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3 visits in the last two weeks. Is this a bad idea?
bab0ym0 1 Reviews 1234 reads
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The first two were massages and the third was a full service. Does that seem excessive for someone that's new to the game?

It is only bad if you are spending beyond your means, or if in setting up that many dates you are not being cautious in the choices you are making.  There is no rule on the number of visits per day, week, month in this hobby.
Bottom line is after the newness wears off you will find find a # of visits per day, week, month that keeps you smiling the hobby smile.

If it's within your means, why would that be a bad idea?  It's your hobby...you set the ground rules as far being excessive.

I presume that these three visits were with three different providers, correct?. If so, there is a certain amount of giddiness that comes with being a newbie and it boils down to being part and parcel of a learning curve. As stated by the others, if it's within your comfortable means, then why not?.

However, a newbie who gets fixated on one provider and visits her a few times in a couple of weeks, is simply obsessing and should not carry on in doing so. I know this, because I was guilty of doing precisely the same thing when I started! In this case, once you set aside the emotional factor and start doing your due diligence more carefully, you'll end up with better choices and much more fun, down the road ;)

Not if you have the financial and emotional resources to manage it.

I was hooking up a minimum of 2 or 3 times a week. My libido was off the charts at the time.

If different, more power to you as long as the piggy bank holds out and you don't wear yourself out physically.

If the same gal, consider that familiarity breeds contempt and absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Consider this a honeymoon but now space the visits to once every month or even two (my prefered lacuna)

married_to_OSP138 reads

i like a man to be on his best game. What could i possibly do for a worn out gentleman? I also don't want them to visit too frequently because of what you have already described.

;-) ;-)

If it is the same provider, just be cautious of getting too attached too quick. Also some women may either be freaked out by the frequency so quick or take advantage of you for it. So just be cautious!

xoxox

I was at a party once and saw four different providers as the evening progressed.  
(Those were fun times)!

If you have the money I'd say go it. If I was single, I'll be a 2X a week guy. And I have done 3 visits in 2 weeks like you without a problem.

Now if it's the same girl you're seeing, maybe you need to take a break for at least 2-4 weeks before seeing her again.

No. If you can afford the encounters and are not taking time from important life responsibilities. Yes if one of the stated conditions is not met.

Thanks for all the replies ladies and gents.

All my visits were to different providers with varying levels of enjoyment. I'm beginning to be a LOT more selective with my provider choices. As for my next visit, I'll probably wait two weeks until I take the dive once again.

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