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Safe word
EveryoneIsAgainstRape 277 reads
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1 / 26
mrfisher 115 Reviews 257 reads
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2 / 26

to paraphrase Edward D Wood Jr. in Glen or Glenda, but you know what I mean.

Well, it beats scat play anyways.

Be sure to always have a "safe word" in these situations.  That is to say, a word that would not normally come up in the particular phantasy, but which when spoken by either party means STOP.

It could be popsicle or tippy-toes or any similar unique word which will be noticed immediately.

The idea is that someone may get carried away and really start to hurt a person, and that person has to know that they will be safe in order for both to enjoy the phantasy.

EveryoneIsAgainstRape 251 reads
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3 / 26

That's one way to look at it I guess.

anal_creampie=dessert 223 reads
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4 / 26

I suppose ATM is out of the question?  lol

HonestProvider 1727 reads
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5 / 26

I recently met a guy for the 4th time.

The first three sessions were fairly vanilla.  (By vanilla, I dont mean boring--  He actually f'ed the sh*t out of me:)) but anyway...  The sessions were normal by escort standards.  

But this past visit, he did me for two hours straight and could not get off.  We tried everything.  Towards the end of the session, I asked him what else I could do to get him off.  He hesitated and said, "Well I dont want to freak you out but...."  

I told him, "Please tell me."  (I really like knowing whats going on in the heads of the guys I see.)

He said, "Ok, I want you to squirm and say NO!!! STOP!!! while Im f*cking you.  I want you to try to fight and get away and Im going to pin you down and rape you."

So...  Who am I to deny someone from their fanstasy?:)  Sure enough, we started again and I started screaming STOP!  That made him VERY aggressive and literally 2 minutes later, he got off.

Id never had this type of request before.  

Is this rape/overpowering a woman thing a fantasy for anyone else?  Ladies, would you entertain this type of fantasy or is it too sick?

(Note:  The screaming STOP thing was totally and act.  I was thoroughly enjoying myself.)

1192967 45 Reviews 336 reads
posted
6 / 26

A little rough sex now and then yes I'd like that. Rape fantasy? No.

BigGuy1976 1 Reviews 318 reads
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7 / 26

She wanted me to sneak into her apartment one arbitrary night and rape her.   I reluctantly did a few months after she told me about it.  I held her down and she said "NO!  Stop!!" and acted the part.  Once she had her "O" I stopped.  Then noticed the bruises on her wrists and arms.  I never felt so dirty in my life.  And not in a good way.  She was very satisfied though.  Boy, I'm glad I didn't marry that one.

FuckMe_Like_U_MeanIt 267 reads
posted
8 / 26

Sweat running and dripping? Hot twisting/grinding pelvis to pelvis? Me buried as deep inside you as I can get?  Hell yes!!!

Rape never in this world.

dantananot 12 Reviews 242 reads
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9 / 26

wow.  that's pretty confusing stuff.  how do you know where the line gets drawn?  you'd have to really trust your own instincts because even people you've known for a long time can become strangers.

BDSMplayer 185 reads
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10 / 26

As Mr Fisher says, the "safe word" is critical.  It has to be so "out there"--i.e., different from the normal vocabulary of rough lovemaking and/or BDSM--that it's instantly recognizable as the signal to "STOP."  That way, words like "stop," "no," etc., can be part of the play.  Just so both parties know when they're in the fantasy and when they're not, all is ok.  As someone who likes giving and receiving the occasional spanking, "no!" and "please stop!" add to the fantasy.

MrControl 212 reads
posted
11 / 26

I put ankle and restraints on the lady. I put spreader bars between the wrists and between the ankles. Then I chain her to bed. Put a blind fold and ballgag in her mouth. Then I do some foreplay and fuck her pretty hard. She tries to move but can't. She screams out but the noise is muffled. The last lady had 8 orgasms.

anthony6 41 Reviews 197 reads
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12 / 26

From 2 providers.where they like to fight and get choked and held down. was a little weird for me at first, but its kinda gotten to be routine with one girl I repeat with. Whatever floats her boat.

Posted By: HonestProvider
I recently met a guy for the 4th time.

