I'm not a newbie, but I always have something that lingers in the back of my mind and wonder if you do to.  After having protected sex with a provider - do you ever worry when you have unprotected sex with your S.O., that you might pass something along?  It's not realistic to get tested after every session.  Just wondering if anyone else shares this concern.

Yes

we would go nuts.  This is not an hobby if you tend to be paranoid, LOL

So we are worried now that we are going to pass something on to the wonderful providers after unprotected sex with our wives and girlfriends. Maybe the significant others should be tested regularly too. It might be best if everybody got tested at least once a year at their annual physical exam.

I do worry about other STD's that may be transferred through oral. Herpes and such...

Yes. It's messed up. I hope to see someone I have been trying to see for a few months next week but after that I am getting tested and will take a break  for a couple of months.

I haven't had sex with my wife in at least two years ... although I still wonder about contracting STD's on ocassion.

OFF

if you have protected sex with a provider, do you worry you'll pass something on to the SO? Why would you?  If it's protected, it's protected, no?

Actually, the worst thing that happened to me was forgetting to remove the cover after sex with a provider; I went home, and the SO discovered it in my underwear.  Now, THAT was hard to explain...

not only do you remove unwanted evidence but when you scrub the netherworld, you will also realize you need to get rid of the condom.

TOMC

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Turk,

Perhaps he's afraid of getting pubic lice or something.  Also, he could be referring to protected FS but having gotten a BBBJ or having gone DATY.  In my case I don't worry too much.  I do receive BBBJ's and I do like to dine with my ATF's (and of course FS is covered).  However, I use a condom with my wifey as we do not want anymore kids and she will not use birth control, nor does she give or receive orally.  I also agree with our old fat farter, that taking a shower when you leave a pro is a great idea.  I also carry a small bottle of Listerine with me to freshen my breath before & aft.  Whether it kills any germs or bacteria I don't know.  But it can't hurt and it probably helps.  As for you, did you have to do your "splaining" to her attorney?

...only a handful of aliases that is actually funny.  Kudos!  It made me think of the old SNL spoof commercial starring Phil Hartman for "Colon Blow" cereal.  And of course I was thinking of SNL with the Tina Fey thread below.  Wow, life really does "come full circle".  Who knew?

fortunately, at the time, we had a roomer - a hot young thing who rented the third floor of our house and who had guys over quite often.  Plus we had a dog.  "Gosh! I dunno...  the dog probably got it from Linda's room and dragged it down here...."

I would worry tremedously if my wife would have sex with me, but alas, she does not.  I do worry that I may get something as I enjoy BBBJ and DATY with my ATF.  As I see it, if you have to worry about it, it isn't a hobby anymore.

To thoroughly enjoy my dates, I always take a bath in lysol and then wear a full body condom.  The ladies just love it!