Does it seem like more and more providers are using "sugar daddy" sites to get clients?
Over the past few days I contacted five women. Two wanted to meet for dinner or drinks. One did not respond. Two asked up front how much I was willing to pay for each "meet."
Another woman contacted me first and asked if I wanted to meet. When I said yes, she informed me that she was a massage therapist and that she charged $220 for massage with happy ending, $500 for full service.
Anyone have similar experiences
Seriously, I did ask her that, since I had no intention of meeting her anyway. To my surprise, she responded. She said, no she didn't do that, just "regular sex with a condom." I said no thanks. She then asked how much I was willing to pay. I answered that I would have to see naked pictures of her first. That's when the conversation ended.
Amateur hour. She high-balled you, but probably hoped to get 300. Seems all girls throw out $300, but that's the price for well reviewed ladies. I had someone vouch for a new provider with no reviews, and she was fucking terrible. The price? $300 of course. That was the last time I'd ever see a provider solely based on another provider's word. It was an expensive lesson, but I learned that some providers will fuck over their clients in a heartbeat because they have a little too much confidence that they can BS their way out of any problem. Anyway, you dodged the bullet and I'd lose her number. No good can come out of it. I'll be glad to refer you to my old provider if you want to piss your money away. I'm sure she'll be happy to send her "friend" over.
If their pictures show they are in a hotel room, dress, heels, highly renovated bathroom or lingerie then they are most definitely providers. If in description they want money per meet then, obviously, she's a provider. I've seen a lot of providers in my area on there with some even using their agency photos.
The true SBs usually will have more candid pictures of them in civvie clothing (casual jeans, summer dress, not as much makeup) and don't like to show skin. At most they will show face and some cleavage.
I Agree. Just like you can tell BP fakes after not so long looking, you can develop a spidey sense about SB fakes. In my experience most of the 9/10 women of any race, and many of the whites are fakes. Many of the AA are real. have not drawn a conclusion about Asians, except that they tend to be high end on SA. I want to be clear -- this is in no way a racist statement -- it's just a conclusion based on my experience.
if you are successful provider with good reviews and reasonable price , sa seems to be too much work for less pay...too much blah blah and awkward negotiations....
if you ask some "verification" info about the guy before meeting, he will think you are crazy
a lot of guys want to low ball you, i had offers of 100-150 per meet and guy expect full service, it is a joke...most guys will refuse to talk $ till meeting in person, and then after i doll up for the date it can be complete waste of time if we are not on same page...
but on the other hand you meet some naive guys who have no idea about ter and what costs what in local markets, so they will offer you 1k per meet...
some girls who are good hustlers can make out well on SA without having to put out much, but it is not my style to ask for stuff...being a provider seems to be less complicated, better pay and even safer since we get to verified clients and not put our emotions on the line since sa is meant to be closer to civie dating....
Any arrangement that has a sex for money component ... is just a variation on a theme. How you choose to frame that arrangement and the terms you wish to surround it with are all up to the individuals.
In that sense, sugaring offers a lot more ways of defining the arrangements, and more options. With anything from a simple P4P with short-term gratification on one end of the spectrum (i.e. transactional prostitution) ... to a traditional long-term relationship, possibly even committed love (only with allowance) on the other. Along with any other shade or variation in between that you can think of.
There's even room in that community for gals that just like older dudes. Including some odd fetishes like Daddy/Daughter and FIN Doms. But the foundation of it all is Pay for play, making it a part of the oldest profession.
It is a time waster since you have to play too many games to get anything out of it.
You can spot a a lady who is providing on those sites easily.
Some prefer the exchange vs the get to the point scenario.
You have so many choices and you can always end up with multiple experiences afterward.
Good luck with that.
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