend or a girlfriend."
It's not the BOY part, it's the COMMITMENT part.
You made up somewhere in your head that I don't like men..
I love men!!! Are you kidding me??
I love what I do, I meet new awesome dudes all day long!
It's my choice to suck their dicks or sleep with them. I love dudes! I just don't want a boyfriend in the same aspect that I don't want a girlfriend, or a dog, or a house payment.
Now.. For the last time..
Can you please knock it off with putting words in my mouth??
Also.. You know that I have you (and your other handle) and a few others on ignore. And the ones that know sure seem stuck on replying to my posts. It's not flattering.. Just ignore me back. It's easy. The hardest part for me is to keep up on who is supposed to be on ignore when I happen to stumble on here and I'm not logged in. You and gag are the easiest to remember.
Lately, this post isn't about the few people that I have on ignore that constantly try to have pissing matches.. It's about the ones on here who literally hate and bash women. A few posts on here have made total sense to me along with two emails, so that's what I wanted. Not the reasoning behind a handful of people that I can't stand in the first place list of why they don't like me and how I can change to have them like me.
My days are full of fun and work. I have great friends and a super pleasant life. I'm obviously doing ok to those who matter.
I'm on my phone and have to get to sleep, so no time to reread over any of this. Can I ask you to please put me on ignore. It's a really easy thing to do. And since we mutually don't like each other, it just makes even more sense! Be sure to block me on your other handle too.
Posted by Alyssa Marie, 4/21/2014 10:19:44 PM:
"Keep the ice just where it's at. I prefer to not be a part of any childish negative group on TER.
If I wanted that, well.. I would go find a boyfriend."
Look familiar, oh "lover of men", you? BUSTED. I guess you forgot TER keeps the posts for search? Bummer for you.
You are now a liar...AND someone that responds to her own posts...AND someone that responds to posts when YOU have them on "ignore"(LOL)...AND someone that asks others to put YOU on ignore..(WTF???)
You have now officially reached "Dunphy Certified BSC Status"! Yayyyyyyyyyy! I knew you could do it! TS will be in contact with you shortly. Sia is her intern so you might hear from her first.
Too funny that WB and H+T went all in with you. That was just icing on the cake. ROFLMAO
Oops. Just remembered...you have me on IGNORE don't you? Shit...you wont be able to read any of this. My bad. 
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Fuck I had to say it to make my point, well I guess that makes me an idiot too. LOL
Just one more little thing Jacko my boy, This hooker you seem to have raging hard on for did not, in this example say she hates men. She did say she doesn't want to be a part of a childish negative group or a boyfriend.
She might the NSA sex you tricks love so much. You know that was nice now fuck off type thing, again, not a hateful demeanor. She just doesn't want to watch him scratch his balls, fart or deal with the other relationship crap. Doesn't mean she hates men, well she might hate some, fuck I do but that is old news.
You had the same issue with me not so long ago, that is making shit up about how much I charge and how old I am and how fat I am that you did not believe I had only about a 1% cancelation, which I still stand by and would go into more detail but really don't have to prove anything to you, even though I am feeling great affection for you right now
You know, everyone calling him Curly..
You would think that he would quit repeating the same old shit. Especially his made up shit.
The one difference between him saying I hate men and everyone calling him GirlyCurly is that one is true and one is false.
Go ahead and guess.
so the guy paid and is in mish and shes playing dead ? he could have done that with his wife , wtf did he need her ( the fake provider) for . and let me guess his life story , shave his balls and ass. buy some jerkoff gift , get 25 messages of where to go , and then shes looking at her nails .. fuck her ... ! you for real ?
and shes giving interviews now ?
okay next time you pay for something and the person ignores you come back and tell us you said thank you ...
The guys, understandably so, called her every name in the book.
So.. There are guys here who are degrading, rude, nasty, hostile.. A lady replies to it basically telling them to stop being a dick and all of a sudden that lady is a bitch. It's not only me who replies, other ladies do. Others PM. Others just don't visit the GD board due to the hostility.
I know there are double standards in life.
