I'd Love to get the perspective of woman and men on my recent encounter...

and it sounds like she is a "nice" generous giving provider.

That is an answer why in states I just prefer to be a companion.
Seems as many american women as well.  
Oh american middle class men - any hope in you becoming more upbeat, more how to say- intelligent?  
It was fun to read how you was covered in her cum  
I think many did enjoy that reading  
Why I think - you are from middle west and she is from Russia?  
Match made in heave

Sometimes time gets away from us a little.  If you had an extra $200 on you then it would have been great to give that much more.  But you gave whatever you had a tip to show your appreciation for the fact that she was willing to be relaxed about the time.  She invited you to stay, so it doesn't sound like she was counting the seconds until you left in her mind.  I think we all feel disappointed when we go above and beyond what we've been booked for and the client doesn't reciprocate in some manner by going above and beyond on his end.

I always have enough "extra" on me to cover up to one additional hour plus tip at the posted rate, because sometimes I'M the one that wants to extend if I'm have a great time and her schedule permits us to extend.  If you make this your practice, you will never be short on the tip if she does something extra special for you, like you describe, that warrants demonstrative appreciation.

It's far, far more anonymous.

Ahhhhhh....Russians.  
The unwashed peasants who like to think of themselves as Europeans.

I'm gonna cry.....But I like you as the asshole that you are...don't be getting soft on us....lol

I can definitely understand if any one were to think it was not really me who authored that post. lol

If so find an appropriate item and send it to her.

You were WAY too easy on this ass clown.  First of all, what kind of a douche bag walks around with only $60 in his wallet?  And even if that was the case, since he was at her incall, which was probably a hotel, all he needed to do was to go down to the lobby and find a fucking ATM.  Failing that, how far is an ATM from anywhere in America?
The guy is a dick and you're a wuss for giving him a pass, even though she told him not to worry about it.  This is a classic case of CYA on the OP.

There is a huge difference between "Stunning" and simply "Stunned"  

like me.  I forget overnight who I was pissed at yesterday, so I start off each morning liking everyone here, until one by one, the usual suspects start saying some stupid shit, so that by nightfall, I'm pissed off at a third of the people here.  Then I sleep and we start over tomorrow.  I tend to say nicer stuff in the mornings

There are so many morons on TER and so few of them are memorable enough for me to remember them from day to day especially the ones that post infrequently. I've lost count of how many times I have read a board reply or PM that starts out with "Remember that time you called me a....." The answer of course is usually "fuck no, I have NO idea who the fuck you are" and then the little dweeb will go on to cite a thread from a year back that no one but him remembers.  

want to re-read the OP. It was mutual consent to go beyond the time. He offered a $60 tip and said he would give her a bigger tip next time.

Vodka, even the cheap stuff, can sterilize most anything, so no need to worry if they washed this week or not.

She may not have been comfortable asking for more.  It was his obligation to step up.  And leaving $60 is an insultingly low amount.  His own actions show he felt leaving more money was appropriate but he weaseled out by leaving only the $60 he had on hand.  If there was, in fact, clearly mutual consent why did he leave any extra money at all?  It was a cheap and weasely move and in his OP you can tell he was a bit embarrassed by it.  If he wasn't, why did he need to come here and ask?
Your assignment is to go back and re-read the OP AGAIN and then re-read my first response.  And to get a clue.

in line behind waiting for you to pay for gum using a fucking debit card?  Put a couple hundred dollars in your pocket...it won't kill you.  No. don't give me the bull-shit that it could be better invested and gaining interest.  If any of you are worried about money and are playing this game, I would recommend you spend some time finding a girl-friend.

and when your name is BBBBB who cares about washing?

Your inability to comprehend simple English is starting to rival BBBBB and both the Fatty twins.

...and he certainly did NOT tell her he would give her a bigger tip next time.

Yeah, the grammar error had me wondering ("you a nice..." sounds more like Rip

...his Colt 1911.  It might be a better idea to have a panel decide whether to put Jake out of his misery rather than leave it up to a trigger-happy "righty."

World community is already making fun on those as OP .. I guess you like it. To be an example of stupid  
 
I love America I am an american and I do not insult america as whole - I love people and I love country - yet I do  go easy on morons .  

and find a translator to understand  all but I think you will get and yourself

So now you've but it back up again?  Pathetic.

but at least due to his apparent Alzheimer's it's unlikely he would remember my promise anyhow. I would just be rather sad watching him drown in his own drool.

The reason being, is if it's initially being given out of guilt, it automatically creates a psychological debt to both parties. One to the giver because they'll never be sure if they did enough, and the other if the receiver senses the guilt or feeling of debt, they have to somehow figure out where the giver's mind is to assure them they're good.  

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A woman after my heart. You have perfectly dissected this conundrum!

Hell, I may respond that I wish I said that. Lol!

You say you love America, I hope that's true. From what I've seen from you, I certainly have my doubts, but I really hope it's true. I certainly love Her, even if I am terrified by what she is starting to become. I say I have my doubts because you have no compunction whatsoever about insulting a majority of Americans with your broad-stroke generalizations and ludicrous assumptions. You've done so in this thread, earlier today in the photo ID thread, and several times previously.

Why don't you quit while you are behind?

Sometimes in life it's nice to just do something for another with NO expectation of anything in return, just out of general kindness or to show you care for the person.  And after doing that, I appreciate a thanks, but the last thing I want is to have the person be a little too insistent on paying me back sometime, thus almost reducing the act of kindness back to a transactional type of thing.  But I have also come to learn that some people have a harder time accepting generosity for some reason, and just NEVER want to have ANY feeling of indebtedness to another.  I try to not take offense at this, as I know we are all wired a little differently (but I do laugh, as my good friend/work colleague counts the change to pay me back to the PENNY if I bought her even just a cup of coffee or a danish).

others as Dev and Gambler and jake from farm were more reasonable people and more as you are  

You are simply non educated red neck. and plus  very jealous  by some reasons.  

that you should not to appeal to those who are johns here ?
 Here are few gentlemen, and You know their names at this moment. you are lucky have them - yet because you do play double game and is hypocritical as hell one of those nice gentlemen was added and to black list and you not said a word to your "ladies" and johns when they beat him up and declared rapist.
yet you know him too,.  That double standards  driving nice men as he is out .
 You still have may be one two who may  have respect to you - so stop call johns" gentlemen "
 call this proud name of those who deserved that.

"how to become better cisterns?"  LMAO!
"so this country will finally get back to its feet?"  Who are you, Trump's Minister of Propaganda?
My, my, my, you certainly know how to drum up business.
Like the lady said, quit while you're behind.

You seem to think that everyone who disagrees with you is a redneck.  You even called me a redneck once.  I guarantee, if you saw me walking down the street, you wouldn't be thinking "redneck."  You'd be thinking "outlaw biker."

Apology - as you now expressed your self as a gentleman .

Noone likes that feeling. Know what else people don't like? Not feeling appreciated. I am sure you don't like those feelings and have a deep appreciation for folks who do NOT do that to you.

its not cumulative for me.  When I start over in the morning, its with LITTLE memory of being pissed at anyone here yesterday.