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No clients under 35, why?
thisisalloneword1234 17 Reviews 3500 reads
posted
1 / 32

As soon I read an ad with no this, and no that, I pass. It's a big red flag that tells me the provider is not a good judge of people. Session will likely be bad. However, I wonder what logic goes behind the no client under 35?  I used to be that and remember my sessions as often awkward and nervous. Sometimes I would not even pop because of the nerves. Do providers not like dealing with that? Or is the opposite, too enthusiastic and virile clients who want to pop 3X in an hour?

hokjock 22 Reviews 94 reads
posted
2 / 32

I think it's because providers maybe trust men who are older more?  Trust they are more respectful when a provider says no to a specific action.  Maybe tend to be gentler?  Don't know really, just guessing.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 105 reads
posted
3 / 32

I think it is unlikely those barring under 35 would likely be doing so if that was their major source of clients.  Beyond that, age of maximum criminal activity is 25-29.  And in general behaviors tend to mellow out as men age.  

WICardinalfan 37 Reviews 104 reads
posted
4 / 32

Most men over 35 have more experience in the bedroom.  Our harmonies are declining so we are not as focused on the "fuck" as on the experience.

I have been told older men pay more attention to the needs of their female partner than those of a younger age.  

There are always exceptions.  

sunnyday1 169 Reviews 87 reads
posted
5 / 32

It means either the provider is old , and/or, they don't want to deal with noobies. Older johns have a lot more to lose and are have been in the game, are more discreet. They have more money, too. Lol.

PistolPetey 85 reads
posted
6 / 32

Many women have told me that younger guys are more immature, self-centered, and don't treat them as well. Some specifically will see men only over 40. Of course, every man is an individual so there are no guarantees. I've also known women to make exceptions to their age rules if they get a good vibe during initial contact/screening.

 
Basically a woman can run her business any way she wants to and doesn't have to answer to anyone.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 111 reads
posted
7 / 32

Maybe we can teach other something new? Idk lol I read a celebrity music entertainer licks arm pits, while hitting it from the back doggie style. He’s 19. I’m trying to what that’s like smile for me! I don’t judge. Age is nothing, but a #. Just because a man is older does not make him mature & trustworthy.

luvmtiter 111 Reviews 88 reads
posted
8 / 32

from watching Gonzo porn. Seriously, they think that shit is normal. They became "men" by playing video games and watching porn.

DeClemente 48 Reviews 99 reads
posted
9 / 32

I know of one escort in particular who has a personally-imposed restriction on a client's age based on how old her (adult) children are: she doesn't want to have sex with anyone who is younger than her children, it creeps her out.

John_Laroche 85 reads
posted
10 / 32

A). She is local and doesn't want to meet men in her age group while working. Some ethnicities exclude their own for similar reasons.

B). She's older and knows most younger men would not be interested (she doesn't list her age).

C). Younger men are more likely to want to go 2, 3, or more rounds in the same time period that an older guy may go just 1 or 2.

D). Younger men likely have less experience in P4P, bringing a number of challenges to her.

E). Older men are likely more established in family and career and less likely to do something stupid with an escort.

CurlyW-NatsFan 91 reads
posted
11 / 32

As far as the hobby is concerned, I was pretty matured by the time I turned 35 - but only because I started at the ripe old age of 21. I already had close to 15 yrs of experience.  But I don't blame one bit if the provider chooses not to see anyone under 35.   When I started out hobbying at 21, I had the same problem. I was too young.. Good for me, at that time, there were lot of agencies, and good quality agencies, which really helped out..

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 85 reads
posted
12 / 32

I will add that . . . . .

 
F)  Providers have told me that younger guys are rougher with them physically because they watch a lot of porn and think that's how you treat a lady.  

 
G)  Younger guys are less likely to repeat.   They seem more focused on quantity than quality.  