This issue has nothing to do with the men pay for it, the ladies have to put up with it.
We are allowed to say no. We aren't governed by any law that says we have to be an equal opportunity.
This is a public board. It's neither the mans board nor the ladies board.
I personally don't care if someone doesn't like me.. I just wonder why if a lady says something negative about the men that they get reprimanded, but when a lady does it to a guy who is doing the exact same thing.. Well, apparently were not allowed to do that. Like this is some country in the Middle East or 1940 when women had to stay quiet.
I would appreciate some honest non angry feedback by some of the more reasonable people on the boards..
I know we will never all get along. I know this isn't a rose garden where we frolic barefoot and have to enjoy all of the simple things in life. I just want to know why the double standard. Why can the men bash the women as a whole (I'm not talking about in a review) and think they can get away with it.
Ready for thoughts on this.
I appreciate all sides.
nastiness either. I do my best to be the change I wish to see here.
But I also drop off the boards for sometimes months at a time and so I lose track of who's who. Since my latest return I see a whole lotta new posters here (or if not new, not known to me at any rate, like yourself), and don't see a lot of others I remember. And I have no idea what you're talking about re a film, so that's probably something else I missed.
You think this is bad- you should dip a toe into the politics and religion board. Talk about a worthless pile of posts!! The posters there are so intent on insulting each other that the only reason you can even call it a P&R board is that their insults are usually based on a poster's allegiance to some semblance of "right" or "left" politics. I've decided it's some weird homoerotic wank club for boys only. No one is really interested in actual debate or discussion
that anger always comes from some kind of pain. Misogyny is simply a very specialized brand of anger. Perhaps some of the guys here have experienced some trauma around women or have mother issues. They need love too.
And for some, this board is probably one of the few places in their lives they feel any power over women.
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and do your best to be the change you wish to see there.
And GREAT generalization about the entire board there, too.
You really sound foolish with the "no one is really interested in actual debate or discussion" on the P&R. No one? Really? What did you do, pop your head in over there for a sec, left instantly, then painted the entire board with your broad brush?
Yeah, it gets contentious at times, but that's what politics is these days. The country has VERY big problems and we have vastly different opinions on how to handle those problems and we are passionate about expressing them. In a free society, this is a GOOD thing SS.
And there are people over there that will engage in a sincere debate. Matt, GaG, Madison, DA, ed2000, Mari, Mein, etc. people that are on both sides of the aisle. So your statement is factually wrong too.
If you don't like it, that's your call. But to knock w/o posting there...that's a worthless post.
Fair enough, JD. I haven't been there in a long time, and don't recognize any of the names you posted except GaG. I did post there for a while. If you do a search on my name there you'll see. I did try. But if you read the posts around mine you'll see why it wasn't worth my time. Perhaps it's changed since then. I'll have to check it out when I have the time. I would love to find a place here to discuss politics and world affairs with intelligent people who can debate without resorting to ad hominems every other post. But in my experience there nobody was actually interested in a discussion- just insulting anyone whose opinions differed from their own.
And I got the nastiest pm from some loser who posts there (and pops his head in here from time to time). I just have better things to do than hang out in such a place and make myself a target for shit flinging.
You come over to the P&R and post. You will not get an ad hominem from me if you don't go down that road first, which doesn't seem like that would be your style anyway.
Madison Ohare posts often over there and isn't on the receiving end of any ad hominems, as far as I can tell. Love to see another gal over there. We could use a few more.
Love to see you over there if that is what you decide. Peace.
Here's a P&R post where you made an ad hominem attack on a poster who didn't even post in that thread. And your ad hominem attack was copied like a sheep from someone else, without any direct knowledge. Don't pretend you're something you're not.
Your ad hominems to me were in NUMEROUS other threads where I did not reply in kind to you. Once again you have proven to be the most dishonest poster on the boards and your reputation is in tatters on the P&R because of it.. Keep up the good work!
I went back there, and searched my name to see how long I was there. It was from May of '12 to October of '12. Six months. So I didn't just pop in and out- I gave it a fair go.
But I also noticed that very few of the same characters are still posting there. So maybe I'll give it another go!
