You finally decide to have a dinner-date with your ATF.
Per your request, she dresses up lightly - to avoid stares -
You take her to a posh restaurant, food is great, talk is very interesting.
Then, out of nowhere that nosey coworker you dislike is dining few tables from you.
He ids you, greets and decides to stop by to say hello.

You did say it was a co worker that you don't like, right? Why do you need to explain yourself at all? Tell him you are on a hot date and for him to kindly "fuck off"

No man should ever butt in on another mans date , especially if he has never met her .

yes I do invite or I'm asked to go eating somewhere. But it wouldn't be a posh restaurant. But just any restaurant or Denny's maybe. She or they would dress anyhow in a poor girl's dresses. No more coworkers. I don't work in an office anymore. The people at the factory have more responsibilities than I and most probably don't gout much. But I guess they wouldn't care or I WOULN'T CARE. I have never had an SO.

Not 'that' other end BTW... the provider's. How does she introduce you?

Ahhh... the co-workers who don't give a rat's ass about you until something juicy pops up. When I'm back in my hometown I may come across some of those peeps. Maybe I'll just say, "This is the BEST FUCK I've ever had, actually... so how are you?"

Yeah, that brings to my mind one episode of 'Diary of a Call girl' when a client finds Belle with Ben and the situation turned out awkward...

If a coworker decides to spill the beans, that could affect your credibility with some conservative people, specially women; men would be jealous, I think ...
Worst case scenario: some friend/acquaintance from SO... Busted. I think something like this ended Mr Fisher last marriage.

He was suave about it...  

Touche, Sir Gambler! Mind-blowingly simple response.

just take her to Wendy's for a Frosty..no one would give two shits..

I think this gentleman just answered that question you had . You know that thought you often wondered about .  

Ah pussy the great social equalizer!!!
Don't be down on yourself dude, like you I'm a blue collar grunt myself. In a world of lawyers, accountants etc. I'm a hvac guy. Guess what I'm not a high roller by any means but have enjoyed the hell out of this hobby. Don't sell yourself short it doesn't matter what ya do for a living as long as you treat the gals with respect.  

My wife saw my car parked out in front of the hotel I was in, in my home town, and decided to come on up and say hello.

subconsciously you wanted to get caught..

That ought to shut him up and make you a legend in the office.

But seriously folks:

This very thing sort of came up last weekend as my date and I were strolling the waterfront area of Boston, only in this case is was one of her friends from school that came up and said hello.

I just smiled sweetly as they bantered for a few minutes about school politics and then she turned to me and said this is my friend _____.  We shook hands and that was all there was to it.

It didn't seem to faze her in the least.

Just say "This is so and so" and that's it. No need to tell the guy what she does for a living, simply her name. People make these things far too complicated. If you're a married man going out with an escort in the same town you live, well that's just stupid.

This is how that conversaton would go ...."O' HI !"  I didn't know you could afford to eat here....by the way this is my loving date for the evening....after dinner we are going back to my place to fuck.  She can suck a golf ball out of a garden hose.  Have a great night and see you tomorrow in the office."   :  

No Bueno. I'd like to hear that story one day. Did the girl get beat up?

I once met a relative while at dinner in a posh restaurant. I introduced my companion as I would anyone else that I might be having dinner with, we all chatted quite naturally for a for a minute or two. He assumed that it was a business meeting. End of story.

cool about it...it will only look suspicious if you let it. If she is your ATF then it's not your first time with her and there should be a comfort level there. You would probably know then that she would carry herself professionally in any situation while 'working', in private or more importantly in any social situation. Introductions aren't truly necessary unless you deem fit but a simple hello gesture and then go about your evening. No matter how nervous or uncomfortable you may be, definitely don't shy away if you are noticed. The only way it could be an issue is if you are with a married gent and that is known to coworkers as to who this unknown dinner 'companion' is...and then perhaps she becomes your long time 'friend' catching up. But I believe if you handle yourself as a gentleman and not try to 'hide' what it is you are doing, then you should be good to go and enjoy the rest of your evening together.

What should he do? Say I am with my favorite hooker, now excuse me?

BTW, you listed yourself on slixa as 39. Don't you think you shaved off a few too many years. Why not be honest?

conciously wants to be out in public with a woman other than his wife, he should be prepared for such a situation. No, not hide in my book. Then he shouldn't do the 'social' thing.  

are in your 40's on several occasions, so I was wondering why you would lie while posting ads. At least your TER age bracket reflects that, but not by your own doing. It is more then 3 years regardless. We both know that.

Is it nitpicking to want accurate profiles on the providers who are reviewed on TER? Why would you object to that?  

Exactly my thought lo

So why reply?

Told them she was a real estate agent from out of state (she actually was/is) helping me find investment properties. Did they buy it....I never heard from either guy about it.

does it really matter to the degree you are stating...I mean really. Is this about the # or your obvious beef with 'me', whatever that is after all this time. I would still love to know as many others who have pm'd me about your obvious attacks on me every chance you get. 'We' all just don't get it. What is it already?