 
H)  Young guys rarely tip or bring gifts.

blue5361 191 Reviews 90 reads
posted
13 / 32

I don’t see many 22 year old providers asking for only older guys! If a provider is 35 or 40, even if she is smoking hot, a 22 year old client is a lot more likely to post a low score! Of course older guys are generally not as rough or into multiple shots and pounding, but a think maintaining consistent high scores is much more important to an aging provider. If the woman is 45, no way she will get five 9/9 scores from five 25 year olds. As an older gent, I have rated plenty of aging providers pretty high overall even if their looks have slipped a bit, assuming the performance is good!

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 100 reads
posted
14 / 32

From the perspective of a 22-year-old customer, when the door opens and there stands a gorgeous woman, albeit the same age as his mom, it's a disaster waiting to happen no matter how polished her skills are, so it makes sense for ladies in their late 30's and older to not take on the hassle, risk of a bad review and extra work of trying to create a fantasy for a  mind that is closed strictly based on her age.  

impposter 49 Reviews 101 reads
posted
15 / 32

Drawing on the same theme,  
Some older gentlemen do NOT want to see younger women that remind of his daughters, despite the popularity of father - stepdaughter porn.
Some younger hostesses do NOT want to see gentlemen that remind them of their fathers, despite the popularity of daughter - stepdad porn.
Some younger guys are probably too horny to care about seeing someone the same age as his mother OR sister, despite the popularity of stepmother and stepsister porn.
But ...
Some older (30+) Providers might want to avoid any semblance of mother-son play and set a lower limit of 35 to avoid it.

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
Re: You are absolutely right . . . .
From the perspective of a 22-year-old customer, when the door opens and there stands a gorgeous woman, albeit the same age as his mom, it's a disaster waiting to happen no matter how polished her skills are, so it makes sense for ladies in their late 30's and older to not take on the hassle, risk of a bad review and extra work of trying to create a fantasy for a  mind that is closed strictly based on her age.  

DrZoology 170 Reviews 95 reads
posted
16 / 32

At the age of 50, I don't like seeing providers older than 30 y/o so it balances out. There are a few exceptions but nothing beats the youthful all natural body of a woman in her twenties who takes care of herself.  

Men generally 'mature' later than woman. In general the average 20 year old female, looks like a fully developed woman. The average 20 year old male still looks like a pubescent teen that hasn't stopped growing yet, both physically and emotionally. This is just a generality but I assume that since most men don't become financially stable until their late 20's/30's some providers like to avoid the 'games' that younger clients may play when booking.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 76 reads
posted
17 / 32

and still consider a provider at "30+" to be "older."   I think of providers that are 30 as "barely legal."  Lol

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 97 reads
posted
18 / 32

I actually like father/(step)daughter porn, even though I've never had any children of my own.  I also like mother/(step)son porn, though I never had any sexual interest in my own mother. It's a fantasy concept thing.  One can imagine themselves in many situations that they will never experience.  This is why many females can have rape fantasies although they would never want to actually experience a real rape.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 116 reads
posted
19 / 32

Younger guys have more testosterone, are less predictable, have more energy, stamina, are stronger and likely have plethora of options. They might attempt riskier stuff and/or fail to provide adequate payment. They might fuck the beejus out of the provider and fuck like rabbits and leave a provider sore. Many younger guys aren't looking for a gf-like experience, they look to bust a nut and have their dick feel good.  

 

Whereas older guys are the opposite. More predictable, less work for the provider, not many options. Usually more money saved up (although in the last couple of decades a bunch of young guys with tons of money are tricking), less stamina/fucking  and more foreplay and cuddling. So again, less wear and tear for provider and less risk overall.

MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 99 reads
posted
20 / 32

And I've been reviewed by several guys in their late 20's to early 30s who gave me high scores in the looks dept throughout my time here. Unfortunately, a lot of the young'uns move on in their civvie life.  Still see a guy who is barely 30 but he's not on TER. Now that I'm over 50 , I'll admit my sweet spot is mid 40s-60s.  

Steph XO

CurlyW-NatsFan 91 reads
posted
21 / 32

Of course they do.  The term MILF was coined from POV of a teenager who has fantasy of boning a middle aged woman in the cult classic, American Pie (1999).

