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Why the people don't like make a screening?? They don't know that is for safety..... Who can explain why the screening make mad to some people? Because I don't understand.. If u want  an escort services u have to pass for screening.

London Rayne609 reads

Yes, it is frustrating but part of the biz. They are too stupid to realize that if a girl does NOT screen, she is more of a danger to them than one that does. Just delete, rinse, and repeat. Any email I get that does not contain the required info. is simply ignored....ok, so I might make some smart ass comment too, but you get the point. Don't waste your time going back and forth with those who simply don't get it. We are not asking for their damn SS number and first born here.  I do not have the time to hold their hand and walk them through what is already stated numerous times in my ads, and on my website.

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1545910413 reads

That's make me crazy, because u have too be carefully for u and for ur regular client u know, and make me mad when I receive a lot of contact but nobody make screen. Lol I delete too lol and put a little note in that contact lol. I thought maybe is only me lol .....

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London Rayne339 reads

Then again, you're not going to get much business either bwahahahaha. No, it's not only you sweetie...we all deal with the same stuff.

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1545910320 reads

Well, I prefer my business get I little down but keep safe u know. I like take time with nice people, and that is the importance to make a good screen... But anyway, I keep learning ;)

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Duplicitouslust337 reads

Well now since you are in good company, you can say please submit your information, before attempting any ejaculation. This must transpire so we both can have elation.

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London Rayne319 reads

Ha ha...smart guy's a rhymer!

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TallEuro335 reads

This is good timing, because recently I reached out to a provider with close to 50 reviews (from actual hobbyists, as I confirmed this by going through the hobbyists other reviews as well).  Her last review was posted 4 months ago.  Sent her a polite, yet direct email and she responded promptly.  We have a date/place set (hotel lobby), however she NEVER went through a screening process with me, nor did she ask for references.  What does this say to you?

Posted By: London Rayne
Yes, it is frustrating but part of the biz. They are too stupid to realize that if a girl does NOT screen, she is more of a danger to them than one that does. Just delete, rinse, and repeat. Any email I get that does not contain the required info. is simply ignored....ok, so I might make some smart ass comment too, but you get the point. Don't waste your time going back and forth with those who simply don't get it. We are not asking for their damn SS number and first born here.  I do not have the time to hold their hand and walk them through what is already stated numerous times in my ads, and on my website.

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serpius315 reads

... of screening to me.

It must have worked well for her if she has almost 50 reviews.

That means she must be doing something right.

Serpius

Posted By: TallEuro
This is good timing, because recently I reached out to a provider with close to 50 reviews (from actual hobbyists, as I confirmed this by going through the hobbyists other reviews as well).  Her last review was posted 4 months ago.  Sent her a polite, yet direct email and she responded promptly.  We have a date/place set (hotel lobby), however she NEVER went through a screening process with me, nor did she ask for references.  What does this say to you?
Posted By: London Rayne
Yes, it is frustrating but part of the biz. They are too stupid to realize that if a girl does NOT screen, she is more of a danger to them than one that does. Just delete, rinse, and repeat. Any email I get that does not contain the required info. is simply ignored....ok, so I might make some smart ass comment too, but you get the point. Don't waste your time going back and forth with those who simply don't get it. We are not asking for their damn SS number and first born here.  I do not have the time to hold their hand and walk them through what is already stated numerous times in my ads, and on my website.

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London Rayne307 reads

There are PLENTY of ways to find out if you are legit and many don't tell you just how they find out.

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1545910253 reads

Some girl don't ask u nothing, sometime providers use other person to get the phone and make screen and that person don't do it and only schedule appt, anyway, u can find different providers who work different. But I try to be nice and make confortable the situation with the people who contact me, u know ( sorry if u feel confuse for my English :P.

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StarrRider232 reads

Many other methods of finding out who you are without asking you a single thing.  I in fact only ask when I need to...and you won't get my secret screening process either so don't ask, but I will tell you this, it's super easy in this day and age especially if you are a seasoned hobbyist and OF COURSE if you contacted her through TER

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wrapthoselegs307 reads


Lol. Too true
We only have enough blood flow to properly run on organ at a time.

Posted By: London Rayne
Yes, it is frustrating but part of the biz. They are too stupid to realize that if a girl does NOT screen, she is more of a danger to them than one that does. Just delete, rinse, and repeat. Any email I get that does not contain the required info. is simply ignored....ok, so I might make some smart ass comment too, but you get the point. Don't waste your time going back and forth with those who simply don't get it. We are not asking for their damn SS number and first born here.  I do not have the time to hold their hand and walk them through what is already stated numerous times in my ads, and on my website.

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anonymousfun333 reads

The providers with onerous screening process. Personally, when I see it on the web I don't even bother calling. If it is not on the web, and if it is onerous then I politely say it is not going to work out and move on.

I will provide references and if you insist on my work, I will not provide, if you insist on my TER HANDLE, I will not give it. It is for my safety.

