is full of generalizations, inaccuracies, and attempts to understand the "mysterious Russian soul.
That said, within certain social classes infidelity is expected in modern Russia.
I will give it some serious though later and will come up with detailed response. One thing I would mention now though is we (russkies) do not see man's infidelity as result of our shortcomings.
You will never hear Russian woman say "why???? why would he cheat on me? I am thin and I run 3 miles each day, what else does he need?". We know the reason why. Same reason why a dog licks his balls .. because he can
You will never hear Russian woman say "why???? why would he cheat on me? I am thin and I run 3 miles each day, what else does he need?". We know the reason why. Same reason why a dog licks his balls .. because he can
I would slightly amend the last sentence to read, "Same reason why a dog licks his balls...because he NEEDS TO." Speaking for myself, I am leading myself around by my own dick.
Russia is a paradox in a sense that while being Cristian country, it has never abandoned its pagan ways.
For centuries, population consisted out of peasants and nobility.
We all know that peasants have extremely practical and natural attitude to sex. Children see mating and birth of farm animals from early days.
Nobility on another hand both idolized purity of young bride and encouraged promiscuity of married couple. Men and women of means could and did engage in extramarital affairs. Divorce was not an option, but living in different wings of same house and having lovers was perfectly acceptable in society.
Behavior and attitude described in that article is prevalent among modern "nobles". Every day people don't really engage in such behavior simply because they don't have means to.
But regardless of social class and personal situation, Russian women generally don't fret over why men cheat. They don't ask why or how or when. They just react based on each individual situation.
Wife of a factory worker most likely will find something very heavy in her kitchen and inflict severe bodily injuries.
Wife of an bank president ... will go out and buy something expensive then go to Bahamas with young bodyguard for a week.
Wife of office clerk most likely will kick him out for a week or two.
But not one of them will be spending next 10 years in therapy trying to figure out what's wrong with her.
What about prostitution though, especially historically in the 1800s? How has that been perceived? When I read Dostoyevsky's Crime and Punishment (in English), poor Sonya was forced into prostitution to support her family (in the mid-1800s) and that was perceived to be a terrible thing. Of course, she remained pure and virtuous to us readers and she followed Raskolnikov to Siberia. Talk about an outcall!
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