Always_SayYesi See my TER Reviews 104 reads
posted
22 / 32

From personal experience both in civie life and providing, I generally don’t like to deal with men younger than 30-32. The emotional intelligence isn’t there for the most part, which plays a very large part in how certain scenarios can play out during any type of one on one time. Especially when it comes to being told “no” or just general understanding of boundaries. I like to be comfortable in whatever environment I’m in, and interactions with the younger gentlemen sometimes can be very awkward and not comfortable whatsoever.

I can say, my normal target is 35+, but I still like to give guys a chance every now and converse with them a bit more to understand where their minds are. Then if I feel like they’re mature enough, I don’t mind meeting.

icyblu 84 reads
posted
23 / 32

From my chats with providers, they prefer older men because they're more-likely to be gentle and cum sooner.  

Younger men tend to have difficulty reaching orgasm due to their "death grip" vagina expectations. As much as we all think providers love non-stop sex, it's just a job for them. The sooner their client cums, the better.  

-- Modified on 8/25/2022 4:12:33 PM

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 81 reads
posted
24 / 32

From my own talks with providers, the years of posts by older gents on TER discussion boards, and my own experience, "cumming quickly" is not something providers would value older men for.  Most of the guys I know that are my age have the same problem, we often struggle to finish in an hour, so we will usually book two hour sessions so there is no rush, no worries.   After literally thousands of sessions with providers, plus an active civvie sex life, I have noticed that some of the sensitivity I had as a yute is gone, so it takes longer to get to the point of no return.  I still book one hour sessions with new ladies, but I'm often up against the clock to finish in the allotted time if she burns too much time "getting acquainted," or having a drink first, so all my repeats are for two hours.

TinaStar4u See my TER Reviews 106 reads
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25 / 32

Posted By: thisisalloneword1234

As soon I read an ad with no this, and no that, I pass. It's a big red flag that tells me the provider is not a good judge of people. Session will likely be bad. However, I wonder what logic goes behind the no client under 35?  I used to be that and remember my sessions as often awkward and nervous. Sometimes I would not even pop because of the nerves. Do providers not like dealing with that? Or is the opposite, too enthusiastic and virile clients who want to pop 3X in an hour?
While mine isnt as high as 35. The reason that I set an age limit is because I have experienced younger clients and I feel that the service I provide isnt what they are looking for.  
Most of the time they think they are in their own personal porn and want to try all kinds of crazy positions and can be more forceful and also want to try and pop 3x in an hour. Personally I feel most of them want a PSE experience and I am more comfortable providing GFE service. Not that I dont throw a little PSE in with my GFE but I feel like they want the entire session PSE and alot of times younger clients dont understand NO. They start with the begging and the "Please??" or 2 mins after I tell them  NO Im not comfortable with something they did {I.E. Deep Throating Hard}... They try it again!
Im just comfortable with someone older,more experienced and respectful. Not saying every young guy is Disrespectful because they arent but Im just speaking from my experience and point of view and 7/10 younger guys fit this profile. And Im just too damn grown to put up with the BS. I have No problem putting a young one in his place but I'd just rather avoid the experience all together.

Again this is just MY POINT OF VIEW.

DeClemente 48 Reviews 102 reads
posted
26 / 32

Posted By: TinaStar4u
Re: My reasons for having an Age Limit
Posted By: thisisalloneword1234
 