39, 40, 41, 42, whatever!!!!............she looks pretty hot to me!!

someone is trying to constantly discredit you...wouldn't you stick up for yourself? That's how I'm made up...sorry.  

Married and being with an escort, is bad enough ( IMO ).........but out in public???  ( DUMB )

Why do you think we have wars, etc??
Man's ( most of them ) nature is to not be kind and uplifting.
Maybe they feel a sense of POWER when they belittle someone else??
"He who is without sin, Let him cast the first stone"  ( something to think about, don't ya think? )

You discredited yourself and didn't need my help.

As far as "attacking" you every chance I get, that is another lie. There were times when I wasn't posting under you and you were stupid enough to call me out. A search of board posts (minus the 3 months that you had deleted) would clearly show that. You have been the centerpiece of many train wrecks, some of which I never even posted on. Why lie about that when others can see the posts?

and 2 together....I would say you could possibly be a gentleman I refused to see at some point and this could be your way of getting back 'anonymously' ..anything is possible now isn't it? I don't see everyone who contacts me and I would have no way of knowing who you are since you are and always have been Mr. Alias.

"Hey hon, remember that anaconda I was telling you about,  well here he is"

So how do you explain all of the other handles that seem to "attack" your consistently condescending posts?  

What is the matter with these dick wads? Haven’t these people gotten out McD, and Arby’s? Suppose you never ever took you high school GF out to any place other than a hamburger joint.

I go out with many ladies, co-workers, sales ladies, platonic friends, business associates, etc. If I run into someone I know, I introduce them by their name.  

properly in a social situation. If they did, they would have introduced each other like normal people do and went their own way.

I said before that I wouldn't see you if you were free. You are not in my preferred age range or jurisdiction. We are totally incompatible.

No, I didn't stop because people were watching. That's ludicrous. I stepped back at one time because after you had 3 months of posts deleted, delisted yourself, then returned. I thought it was because you were going to change and act like a sociable lady on the board. A leopard cannot change its spots and a day or two later you were again the board drama queen.
The second time I drew back was because I was simply bored bantering with you. As expected, you quibbled with everyone else while I sat back and laughed.

Some day you will take an honest look at yourself and think about your lack of marketing guile and success of what could (possibly) have been.

but I digress, my favorite evenening was with a young lass with gigantic lactating breasts... who dolled up to go out to eat at a very expensive and upscale restaurant.  She is about 5 feet tall, with blond hair, blue-eyes and really very pretty.  The dress barely contained her 37-24-35 porportions, but who cares, great legs and a come hither way about her lovely self.

. . . This is why I usually only meet outside when I'm not in my own backyard.

after once AGAIN being proven a liar? lmao

Then she goes on and claims that "posts do not lie". Well hers certainly do.

You're a fucking dungbeetle, any woman is out of your league.

I still think making it fun is better. (While squeezing his butt and running her hand over his chest) "Hi (co-worker,) this is him. You know, the biggest and best I've ever had."

"The second time I drew back was because I was simply bored bantering with you. As expected, you quibbled with everyone else while I sat back and laughed."
That's the mode I'm in now, P. She just gets old (pun intended).  And it's boring watching her pull the same transparent crap again and again.  I won't stoop to putting her on "ignore" but now I just barely glance and move on.
I think she's kind of like a troll in that she seems to desperately crave attention.  Perhaps if everyone stopped responding to her posts she'd just go away.  That's my plan.
(Now would anyone like to bet she responds to this post, trying to draw me out?  Sorry.  It's not gonna happen.)

dick here...you or your fuck buddy P boy. I'd have to say it's a tie...ok, Dick #3 and Dick #4, respectively.

The first one was kind of a no-harm no-foul kind of situation:  Went to a show with one of my favorite providers, and as we're exiting at the end of the show, one of *her* IRL ex-bf's friends comes up to her and starts chatting her up.  I made myself scarce for a few minutes, no big deal.  Except the ex-bf's friend was such a d-bag for even approaching her.  He knew what she does for a living, saw her out with a somewhat older gent--does he need a f'in roadmap or something?  Say "Hi" if you must--then say "Bye" in a hurry and get lost.

Second one was worse:  Went out to a show with my ATF and her civvie-but-hobby-aware friend, who knew what the score was between my ATF and me.  Then dinner, then went our separate ways for the rest of the evening.  Several hours later, in a semi-public venue, an acquaintance asks me, "Hey Rokk, who were your dates tonight?"  In fairness, this acquaintance does not know that I'm married--nevertheless, I was forced to make a joke out of the whole thing.  I challenged him on the whole thing, said I had not been near the venue in question that evening, and told him, "..next time you think you're seeing me out with two girls, please take pictures and spread them over the internet; I'd like my wife to know that I can still get laid--it'll keep her on her toes".  Everyone laughed, good deflection by me, saved the day.

I agree though, it would be nicer if acquaintances were a little more thoughtful in situations like this, and not stick hobbyists into potential jackpots.