Over the past few weeks I have been planning a move, so I have had a lot of free time.. Being at my "home." (Meaning my place of birth. Lol.) I used to post under my old handle.. Alyssainnewyork. I made it known when I was changing my handle.. I wasn't hiding, just pointless to have the ...innewyork since I am like a bird and always going somewhere new and exciting..
I totally hear you on the posting here, taking a break, posting again..
Change is painfully slow, and most folk, most of the time, just live in the world they find themselves in and only occasionally try to make little changes. Change happens, though, and usually it's the result of a whole bunch of those little changes. So kudos. Not for trying, but for DOING.
Half a century ago the social world, how we treated each other, and even how we saw and understood each other was different, unrecognizable to most people in their 20's. Very little of the transformation was made all at once. People killed each other over the threat/hope of change. Livelihoods were destroyed. Homes and businesses were destroyed, people were harassed by police for pay, people were beaten up in the streets, lots of people lived years and years being mocked, ridiculed, disowned by their families and excommunicated from their beliefs. But from day one, we were assuring each other, "A change is gonna come."
Keep up the fight. Forget about winning any of the battles. Expect to be ostracized, ridiculed, and physically threatened. Expect your friends to leave you. Assume you'll be laughed at and assume no one will hear you. Presume poverty, isolation, a death to crown it all is what lies ahead. Teach yourself not to care.
But don't quit. We need you.
And for what it's worth, when a lady comes to the public boards and bashes men.. I presume it's due to frustration..
A bad appointment, the feeling of wasted time, etc..
I will ALWAYS message her and say, "hey.. I get what you're saying.. Perhaps you could try to message the boards and ask for access to the ladies room. If you post this in there you will be able to vent your frustrations and then move on." Or something along those lines..
I don't think any total hatred towards one another should be on the public boards.
We all need a place to vent about each other.. You guys get reviews (and I'm sure you have men boards) and we have the ladies boards. There's a place for everything.
Have a great day, you and everyone else.
Today is moving day.. Since I'm a big procrastinator.. I have lots of catching up to do.
Xoxo
hat is your question again
How was my post incoherent?
If you try to reread it, maybe it will help?
I don't drink or do drugs. I had a nice dinner before posting it.. A lot of other people understood it. Maybe you just need to read it again. Maybe slower.
and again there is a new one to ignore, Some people just like to try and get people rowled up. Your already rowled up in the post and so far all 20 people whom respond get exactly what the discussion is, Now this fool wants to come and make fun and start even more crap. Just keep adding to the ignore button the pros weigh out the cons here by a landslide, The amount of negative is sometime speople whom want to see some one getting stressed, like this one above about "incoherent?"
Thats obviuosly startn shit , At this point where they post in thread if they cant get a tiny grip on what the conversation was about by now, but see they are totally just either trying to be hurtful or get you upset,. I will yet again also add another to my ignore list, i am glad they have that feature, Your post is coherent dont bother with that person, they have such low reading comprehension skills nothing you say is gonna make sense to them if they havent gotten a feel for the tone and discussion and things at that low a point into the thread, then no amount of woman or man power is gonna be capable of explaining, ... Some people have low reading comprehension skills then they act like its others fault for not typing in large print with lots of picture like a childrens book.............................There should be a feature you can enable that has large print , and pictures for the speak and spell and just people with comprehension disabilities.
this post is weird .. and the example she gave in her op was a stupid one ..manicure , sure the guy got mad , who wouldn't ...
later angel not worth the headache here .. xoxo
Thats obviuosly startn shit , At this point where they post in thread if they cant get a tiny grip on what the conversation was about by now, but see they are totally just either trying to be hurtful or get you upset,. I will yet again also add another to my ignore list, i am glad they have that feature, Your post is coherent dont bother with that person, they have such low reading comprehension skills nothing you say is gonna make sense to them if they havent gotten a feel for the tone and discussion and things at that low a point into the thread, then no amount of woman or man power is gonna be capable of explaining, ... Some people have low reading comprehension skills then they act like its others fault for not typing in large print with lots of picture like a childrens book.............................There should be a feature you can enable that has large print , and pictures for the speak and spell and just people with comprehension disabilities.