 As soon I read an ad with no this, and no that, I pass. It's a big red flag that tells me the provider is not a good judge of people. Session will likely be bad. However, I wonder what logic goes behind the no client under 35?  I used to be that and remember my sessions as often awkward and nervous. Sometimes I would not even pop because of the nerves. Do providers not like dealing with that? Or is the opposite, too enthusiastic and virile clients who want to pop 3X in an hour?
While mine isnt as high as 35. The reason that I set an age limit is because I have experienced younger clients and I feel that the service I provide isnt what they are looking for.  
 Most of the time they think they are in their own personal porn and want to try all kinds of crazy positions and can be more forceful and also want to try and pop 3x in an hour. Personally I feel most of them want a PSE experience and I am more comfortable providing GFE service. Not that I dont throw a little PSE in with my GFE but I feel like they want the entire session PSE and alot of times younger clients dont understand NO. They start with the begging and the "Please??" or 2 mins after I tell them  NO Im not comfortable with something they did {I.E. Deep Throating Hard}... They try it again!  
 Im just comfortable with someone older,more experienced and respectful. Not saying every young guy is Disrespectful because they arent but Im just speaking from my experience and point of view and 7/10 younger guys fit this profile. And Im just too damn grown to put up with the BS. I have No problem putting a young one in his place but I'd just rather avoid the experience all together.  
   
 Again this is just MY POINT OF VIEW.

 

 
Makes perfect sense to me, Tina.

vanessafontaine See my TER Reviews 103 reads
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27 / 32

I think age is just a number ! As long as over 25 and respectful nice man, to me it doesn’t matter if you’re 80 or 30! It’s all about respect and it goes both ways .

36363jensen 4 Reviews 88 reads
posted
28 / 32

why do you have a 25 age cut off?

lisa0302 See my TER Reviews 131 reads
posted
29 / 32

Does not pertain to EVERY younger guy...YMMV

Reasons

1. FLAKELY
2. FLAKELY
3. Does not call/text till 10mins prior to appt to get directions.
4. Prefers text message over email
5. Wants to face time
6. Loves to cash app verses put cash on dresser.
7. Slow moving
8. LATE
9. LATE
10. Zero respect for time

 
Having said all that yada yada..it depends on the PERSON and their MATURITY level. Lots of young guys in their 20s and 30s own their own businesses and work very hard to maintain it. They are mature, respectful and respectful of time.

I am a self admit cougar. Well a cougar without kids...Giggles. I  Loves me a nice young guy in his 20s Especially a respectful kind one. That energy fills up a room..

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 91 reads
posted
30 / 32

Any Provider that says "NO CLIENT UNDER 35" in her ad.......Is really seeking her life long significant other.  I don't believe that it's just because the Provider wants an experience Client. There's more to it then that. We (The Provider) are here to make money & Nothing beyond that.

Always_SayYesi See my TER Reviews 102 reads
posted
31 / 32

Sorry if im late but for me personally, I’m almost in the age range that i dont want to personally or professionally date, myself.  

But because I have younger brothers, cousins, males friends & etc under, I constantly think about the age limit i set. I talk to them constantly just to have a males point of view on things when it comes to personal relationships. They talk to me too, so I understand their behaviors, thought processes, feelings and then some. I KNOW when they’re feeling, up, down, rejected or acctped, things can change at any moment. Not to say thats not any scenario, but when we’re talking safety and spur of the moment situations, I trust a more mature mind.  

Younger men are and tend to be more volitile/aggressive in their emotions as well as their sexual expression. Also, i know my 30 yr old mind & the 30 yr old mind of a male in this day & age are no where near the same. Im not sure why our discretion would ever breed any type of deterrence in anyone else. 😕

DeClemente 48 Reviews 86 reads
posted
32 / 32

Posted By: Kitty76
Re: No clients under 35
Any Provider that says "NO CLIENT UNDER 35" in her ad.......Is really seeking her life long significant other.  I don't believe that it's just because the Provider wants an experience Client. There's more to it then that. We (The Provider) are here to make money & Nothing beyond that.
Not every person has the exact same reasons for participating in an act or for making decisions about what he or she does.

Not every provider has the exact same reasons for participating this industry or for making decisions about what she likes or does not like.

Not every client has the exact same reasons for participating this industry or for making decisions about what he likes or does not like.  

You wrote: "Any Provider that says "NO CLIENT UNDER 35" in her ad.......Is really seeking her life long significant other." You're lumping a large group of providers into a single category when there are obviously some who have age restrictions for reasons other than the narrowly-defined one that you posted.

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