TER General Board
Ohhhhh now you made me grumpy! It always makes me grumpy when I see someone with a high libido who is open minded sexually talking about needing therapy and WHY, because our STUPID idiotic society says so??????? AGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH!
Please keep in mind that OUR society is not the ONLY one in the world... nor does it mean just because we have laws that regulate sex, that those laws are *morally* right. Only YOU can decide what is morally right for you, and in my opinion, you can do whatever you choose with another consenting adult as long as it does not involve harming or interfering in the life of anyone who is NOT consenting.
I hear this kind of crap all the damn time and it is my PERSONAL pet PEEVE, OMG!!!!!! This Christmas the radio abounded with commercials with the following dialog... (Very sexy female voice...) "Hey guys? I'm going to tell you a little secret that could get me in a lot of trouble. Do you want to know how to get the booty?????" Pause, and then... "Well, if you want to get the booty, you've got to come up with the booty... meaning great gifts of course!" It was a frickin' JEWELRY STORE COMMERCIAL and if you want to talk about media-sanctioned prostitution, well THERE IT IS!
Meanwhile, any young woman who claims to love sex, and masturbates every day, feels like there is something WRONG with her and she should get therapy, and she must have been raped or molested or abused as a child, because no one normal feels that way. No, the normal women lose all interest in sex and their husbands come TO US. Normal women won't have sex with the lights on, or try anything new, so their husbands look ELSEWHERE. THAT is normal?????
Oooooooooooh it makes me so DARNED MAD!
I could... SPIT or something!
GRRRRRRRRRRR.
Whewwwwwwww, ok I think I'm done venting for the moment. But you, Mr. Hair pulling hot sweaty sex spanking loving guy... DO not feel like there is something wrong with you. ANYthing in this world can be a negative or unhealthy thing... as soon as it becomes self-destructive (ie: never using condoms... etc!), or HARMS you in any way and you continue the behavior regardless. That includes healthy things like working out, etc. People get soooooo defensive of how "sex is not the most important thing" to them... well I'm here to tell you, this world would be a better place if more people nurtured their sexuality and cared for it rather than assuming it is "bad" or "dirty." UGH.
OK I'm really done, honest! For now 
Hugsssssss*
Nicole
It is all about ME yanno, and if I didn't enjoy doing this, I wouldn't do it! If it didn't turn me on and thrill me, I'd get an office job! I am not here for lack of skills, I'm here because it is FUN, and I am making money doing something I truly ENJOY. HOW do I do it? Would you like the illustrated step by step guide, or the cliff's notes version??? 
hehe!
Hugs*
Nicole
If you can, if there's any way at all, to masturbate when no one's home or whatever... just open your mouth, breathe, don't hold yourself back! We learn as children to be QUIET when we're masturbating, not wanting parents, siblings, etc, to hear... but as adults, it is sooooooooooo nice to be able to let go of that! I can be quiet if I absolutely MUST, but it's a struggle, and I'd rather not And I also only really discovered after getting in the 'biz how hot it is when GUYS make noise too... what a turn on!!!!!
Hugs*
Nicole