So I have become single recently and I decided to sign up for SA, Match and meetseniors. OMFG. This world has really warped  me lol.  

Senior and match suggested? NO FUCKING WAY.

SAI try 30 sumpins...no luck. My acceptance level is now way higher than what I  ca get in real life.

Sure for a NSA fuck I can do any most any women who are slim and decent-looking.

However for real attraction I just cannot see any possibility for any women more than half my age!

I kinda feel sorry for the older single women..

let's ask Bob Sugar..that cocksucker knows everything..or so it seems..

I think he meant, "On SA, I try 30 sumpins..."

You should ask your Doctor about your issues.

It is hard to go back to the civie life. I remember one telling me "wow you take your clothes off fast". Recently my so told me that I am a "professional fucker" while we were on vacation. It all good because you can train the ladies how to do things to be in the gold standard of sexual performance.

If only it had worked out when I got horny on okcupid.

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That is, in terms of the quality of the physical experience from my perspective.  

On the rare occasion where I try a civvie world FWB or one-night-stand I've found some distinct differences.

A lot of the old double-standards and stereotypes are still alive and well... at least, among my own age group.  Younger men?  Not so much; but I'm not into Cougar-Cubs lol.  

 
In P4P it is rare that anyone truly minds how forward I am.  I can grab my visitor and go right in for a DFK without any shocked reactions or less-than-kind remarks.  This is generally not the case when meeting someone for a "booty call".

My paid guests are in less of a rush; they take their time.  It's not a race to see how fast he can get his dick wet.  
Yes, he wants to get the most out of the time for which he's paying good $$$.... but I don't understand why men getting it for free are in such a hurry.  

In that vein, a much higher percentage of my clients than past real-world-fuck-buddies have genuinely wanted to see me get off.  To please me.  Not just DATY, but that is often a big part of it.  The questions, "what do you like" or "what turns you on the most?" are asked far more frequently in hobby situations than during one-night-stands.

Sure, when it comes to picking and choosing I get to find men who are the physical type for which I have a hankering in the "real" world of casual sex.  I obviously do not have that luxury when screening my clients.  
But for truly fun sexy times, where I really can be myself and, more often than not,  get what I want in terms of sexual gratification....   P4P is the far-and-away winner.  

 
xoxoxoxoxoxo

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In p4p it's more common that the guy wants to get me off.  There's also more talking, more camaraderie it feels like. I think the p4p guys are just more into sex overall, enjoying the whole encounter instead of just racing to an orgasm. They're better lovers for sure.

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I was just comparing P4P to civie sex and the major difference wasn't that one requires money, while the other is free.  What struck me most is that I have had the most wild, dirty sex in the hobby as well as the most passionate and loving sex during my sessions as an escort NOT with a hook up.  Hookups are what I describe as very selfish sex.  The guy just wants to jam his penis in a pussy, pump and cum.  There is no conversation about what is okay and not or what are turn ons and turn offs. I kind of think that sexually selfish attitude is the norm in the land of hookups because they aren't a long term thing.  There isn't any hope or expectation of a relationship.  Where as with P4P, I think that more of us than may be willing to admit it, have probably met an escort or hobbyist who is like a dream come true- the type of person you WISH you could be with in real life, but barriers stop that from happening.  For instance, many hobbyists are married and many escorts are working toward a long term goal and cannot commit to a gentleman outside of P4P.  Knowing that the relationship cannot evolve outside of the hobby keeps the focus on having the absolute best experience during the session.

I am one of those gentlemen who enjoy the whole encounter and do my best to make it as enjoyable for my partner. Your posts help me believe that some of my dates truly have enjoyed me as much as I did them and that it's not always just an act.

Sex is way better here. Not saying every single person, but lots more than in civvy for sure

I get your about civie sex being free.....but I am here to tell you relationships have a price as well.

Just how one looks at it.  But this has been covered many, many times before.

Sometimes I just enjoy reading my own posts LOL

It's called practice, practice, practice...

Excellent job of marketing, Courtney.