I am not saying either the OP or London have onerous process. Just saying.

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London Rayne287 reads

Bottom line is, do what you are comfortable with, and the provider will do the same. No need to get pissed if a guy is not willing to provide what you want, but he has to provide something for Pete's sake. I admit, I do require a lot of shit before I will see someone, but hey..they also know this upfront.

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Posted By: anonymousfun
The providers with onerous screening process. Personally, when I see it on the web I don't even bother calling. If it is not on the web, and if it is onerous then I politely say it is not going to work out and move on.

I will provide references and if you insist on my work, I will not provide, if you insist on my TER HANDLE, I will not give it. It is for my safety.

I am not saying either the OP or London have onerous process. Just saying.

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margomatisse309 reads

I think it's pretty unfair of you to call them (us) stupid. Hello, we are meeting strange men and either going into their places or inviting them into ours. I'd much rather be a little too and have a little more information than necessary, than not enough.

I'm not saying that you have no safety issues to worry about as a man in this hobby..but if you do your research on a lady here on TER, it's pretty easy to find out if she's discreet, handles your information with respect and will deliver services as promised. We're the ones who are running more of an immediate and physical safety risk, period. And so before I meet a man, you better believe I am going to want to find out some information about him. And if my screening process is too arduous for you...I don't need your money that badly. There are gentleman out there who get it and know that we will only be able to enjoy our time together if I feel safe.

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kimosabe242 reads

Wait just a minute. I think I have been defamed
I have a hard head and when I have the other hardness it is still  a no brainer. Of course, folks have to be safe. It is a no brainer that screeing is mandatory.  Safety first my friends
So, you see ladies and gentlemen, some us can have brains that operate simultaneously.
love you ladies

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serpius283 reads

... chime in, but seeing the responses already...

Never mind.

Serpius

Posted By: Mariana69
Why the people don't like make a screening?? They don't know that is for safety..... Who can explain why the screening make mad to some people? Because I don't understand.. If u want  an escort services u have to pass for screening.

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TallEuro290 reads

... or maybe I'm being overly paranoid/careful.  Just wanted to get you all's input on it.  -thanks

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London Rayne276 reads

do you have another handle on other boards with reviews? Did you email her from your real name or company email? Are you on a screening site? If you answer no to all of the above, I have no damn clue what she did to screen you, because that would not work for me.

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hokjock256 reads

Because I can go to the BPs and pay $160 to some chick who asks me if I'm LE, then gives me a half ass effort CBJ while watching tv with her cell phone constantly spewing hip hop ring tones.  Golly, why would I ever want to be screened???

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Posted By: hokjock
Because I can go to the BPs and pay $160 to some chick who asks me if I'm LE, then gives me a half ass effort CBJ while watching tv with her cell phone constantly spewing hip hop ring tones.  Golly, why would I ever want to be screened???

Ok so then if you don't want to deal with screening then stick to BP tail. But if you want a girl that specifically asks for references in her ad, or it's mentioned on her website then deal with it. If you don't want too then go back to BP. Right?  At the end of the day it's NOT worth it for me to NOT screen.

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London Rayne168 reads

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1545910311 reads

I think the client have to take some education about that entertaiment, I see in Fl have a lot a problem to make screen more than other states in my opinion, but anyway. That step is too important because is the way that the client can feel good with a nice providers and the providers can feel safe with the client.. So screening, I prefer lost a client but be good... In the date can be a lot fun but first u have to show some information about u, and if u (clients) don't want show any references any information, maybe backpage can work for that people... The most of girl there don't make good screening, is my opinion for my experience...

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crazyshit214 reads

The biggest issue is that guys are left very vulnerable when the provider has his personal information and uses it as blackmail.  Most providers are very good about using information only for screening purposes ONLY.  However, there are a handful of crazy ones, bad apples, that will use that against you when you write a less-than-stellar review, or as leverage to give you a shitty session because no guy will want to risk having his information given out on a blacklist for complaining about a lousy session.

This is a serious problem, because the very strange reality is that information flow only goes one way in this hobby.  In other words, information only goes from the client to the provider.  Strangely, we are expected to give out our personal information because we are paying.  Women never give out their real and personal information for us to screen.

I'm not complaining about that, but it is pretty interesting when you think about that.  It almost seems counterintuitive to me.  But that's the protocol of things.

Third-party screening sites to me are a little strange, as well.  I used to be a P411 member and may one day again join, but the very fact that so much information is located in one place in terms of both provider and client information, makes me wonder how LE doesn't just bust them and get all the information in one shot.  I dunno...that's always been on the back of my mind, to be honest with you.

In the end, it comes down to giving as much information as you are comfortable with.  If you are not comfortable giving out as much as the provider wants, then walk.  It's really that simple.  There are other choices.

And if the provider feels that she is uncomfortable, she should decline the appointment.

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clang22342 reads

with that said, I refuse to provide any work information. Thats why I have references and belong to a independent verification site.

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