The first three sessions were fairly vanilla.  (By vanilla, I dont mean boring--  He actually f'ed the sh*t out of me:)) but anyway...  The sessions were normal by escort standards.  

But this past visit, he did me for two hours straight and could not get off.  We tried everything.  Towards the end of the session, I asked him what else I could do to get him off.  He hesitated and said, "Well I dont want to freak you out but...."  

I told him, "Please tell me."  (I really like knowing whats going on in the heads of the guys I see.)

He said, "Ok, I want you to squirm and say NO!!! STOP!!! while Im f*cking you.  I want you to try to fight and get away and Im going to pin you down and rape you."

So...  Who am I to deny someone from their fanstasy?:)  Sure enough, we started again and I started screaming STOP!  That made him VERY aggressive and literally 2 minutes later, he got off.

Id never had this type of request before.  

Is this rape/overpowering a woman thing a fantasy for anyone else?  Ladies, would you entertain this type of fantasy or is it too sick?

(Note:  The screaming STOP thing was totally and act.  I was thoroughly enjoying myself.)

JamesDeenXXX 31 Reviews 169 reads
posted
14 / 26

Well....it was very nice of you to play along to his request. He did eventually get off. Success!

But for a guy to have that type of fantasy is very strange and creepy to me.

I mean c'mon, if I'm having sex with an attractive/hot lady, I have absolutely no problem cumming. Even though it was role play, hearing a lady say no is a HUGE turn off.

HonestProvider 188 reads
posted
16 / 26

Damn.

That reminds me of scene in the Sopranos when Janice's boyfriend held a gun to her head when he was f*cking her.

HonestProvider 165 reads
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17 / 26


END OF MESSAGE

HonestProvider 170 reads
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18 / 26

Well, the whole thing was a little silly to me.  How do people participate in a rape fantasy after 2 hours of consentual sex?  Especially when the guy had already given the girl 5 orgasms.  lol!

HonestProvider 277 reads
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19 / 26

Plain vanilla:

Vaginal intercourse, DATY, BBBJ, CIM, kissing, fingers

Not plain vanilla:

Greek, Fetishes, getting raped, strap ons, role play, spanking, DATO, COF, doubles, etc.

But Im sure other ladies would define it other ways...

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 179 reads
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20 / 26

.... meh the only time I was tempted/wanted to do a rape fantasy was in a civvie relationship.....  not sure I could ever get into a space that comfortable with a client.

DrunkAsianBastard 153 reads
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21 / 26

"Stop word" definitely needed for something like this...

Could be fun if it's just role play but I highly doubt I'll get off on a rape fantasy
hurting a girl even as a joke isn't my thing. lol

Then again, I can see how it could be fun for some people who have a screw loose somewhere.

Whatever floats their frickin boat I guess.

LoboGris 3 Reviews 196 reads
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22 / 26
Hard_Rod 103 reads
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23 / 26

I guess I should have been a screenwriter.

DrunkAsianBastard 151 reads
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24 / 26


It's a turn on when a girl I find very attractive says that to me.  "I'm going to rape you..."
Then she proceeds to give the wettest BLS/DATO and devours my manhood til it completely disappears inside her mouth and tongue lashes until I end in a massively wet slurply sloppy drippy sticky all over the place. lol  No way in hell am I screaming "stop" to something like that. lol

In that sense, I guess I can kinda relate to the rape idea being a turn on, if the "right guy" does it to a girl.

Since I'm the right guy for majority of the ladies,  next time we meet it'll be a lot of fun if we do a role play where I pimp slap the shit out of you. lol And then when you call the cops on me, I'll claim that it was entirely your idea of role playing. LMFAO!!!  ;)

JamesDeenXXX 31 Reviews 159 reads
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25 / 26
DCIntroductions See Agency Profile 190 reads
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26 / 26

When I was younger I used to fantasize about getting raped lol, not raped by nasty toothless guy in the wet disgusting alley but raped by hot guy. I also love to play out the fantasy of me getting raped and love rough sex. Choking, restraint, pulling hair, slapping, love it love it.

:)

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