But in this case your post was fairly straight forward. Anonymous Fungy does suffer from chronic reading comprehension problems not to mention having the writing skills about the same level as a 5 year old... LMAO.
he limits himself to five words.
used to be four. now five? wow I'm impressed he's making progress
...I've found that most of the cockbags on here are pretty chill in one-on-one conversation. They tend to gang up on anyone who gets upset about the "tone" around here. That tone isn't going to change. Ever. In my experience, the best way to deal with the GD board is to be able to dish it out AND take it. These dudes love them some banter and I'm not gonna lie, I do too
mostly cuz you're PM proof.
I just choose to stay out of them because it's not for me..
What I am fed up with are the posts that are posted to intentionally try to hurt sometimes feelings.
If you want to have humorous threads where you're picking on each other, sure..
I honestly don't care that people like gag and whoever else don't like me. It's actually great, because we are on the same page. He doesn't want to see me, I would refuse to meet him.
But the whole, "they're only worthless whores. Their feelings and thoughts are irrelevant" is what I do not get.
It takes an unique individual to scroll through message boards and find one person that they do not find up to their liking in appearance and start the, "did you see that fat whore" thread. Those are the ones that I am talking about. And if need be, take them to the mans board for goodness sake.
Sex is supposed to be fun, not degrading.
You will not change how things are done o this board. You can either get with the program or leave. I mean every time Old Stinky Penis bitches about an old fat hooker I follow his fat ass with "no matter how fat or how old, if some dude is paying her what does it matter".
Some monger posts a fat chick image, you post a fat dude image. You don't play nice here, you play even. Or you choose not to play at all. At least that's the way I choose, it may not be for you.
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Three actually said that they now want to post more.
I have already seen two from one person.
So, that's a start.
The rules apply equally to all.
We all know many of the troll posters post their "woman hating" OP's simply to get a rise out of the gullible and the "uber sensitive" I bet if you (or some other "man hater") were to make an OP from the other perspective bashing "fat guys" the ensuing train wreck would be quite entertaining.
I can take my own advice, since I am not "old, fat, bald, or ugly" I wouldn't take an OP like that as if it were directed at me, just like women who are members of the OTHFBC should take the crap posted by the likes of OSP personally.
and for the record, my father is Sicilian. We don't believe in getting mad, we don't even believe in getting even, we believe that it's the "other guy" who needs to try and get even as we make sure that we never get behind in the first place.
and your point is well taken, if a woman is really old fat and ugly, who is the bigger loser, the woman herself or the even older fatter and uglier guy that HAS TO pay her for sex as he can do no better. lmao
I know this is likely to ruin your day H+T but you are starting to be more like me everyday, you man hating bitch. lol
I don't like insulting anyone needlessly unless provoked. Just not me cuz I'm a really nice peaceful guy only interested in having fun and making friends.
It's when bullies like you pick fights and stir up drama that force others to participate. There's a difference. Nothing against you though, I think you're funny.
I looked and you have reviews from july 2009, alot of them, Your most recent is by a guy who DOES not FREELY dish out high scores BY ANY MEANS.............He isnt like a 6 6 down the row but he definetly is selective and isnt freely handing out good reviews. He gave you, in comparison to his other like 70 reviews. You managed to be one of his highest scores. There is even one he gave a 1 too some where in there! But not many getting 8-8. Since 2009, you managed to not only begin to get better and better at this, Your recent scores are all higher than when you began Some say those make the best providers. The one that start out mediocre then the scores keep gradually increasing, As opposed to say some one has been ten ten since first review. Which usually also means this is the eight escort name they are using and this aint thier first rodeo. WELL duh you dont rollouta bed and know how to fuck compkete strangers with grace and style. That is not something you are good at first second or third try, So yes i can see how they like seeing one that gradually got more successful.
