I had a provider tell me that once.....my response "I'm paying for this and I want what I like" it's like food, when you order food you want it to taste good and look like the picture in the ad and taste better then the picture in the ad. WOmen are the same way.....some women just post these crazy photos and they can't live up to them.
I was recently blasted by a high-end provider who declared me "too critical". What a crock of shit! If i'm not honest i don't serve the hobby community properly.
Has anyone else noticed or suffered this very fate?
Can you provide and example or two of your honesty?
They check out a guy's review history. If the guy is a tough scorer/grader and gives low TER scores consistently, they BLACKBALL him. Trust me - it happens a lot.
i would not black ball but I would ask questions about the reviews.. and why he chose me... and tell him straight up about my reservations and discuss it with him..
a lot of perfect 10 10s want to keep that perfect score by not allowing critical reviewers into their ratings pool. All you have to do is check the history of each reviewer on a providers page.
It is rather difficult to check your claim. And taking the word of an alias for their own honesty is a bit difficult to swallw.
Has anyone else noticed or suffered this very fate?
she cares about #1.
It's hysterical that her rejection shocks you. You must be living in a cave if you don't understand human nature.
Posted by ScotlandYard_Dick, 11/28/2011 7:28:25 AM
I was recently blasted by a high-end provider who declared me "too critical". What a crock of shit! If i'm not honest i don't serve the hobby community properly. Has anyone else noticed or suffered this very fate?
So, I would disagree with: "A shill post is one made by a guy who just wants to recommend a certain provider on a particular, usually, regional board just because he thinks she is the bomb" If a guy really likes the lady, I don't see that as a shill. Maybe over zealous, but not a shill.
But, I would agree with: "or that she asked him to do it." That implies a tit for tat, and not a truly honest post.
On a different note:
As a provider I read the review history and have often read that the service was great but the reviewer has felt the need to point out natural human flaws and are stated in a malicious manner. I find this vindictive. Unless the ad say "flawless stunner" one should expect that the provider is going to have a flaw or two. The questions I would think are that are relevant are: was she professional, did she deliver as promised, were the pictures real and accurate. Were there any attempts at upsale. Were there any safety concerns? Would you see this provider again. To go into critical detail about what you personally found unattractive about a provider is uncalled for as we all agree looks are subjective. As a provider I know I have flaws and when I read that you had a great time but the majority of the review is what you didn't like about her body is such a mood killer I find that I am not up for the task to critiqued. I'm here to set your pants on fire and get your heart pumping and not trying to overcome what it is that you may be looking at that you don't like that your going to write about in a review.
First of all I think it is very rare for a Provider to check out a dudes reviews before scheduling with him. Secondly everyone has different criteria and scores differently. Just because someone rates a babe higer than you they are not by definitition a shill. I sense a little tude here....might be one of your problems.
But...I will tell you this. Through the years I have encountered a lady or two that have told me they refused to book with a guy that they did not think they were going to please. I assumed they were refering to hobbyist who have a history of negative reviews. And I have definitely learned that my attitude and conduct affects level of service received.
Reviews aren't supposed to be ads for the ladies, they are meant to give an accurate expectation for your fellow hobbyists.
However the answer to your question is no. I give 8-10ss because I try to book with ladies that have a history of high scores. Would you like to give an example of a review I've made that has been inconsistent with other reviews the babe has received? Have you ever seen a lady I have reviewed and had a negative experience? My reviews are a honest report of my experience. Your reviews on the other hand...oh wait....I forgot...you are attacking under an alias.
One thing you can count on.... my reviews are an accurate expectation of what you can expect . Now if you are an ass...well..no promises.
You obviously lack the courage to post under your TER handle but if you are indeed a serious hobbyist and wish to PM me for an adult discussion feel free to do so. I promise not to "out " you.
very true..
and you are wrong, many girls WILL check the reviews to get an idea of what the guy likes or does not like...
I have questioned guys who have a tendency to see tiny girls and the bigger ones they rate low....
I see it as why see me if you will not be happy with my looks?
many girls think like I do... if the guy is OVERLY critical in their reviews, then why bother trying if he is too hard to please?
who repeatedly comments on girls' size in a negative way in his reviews. I'm very wary of such reviewers, and I do check the reviews of the men who contact me to see if we're a good fit. My pics are accurate, and I don't try to hide my body type; as one of my most recent reviews says "WYSIWYG." But if you're gonna be hypercritical of what you see, or if you are only turned on by petite spinners, then it's better that we not see each other.
i have had that too and I question them about why they are choosing me then...most end up having their first bbw exp with me and having fun.... but some i see that they read the reviews, like the services but physically I know wont like me and cant get over it and I can TELL they will write a bad review and I choose not to see them.. why should I? when I can see men who love my look and body and wont blast me for it even though I dont hide it and they picked me regardless?
ridiculous!
And therefore, is relatively useless.
You are surely correct that reviewers that tend to rate highly are more likely to get the nod to see more ladies than reviewers that routinely give out 7's and lower. Most of the ladies here smart enough to connect the dots between less than stellar reviews to the session in question, and will share intel with the other ladies in their network, which all of them have. Always remember that a 7 score or below is damaging to the ladies, so be sure that when you review with such scores, it is warranted. Being careless with reviews can lead to many of them not wanting you as a client.
And, yes, I tend to grade rather highly. One of the secrets to successful hobbying...
I had a provider tell me that once.....my response "I'm paying for this and I want what I like" it's like food, when you order food you want it to taste good and look like the picture in the ad and taste better then the picture in the ad. WOmen are the same way.....some women just post these crazy photos and they can't live up to them.