Sugar Daddy's are getting a BANG for their BUCKS!

Gentlemen this is a question for you

Would you convert to being a Sugar Daddy if it meant:

(A) You were NOT on the clock

(B) You pay a  monthly allowance instead of hourly

...to cut off the relationship at any point.

...to  not be interrupted during my baseball and football games. No GF and Wife BS....

...to hobby outside the SB/SD relationship..

Now, only if I had that kind of disposable income...sure.

If I'm the Daddy. I need a Momma.
I mean..
If I were ever to do that type of thing. It would be to better myself.
Learn women?
I can't and wouldn't just buy a girl stuff so I felt cool.
It wouldn't make me feel cool anyway.
What I am trying to say I guess.. Is..
I would only get into a SD relationship if she would tell me the woman's secrets.
Show me what the ladies like.. Educate me..

I like the ability to have variety when I want. If a provider is a good I will see her again. There have been providers that I have 10 to 12 times. After a while it gets boring see the same ole girl. Also in both provider and sugar-babe relationship the women are not always available. It is much easier to find a provider at the last minute that has been on your shopping list.

A SD/SB relationship is defined from the gate in.  If your allowance is based on 2-3 days a weeks
then your SB will be make herself available to you.  

Anyway I wanted to touch on this subject because I met a few hobbyiest turned Sugar Daddy and one of the main reasons they entered into an arranged relationship is because, its " CLOCK FREE "  

Seems to be a big deal?



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If you mean sexual secrets, then good luck.  Every woman is different and you have to learn to tailor yourself with each new partner.  There are basics.  For example, do not be rough with the clit.  Doesn't matter how hard and fast you rub it, a genie is never going to jump out.  

Of a non-sexual nature??  I think the women on this board could more than cover the do's and don't.  The big one I assume that most men are unaware of:  when we really like you, we like to show off our wife skills.  To men that would translate into sex stuff, but you are wrong.  We clean your apartment and wash your laundry, do a little cooking.  And if there is a baby near we will demonstrate our extreme patience and amazing swaddling skills.  That's female for I have been thinking about how my first name will sound with your last name.  You have passed many tests to get to this point.

Posted By: TheHoundOfCullin

If I'm the Daddy. I need a Momma.
I mean..
If I were ever to do that type of thing. It would be to better myself.
Learn women?
I can't and wouldn't just buy a girl stuff so I felt cool.
It wouldn't make me feel cool anyway.
What I am trying to say I guess.. Is..
I would only get into a SD relationship if she would tell me the woman's secrets.
Show me what the ladies like.. Educate me..

If I could afford it, with the right girl I would be interested, but it won't happen because it is not in my budget. Unlike some of the guys here who hobby daily, weekly, biweekly, monthly, etc., I have a few sessions per year.

I dabbled on a SD site and met a really nice girl.  We went for drinks, and then went to the hotel.  I spent about 3 hours with her and the 'allowance' was $300.  I've seen her a few times.

If you want the experience to feel more like a 'date', then the SD thing is a good fit for you.  If you're not interested in conversation with an early 20's woman, then stay away, lol.

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Say I pay a healthy monthly figure (maybe $5k). How do I know she will let me fuck her as often as would be reasonable (once or twice a week) with the same high level of performance and booking convenience as if I scheduled her on a per session basis?

I've had a provider I saw repeatedly over many months gradually decline in her appearance and in both the enthusiasm of her performance and the number of cups in a session. When that happened, I simply focused on other women until she got lonely for my money and sent me a sweet email seeking another booking. In that case, the most money I'd lose is the donation for one sub-par session.

In the case of a SD deal, she could slack off or become unavailable for 30 days. Which would be absolutely fucked up for me and logical for her given she's still hooking daily with others.

Also, why would I prepay and commit when she's still doing multiple daily sessions with other Johns? Makes little sense to me outside of a long-term (e.g., annual) exclusivity deal where she's taken off the market and I have daily access or guaranteed 3x/week access and she pulls her website, TER profile and Eros ads, and kills her escort email after sending a blast email to all clients explaining her "retirement". Even then, I don't know whose cock she's sucking or fucking when it's not mine.

That was no allowance that was a pay for play.  More like $100 an hr

We kept in touch by phone, and when I want a night out that's what we did. Dinner, activities, then overnight at my hotel. I paid for everything and when I took her in the morning I gave her  3 or 4 hundred. It worked well while it lasted. She had never hooked, didn't intend to and was very happy with the money. I was much older, so she would call me for advice and help, sometimes for a little extra cash - 50 or 100 - that was fine.

But I would not do a monthly allowance.

Interestingly I have recognized more that a few providers I know on SD/sb sites. I'm not interested in a SD arrangement with a pro.

An allowance usually range from  from 2K - 10K a month.. it's contingent upon your verbal agreement..

deciding factors are: Looks, Age, Chemistry and if she has a love nest!

I assume you can have sex whenever you want - non-negotiable (within reason). So If I had the income that allowed me this, most certainly. I would rotate favs every 3 months or so.

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I think the Sultan of Brunei prefers this approach.

After a decade of hobbying, I got tired of getting tested every six months, getting stood up every now and then and being disappointed just about as much as being satisfied.  I needed something different, went on a well known SD/sb site and found a very mature, highly desirable woman.  We got to know each other well, built trust, got tested, and now play bare to our heart's content.  I give her a montly allowance which equals what I was spending with multiple escorts.  Whenever I want to have variety, she and I find a gal and she participates, but her attention is strictly on my pleasure.

Maybe this is impolitic to reveal on an escort site, but I couldn't be happier with my mistress relationship.

And, some will fk you for the damn cable bill and fake nails. College girls are generally not all that schooled on the amount of money they COULD be making as providers, so I know so many SDs, barely putting out anything and getting a hell of a lot. No thanks!

I thought this was about Sugar Babies ??

Both have their pro's and con's but you're right, more bang for the buck with SB's.

Have met several SB's, all 20 years or more younger than me, and the price of an overnight was only a nice dinner and maybe $300 - $500.  Can't beat it when the situation is good.