Calm down, dude. It's not that serious.
People experience this everyday. Civie women (and men for that matter) are no different in that when you first meet them, it's a bit of an act.

You want to impress so you put your best foot forward. You take extra care to look your best, spend time thinking of the right things to say, hell, you even leave the room when you have to fart. Providers do this, albeit for different reasons, but to the same end. Nobody goes about letting you see all the crusty, nasty shit about themselves. Not at first.

But the act is impossible to maintain forever. Spend enough time with anyone and you soon see that the grass isn't really greener, they're just using fertilizer. When they finally get too lazy, too busy, or too complacent, to mow the lawn, inevitably the weeds sprout up. Then you get to see who they really are, imperfections and all.

You might still like her anyway, but will undoubtedly be less enamored. She shits the same way you do, buddy. And it don't smell like rose pedals.      

I've been ruined too. I met a wonderful lady almost 3 years ago. We're separated by over 2000 miles and she is 25 years younger than me. Yet, there's this connection or chemistry both in and out of the bedroom between us. I'm only able to see her 3 or 4 times a year and they're usually overnights or extended dates.

I spend far too much time thinking about her and planning for dates weeks in advance. I've tried finding the same kind of connection with other ladies more local to no avail. I am NOT in love, but I am in lust. So for now, I'll enjoy until she grows tired of me or something changes in our lives.

Recently, I had the most amazing hobby experience ever and I'll never be the same.  I'm ruined.  This woman was stunningly gorgeous.  She was also witty, charming, intelligent, playful and seductive.  She was totally into the experience and enjoyed our encourter as much as I did.  I cannot stop thinking about her and cannot wait to see her again.  I've had some very good hobby experiences, but none come even remotely close to this one.  She provided everything I could ever hope to gain from such an experince...and I'm concerned that it cannot be replicated.  Again....I'm ruined.  

Has anyone else been through this?  Did you recover?  I'm using an alies so I won't alienate others I've seen or set the bar too high for those I may see in the future.

Why try and replicate it?
Just see her!
Yes,IMHO,i think we all have had a similar experience!!!!
Some of the most gorgeous,intelligent,charming women in the world,are in the "BIZ."
Sometimes i am amazed,that they make themselves available to an average joe like me!!!
Yes,it's all about the envelope,so what,who cares!!!
Glad u found yourself a great one,they sure can make a man feel good about themselves!!!

The first provider I ever saw oddly enough. I still see her. Some day she will stop providing or get sick of me or whatever so I try not to invest too much thought to it. I will be very sad though if/when that happens, but it's a big and transitory world and nothing lasts. You're not ruined, you're lucky to have met someone that you could share that kind of experience with, and it will very likely happen again. Best of luck.

I agree with most of the post below.  I will say that I have had some really, really good experiences lately and with one in particular that I have known for a couple of years now I have seen the imperfections, but she has never been complacent or anything but incredible (she should know who she is).  She is still a rose...but I have also seen other beautiful flowers since I discovered her.

After numerous sessions like that, actually fell in love with her, told her I wanted to marry her, which ended the "relationship".  It sucks when you feel that way because she is doing her job exceptionally well.  Don't get sucked into thinking she feels the same way, cause in my case, she didn't.  But boy, she sure was good at making me feel like we were in true love.  But that's what I paid her to do.  Hope it goes better for you.

you had one hell of a great time..And thats great..Its suppose to be ALL that and then some..As a provider, and I know I am not the only one, I try and have the best possible time with the person I am with at that particular moment. Did you write her a review..If not, you should. Maybe she would like to hear what a great time you had..Rememeber, hers is to make sure YOU have a great time, and Im sure she did too..its all fantasy..with great sex thrown in..


But I know each of us has come across someone that the time was THAT great..

Come on guys..let him enjoy his moment..Everyone needs to relish in this day and age where so many things are not what they seem..

Same effect on me. She sets the bar in the damned ionosphere.

Just remember it's P4P, nothing more, nothing less. Enjoy the ride!

That's cold!!!
But true!
You ain't the only one she's seeing!!  (to, op)

So much so that it turned into a relationship.  She is a very special lady and nobody will ever compare.  


Every other experience has not compared

come and go in this business so you need to enjoy the moment.

Do not make the mistake that the next session will be exactly like that one.  It sounds like all the ingredients are there but the details will probably be different.  Don't feel compelled to compair the 2nd visit to the 1st one, just enjoy each of them for what they are.

   I suspect each visit will get better. The trick is to enjoy without getting too involved. Just have fun while you can and be prepared to let her go when the time comes.

i have not been ruined by a provider, but i have had the best experience so far wirh a provider. i look forward to seeing her again soon as its been about 2 months since i met her.

It happens all the time.
I was in a relationship that lasted 10yrs... I knew it would end one day.  All I did was appreciate him for the way he treated me.
I became his mistress, always available for him (when he needed ) my company/services.   We met back in 2000 when I was just offering my Fbsm.  I stopped in 2002, when I started  the modeling. Yet, he stood by my side --He cared to assist me with bills. For the modeling wasn't paying all my bills.
 
It's funny how a human can forget gratitude or take for granted that special person. Not saying that you did!!!!

In My case,  we both knew- it was an agreement without words...He knew how I felt. And I knew what he needed. Now, he has moved on, due to to his Job. We still talk once every now and then....

Cherish the memories, and enjoy life---For life is to short!   We never know where life takes us.
We just have to make good choices--And continue to treat others as we like to be treated.

Good luck with your adventures.
* Remember that- we give what we have.*

Just keep hobbying, and have fun!  If it works for you, just let the good times roll!

Everything was great, she was enthusiastic, I had lots of fun. Went back a second time and it was just "meh". Went back a third time and it was "meh" again. I heard the same thing from others but I thought the first experience was a sign of more good times to come. And now she keeps emailing me bugging me to see her all the time. Didn't take long for her to take me for granted. Just be prepared for that possibility.

I've had a few experiences with some of the gentlemen I have met...I had such a nice time,I'd say to myself,I really hope he calls again!=)

I think it's great that you found someone that you enjoy spending time with,just because she sees other people & may make them happy as well,that doesn't mean that it wasn't special and enjoyable for her as well...It's crazy how you meet people sometimes!lol...This may be a start of a great long lasting friendship for the both of you!