But your reviews show your successful, i like the tutu and i also molled over the idea of a pic with one,.. I think ballet slippers too are awsome,
I think every getting along and agreeing is stupid anyway, so just continue to be you, adn read some my past post and all the aliases i fight with, i even had one make insinuations to kill me ! dont worry it is nutz here and the world is nutz. You gotta watch the i.d. channel . In every good thier is eveil and in every evil thier is good, If this site were all wine and roses it would be out of balance and that wouldnt be healthy either, This site is a ying yang of sorts , theres good theres bad theres funny, theres fightingm, There isnt a dam thing normal about every one smiling contantly and always getting along either, thats just not reality, So me personally i have liked your posts, If that matters. So for my sake keep posting and i am sure theres others that like your posts.I actually also love vegas , i didnt see crime or drama and had splendid 9 days at motel 6 on tropicana, I seen one guy get taken out in cuffs at motel 6, Musta had a warrant you know they go around and get a list of whos in the hotels, and check if any the folks with warrants are there. Not that i even ever been taken out a hotel in cuffs for outstanding warrants or anything i totally have no idea what that must feel like, lol.
I think vegas is fun I had a blast thier, I didnt see any thing that stood out as disapointing, But as a 5 year old my father took me to work with him at a dorchester liquor store and some lady alice would have me go up to her apt with her, I like the city , I hate places with foorest and i hate trees! i like the beach and the city , Some people are country people so that chic must not be a city lover, I hate the woods the country . i like boston and vegas.
the tutu is great so whatever fuck the haters. your obviuosly providing good service despite your real feelings of the situation, Your entitiled to have real emotions aside from hoe you behave when being paid 300 to escort, Its ok! No ones is paying you 300 to sit and post for an hour so no need to stay in character and kiss men butts if you dont feel need too. I dont! I talk my mind on here it has yet to affect how zi act during an appt, Some guys think you have to always be in characterm, As long as like your 50 reviews reflect you know what your doing when on the clock go ahead and act like the irish nut cake your obviuosly proving to be, its totally fine, The guys makn fun of you arent payin for your rent this month luckily so thier opion dont count, Long as phone still ringin and your gettn appts dont matter if 3 or 4 aliases youl never meet are haters.
I started off as dinner dates only. So I could feel comfortable with a stranger.
I have gone through many phases..
I used to be in the party scene.. That is a big reason behind many low scores.. Hangovers, lack of sleep, not really caring..
Then I took a break. Maybe a year.. Then I came back.. I cared a little more, but not so much.. I didn't really take it seriously.
Then I took another break. This one maybe two years.
Then when I came back, I actually cared. About my reputation.
I thought about changing all of my TER info. Hoping I wouldn't get caught so not to get banned.. But, I said, nah.. It's cool. I was young. When I first started the whole online reviewing, screening, etc., didn't exist. When it all started coming about there were pros and cons.. Still are, but most have settled.
I have learned a lot about myself, men, business, cut throat, etc.
I'm far from shocked that the majority of the people that I find to lack any self respect or respect towards women are the ones that got defensive instantly. I never named any names. But the ones who came out in full defense were the, "usual suspects" so to speak. Far from shocked.
I appreciate all of the feedback from my original post.
Thank you all.
I'll give you the envelope, you give me the fantasy for the set amount of time we've agreed to. It's actually a fairly simple arrangement, and if I may say so a perfect one. I respect and honor a lady's time, all I ask in return is the same. I hope the lady enjoys herself and my company, I'll do what I can to contribute to that but I can't ensure it. I can understand a 1/2 or 1 hour (BP) lady being detached and this is why I don't prefer to see that kind of provider. I don't ask for overtime, I'm the clock watcher, the lady doesn't have to be. I don't require OTC time as a few other hobbyists have mentioned in here recently. All I ask for is that the lady is engaged and attentive during the session. Make me happy, and rock my world and I'll be back, it's a rather simple equation. As for the lady you mentioned, if it's who I think it is, perhaps she was in the wrong line of work. This life is easy, pretty good money. But I think as with anything else in life you get what you put into it. If I was seeing 100-200 girls I wouldn't expect any kind of engagement, it would be a blow and go. I prefer at the very least the next level of service if not higher.