Really, maybe there's a different take on this. Most, if not all, of us partake in the hobby in complete secrecy. We have some amazing adventures, but can't tell anyone! I have people that I trust completely to have my back, but I don't trust their stupidity. I can be sure that if I told anyone of the things I've done, it would get out and completely screw up my life.
So...message boards and anonymous online friends is all we got. If you don't like reading the stories, skip 'em.
I've had the pleasure and honor of meeting some ladies and some of the guys.
Of course, the ladies were for obvious reasons. But I've spent off-the-clock time with some as well. Ate, drank, and I had great times. Can't speak for them, of course. Part of their job? Maybe.
I know this sounds fucked up, but I truly believe that the ladies I've seen, and those that I will see, know I'm probably the easiest as far as a date is concerned.
And in the same respect, when I meet some of the guys to get together in LV for instance, they know it's gonna be a ride. I'm me, and I go full balls. I don't 'cut back' because of certain company. I think it's understood the way I am. I drink to excess, and you better keep up.
So, I've teased certain people about what happened when we got fucked up together. Fuck! Almost got arrested the last time!
Not because of what 'we' did. Just the company that 'invaded' our space! lol!
Honestly this whole drop your pants and lookee at me thing is getting old as shit.
People like this guy, and a few others, need to understand that we ALL have experiences. Many of these experiences would make some of this small time punk BS pale by comparison. Some of us just have the class to enjoy them, live life, and STFU about it.
The need to constantly brag about who you know, what you do, and the "extras" you get is frankly just sad and fucking pathetic.
You learn more by listening than talking....so STFU
I know what mine is. I fucking love the sound of my own "voice." That's obvious by the amount of posting I do. You seem to think pretty highly of your own opinions, which you're also pretty free with, despite the fact that they're usually nasty or condescending. That's fine with me. Everyone livens up the board in their own way and for their own reasons. All in all, it makes the board a more interesting place. But let's not get carried away about whose opinions should be left unsaid. I know you didn't say MP should STFU, but you did agree with someone who did, so this is really posted not just at you but at all the nay-sayers.. I don't agree with everything he posts, either. But I give Mikey credit for his "out there" enthusiasm and try not to judge him for his excesses. Everyone has a right to a voice. Everyone also has a right to disagree. It's the nastiness that I could do without. PS: I know I've been nasty at times, too, but I'm trying!
...I give Mikey credit for his "out there" enthusiasm and try not to judge him for his excesses. Everyone has a right to a voice. Everyone also has a right to disagree. It's the nastiness that I could do without.
Agreed!
When I read Mikey's post, I did not read into it as him being a braggart about OTC time with providers or boasting/needing attention.
I viewed it as his way of sharing his enthusiasm (as inicky46 described it) and enjoyment with his experiences in this little world of ours, while also inquiring about the experiences of others who have forged real friendships with others in the demimonde. We all have stories to share...I know I do!
Mikey is an open and honest person. He has never denied his "excesses" nor has he put on false heirs, at least from what I can tell from knowing him for a few months now. (And yes, OTC!!...Many a telephone conversation.)
Again, as inicky46 said, "Everyone has a right to a voice. Everyone also has a right to disagree. It's the nastiness that I could do without."
The OP is not bragging he is simple telling of his adventures, and clearly you are not intelligent enough to understand or figure out the difference. These unwarranted and unprovoked attacks leave no doubt that you and your ilk, who criticize, are trying to divert attention from your own worthlessness. It’s not working because the only ones who agree with you are your bottom feeding troll friends.
Go ahead and put your negative and dishonest spin on it and have the last word.
...of you FUCKING ASSHOLES who are supposedly more entertaining, experienced in life and obviously more opinionated than the rest of us would simply be intelligent enough to avoid reading any further babble authored by those individuals that you are obviously envious of.
I'm sorry Sweetie. Did I, or anyone else, DARE to say something other than mindless praise for yet another of your boyfriend's pointless posts? You know, the ones that waste space just like him.
Sorry you had to take time away from his balls tickling the back of your throat to make such an intelligent post.
...of you FUCKING ASSHOLES who are supposedly more entertaining, experienced in life and obviously more opinionated than the rest of us would simply be intelligent enough to avoid reading any further babble authored by those individuals that you are obviously envious of.
Talk about some internal need being played out! people in glass houses....
Here is a novel idea! If MP, or anyone for that matter, annoys you, DON'T READ THEIR POSTS!
You haters, go ahead and take a moment and let that sink in... go ahead.
Before you think I have a boner or MP or that we party together, let me set you straight. WE have never met. If fact, the man has posted what he thinks of me and it ain't flattering. SO FUCKING WHAT!
The is a discussion board--an open forum-- and if he was out of line his post would be pulled or he'd be moderated. So, he's playing by the rules.
Further more, in a sense, my post is not about him. He's obviously a man that doesn't need someone like me covering his back. He can handle himself. He can stand on his own two feet (perhaps occasionally using a bar stool for balance, from what I've read here, but I digress)
Seriously, If it's one-on-one, mano e mano, then go at each other in your posts! I like a trainwreck or a catfight just as much as anyone else. But the way I see it...
MP puts color , character , and interest on this board. Just like GaG, Scoed, lilli, Khori, Hirogen, romeogolf, gatorjimmy, mr fisher, joleneineugene, mattradd, etc, etc.
and the do it without hiding behind an ASSCLOWN alias**
Have a nice day!
