I've politely asked every lady I've seen for the first time if I may talk dirty during the action and that I don't mean any of it. I don't know why, but it's a fantasy of mine. I'll also mention that when the action is over I return to myself and enjoy the normal talk and discussions. The reason I started this thread is because I just saw one of my regular girls last night and she's always let me know it's ok and that she recognizes that it's just play. Well last night after we had caught up a little bit she started talking dirty and encouraged me to do so as well. Wow! It was incredible. And I guess what made it so incredible is that when we were done she snuggled up next to me in bed with no hesitation and we returned to talking about this and that. There are a lot of things I love about the hobby, but one of the things I like the most is a lady that can go from GFE to PSE, rock my world and then go back to being a friend like it didn't just happen. You ladies have a talent that most ladies don't (or perhaps they just don't want to). It's a cool life. I always wonder why I didn't do this long ago, but I'm enjoying it now.

why you had to post this under an alias?  That said, I do get why some guys don't want their board persona connected to their reviews.  But still, this post is pretty innocuous.

I originally joined TER in 2005 before I met my ex wife. I was married to her for only 5 years, and one of the many reasons for our split was that she was an obsessive snooper. She knows my original handle (I've used it as a handle elsewhere and she knows I'm a member) and even though we've been divorced for over 2 years, I wouldn't put it past her to pay for a membership to snoop (she really is that bad of a snooper and that obsessive). I don't know why I think it's important for me to tell all of you this fact, but I never cheated (or hobbied) while we were together. So it really is simple why I post and review under this alias, she doesn't know, nor could figure out this alias.

I knew there was going to be someone to call me something like "a wuss", it somehow doesn't surprise me it was you. If I were you, I would waste any of your time or energy on attempting to insult me, as I really don't care what you think of me. I'm sitting in an Airport gate on a layover and didn't have anything else to do and was reliving my awesome date last night and thought I'd post (because I can), I can assure you I'm not looking for your approval, or any one else's for that matter.

I believe you can change your handle by asking Admin.  Then you don't have to hide from your obsessive ex.  It's bad enough having to hide from an SO, but hiding from an ex seems, well, lame, to put it mildly.  Anyway, glad you had a great time with the dirty talk.  I have enjoyed that myself and have several lady friends who love it, too.

I didn't know I could change my handle, I'll certainly look into that thank you. I wouldn't want to drop this alias name though because all my reviews are posted under this handle and it's useful to have that as a resource when I'm getting screened with a new lady.

Hey! I have posted some stupid shit here..
I don't want to make women I have reviewed look bad because I can act like an ass.
But I also will not act like someone I am not for the benefit of the ladies I have reviewed.
Being torn in that conundrum (I hope that is the right word) I thought about creating a working alias.
I never did it.  
I think I was overreacting. The ladies didn't really seen to care.
 
But sometimes I feel like women I have seen who read my posts biff themselves, and say.
"I can't believe I saw that moron."
Especially during the Spa days.
I was asked twice about the Spa by girls I just met BTW.. Thanks Curly.

The whole point of getting divorced is to NOT worry about some ex.  Did you not get that memo?

I didn't do it. But if you search his handle, alias, whatever. Reviews will come up if posted...
Actually....  
The only real difference between an alias, and a handle is the ability to quickly read reviews with one click.
People do it to weed out the lurkers.

nor do I care that you use an alias.

It sounds like you are enjoying the "afterglow" of a great session. Fuck both those assholes, (who both happen to be friends of mine) enjoy your afterglow, and fuck anyone who objects.

You might not want my approval, but you have it anyhow. lol

I gotta believe there was plenty of dirty talk going on...at no special charge either  LOL

You were her fucking hookers...right?

I never said anything bad about OP??
All I did was contribute as to why I considered using an alias.
And why I don't use one.  
OP has a crazy woman watching him.. Very different story from me.

No, she didn't know I was fucking hookers. Honestly when I first joined back in 2005 it was just to read the reviews. Some of them are comparable to reading Penthouse forum and I'm bent enough that I enjoy that. I didn't start seeing ladies until after I left my ex. Now, I'll never have a SO again. There's no need to put up with the bullshit or impose my bullshit on someone else. I'm perfectly happy being alone, and having beautiful, sexy women to be with when I want. Honestly, I'm not a very attractive man, I'm 50 yo and not in the best of shape (not obese but overweight none the less). I'm not going to attract the women I can see in the hobby, it's that simple. So, I'd have to settle as I've done in the past. Looks, youth and a good body I don't have anymore. A good disposable income I do have. A bonus is that I have to travel to see most of the ladies I see, so I usually combine some sightseeing or visiting of friends in on my hobby fun.

My plane is close to boarding. Thank you all for keeping me busy during my layover. Back to the life.

it rhymes with Russ.....when pronounced as rooooos.. LOL

Because most of us here are dashing, young, fit and personable, like me

you gave her enough info to figure your alias out my man.

Time and Companionship

he is more than qualified to give them. When we start the "Biggest Mangina on TER" contest, he will definitely be the front runner. not even Old Traveler, or the Dungbeetle can hold a candle to him. Unless he bails on us, he should win going away.

I love winning contests from a bunch of blow hard, bully,  fucking know-it-alls. What do I win after the 5 of you fucking vote

All your old posts and reviews get tied to your new handle, so it is pretty easy to figure out when someone changed their handle if you knew their old posts.

On my end though, don't ask me to do that shit on cue unless you are prepared to watch me break into laughter whilst doing so. It is something I do when the moment entices me to do it, not something I am going to do just for the hell of it. If it is forced, it's a bit obvious. If I am not in the mood to do it, again...will be obvious it is fake. That's about as nuts as guys who say, "Cum for me baby, cum for me," as if I just have an orgasm button that I can press when a guy thinks I should cum NOW lol. On a guy's end, don't care about the dirty talk but don't call me your "little girl" and don't ask me to call you daddy. Will never happen. Slut, whore, dirty little "fill in the blank," all good.

He has lots of reviews, a white list and lots of posts under this alias, so for all intents and purposes it is the same as a handle in his case. He is not hiding behind an alias.

But have you never had women like this in your civie life? Or were you just afraid they might reject the idea and you would feel like a line had been crossed that they might resent you for asking?

Fucking with these people.  If there was a troll of the year award you've earned it.  You are hilarious the Tom Greene of TER.