HH
** DISCLAIMER: comment is not against alias or those that use them. Only the pathetic pussies THAT HIDE BEHIND them for reasons of cowardice. Please use your aliases responsibly.
great insult. I don't know if MP is one, but I'm a better man for having read the board today. AssClown, let me try to use that at least three times a day next week in order to commit it to memory. Is AssHat similar, that was on here the other day, too. By the way, MP's right, this hobby is cool, full of adventure, and many other things. anybody else make that observation or are he and I lone hobbyists that like what we, hobby on, whatever, hobby, nevermind.
There is attack after attack on this thread. It makes me wonder what does it accomplish to go out of ones way and waste the time and energy to post said attacks? Does it make the attacker feel better about themselves? Does it do anything useful? Do they really get a kick out of belittling others or is it they themselves feel little and want company?
When I first got on TER, I was in a bad place. My wife was allowing me to see escorts and I had no clue as to why but knew something was not right. A bit later I found out she had returned to escorting. I was devastated. My world came crashing down on me, But I decided to stick it out.
I used the boards as a place to vent some of my feelings as I had nowhere else I felt I could share them do to the nature of my issues. I know many of you really dislike that I did so and I was often the target of attack posts like most of the replies on this tread are.
But there where some that really helped me in my time I spent on the boards. Johngaltnh helped me find a way for me to deal with my guilt about hobbying and also shared some stuff that gave me hope for my situation. Allure helped me realize that open marriages could work. Mrfisher told me about CASA and that was a huge thing. Many others also helped me out in other little ways that are to numerous to bring up often with out meaning to. My thanks to all of you.
The person though that helped me out the most on TER is MP67. As I said at the start of my reply when I first started to post, I felt very isolated. My life was a wreck and there was no one at the time I could go to because of the nature of the issues. MP became that person I could go to.
MP read it. He also read my other posts about my life and PMed me and said,
"Hey Shane. I won't beat around the bush. I'm an alcoholic and suffer from depression. I think if we coach each other, we can get to where we want to be at. Know what I mean? It's crazy, I know"
We exchanged numbers and we became good friends. He gave me the listening post I needed. He gave me the support I need and it likely saved my marriage. I have never met him and I know he has his issues but he is one of my best friends. MP67, Thanks, your support has meant a lot to me.
To all those that can't see the man behind the booze, your loss.
But it's true what you said. And what I PMd you sounds right. At the time I was highly depressed myself. And like you, I took advantage of having a 'sounding board' and I'm feeling much better now! lol!
Really, maybe there's a different take on this. Most, if not all, of us partake in the hobby in complete secrecy. We have some amazing adventures, but can't tell anyone! I have people that I trust completely to have my back, but I don't trust their stupidity. I can be sure that if I told anyone of the things I've done, it would get out and completely screw up my life.
So...message boards and anonymous online friends is all we got. If you don't like reading the stories, skip 'em.
First off. Where the fuck did I say that I fuck providers for free? I said I spent OTC time with some. That didn't mean my dick was buried in one of their orifices at any time. I thought it was clear that we meet and have a meal and drinks before we actually 'go on the clock', OR, God forbid, we meet at a party, or a bunch of us, guys and girls, get together and have a good time outside of the realm.
I mean, really? Does this whole thing encompass your life? Is it not possible that a man and a woman that know what the other does, can't actually get together and talk and enjoy each other's company without talking about 'the hobby'? That's sad.
There's some wonderful, interesting, enjoyable people out there. And just because they pay, or get paid, to get laid doesn't mean they're horrible people.
Which brings me to my next subject. The haters.
I wasn't aware to the posts that were written today until some friends of mine texted me. I went and looked and I saw what I expected.
You got Hirogen. And Drunkencunt. And gatorjimmy bashing. It's cool. I expected that. But you have to consider the source, as well.
I'll admit. The board was dead last night. Even the haters, that don't have a positive thing to say about anyone or anything were off jerking themselves off, I assume. Or maybe rubbing one out, because I'm not totally convinced one or more of them are not women.
But in any case, my intent was to show that I'm glad I found this, I'm having fun, and wanted to hear the same. But instead it turned into a bitch-fest.
Well. That was second on my agenda. I knew, if I posted something, said players would throw their two cents in because they're miserable fucks. They hate the fact that they HAVE to pay to get laid, their life is so fucked up no one wants anything to do with them, so they come on here and project their discontent for themselves and every one else.
This is just a theory, of course. But seeing as how these certain people have nothing but venom to spew when they do post, I'm more than sure that everyone is certain these posters are sad, contemptuous, just plain out pathetic individuals.
I was telling someone just tonight about this. I have accounts I have to visit and service. Sometimes the owner or the manager is so fucking dreadful, spiteful, just plain nasty-hating-the-world kinda shit.
And here I come in. They spew all sorts of fucking crap.
It's 9 in the morning? How bad can it really be?
Anyway, the other people there tell me, 'Don't listen to him. He's an asshole.'
I just say, 'You know what? I got him for 5 minutes. He has to live with himself all day'.
So, like I said. Just making an example out of some of the people that don't contribute anything to the community but hate and discontent. They certainly don't write reviews, so it makes me wonder if 1, they are hobbyists, or 2, providers with a chip on their shoulder.
But then again you have gatorjimmy, who most certainly is a hobbyist with many reviews and is a mod for fuck sakes. You could've hit me upside the head with a baseball bat and I wouldn't be more surprised he was made a mod. No love lost there, and we both know it.
Take what you want out of this. PM me, or email me. Some of you have my email and phone number even. I have nothing to hide, and I like to think if you want a straight answer I'll give it to you. Just don't be surprised if it's something you don't want to hear.
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