I've had guys leave me without mine... this resulted in me changing my entire policy about how the receiving of the roses goes down. I always take care of business first.
Being left high and dry is so rude and disrespectful... especially after someone gives you themselves for such a personal experience! If you don't like the experience, leave before you get too far into it. it doesn't take a whole hour plus two pops to find out you didn't enjoy it.
Posted By: will645
Gentlemen, ever have a lady leave without hers? Ladies, fess up.
I've never seen one forget her money...
If you really want to treat her to something nice, chocolates are more discreet than showing up with a handful of roses. Other Discreet ideas: Gift Cards to her favorite fashion store, lingerie you would like her to model put into a nondescript bag, or heck, throw a little bit more into her envelope next time. All would be appreciated, I am sure! 
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that I see really often. He always presents the envelope first thing and it's usually left on the counter as I am frequently serving him a healthy dinner as part of a package agreement. I was once packed and halfway out the door before I remembered I had left it on the counter...we have great conversations and I often forget we aren't just close friends...but I didn't forget the envelope on purpose, that will never happen unless a ring and unlimited credit card is involved 
Another very regular client once forgot to leave roses at the begining of our meeting...I didn't think much of it because I usually don't pay much attention to when and where it is put when I know them...until he was about to walk out the door...I felt really stupid as I had to mention, "are you forgetting something?" and he leaned in for a hug...ha ha...then he turned red and realized and ever since then he has jokingly noted on his way out that he didn't forget.
... twice. It wasn't done on purpose.
We had so much fun that both times, the ladies forgot to pick up the envelope.
First time, I had to text message the lady. She came back within minutes. The second time, she got as far as her car, realized that she was missing something... came back to my room... I was standing wth door open with the envelope in my hand. She laughed and left. She still reminds me of that funny moment.
Serpius
Posted By: will645
Gentlemen, ever have a lady leave without hers? Ladies, fess up.
If she forgets her envelope or you leave without leaving the envelope, make sure to gets it. Taking advantage of a forgetful situation is a surefire way to get labeled a problem client or even rob--situations a lady would prefer not to go through--which is the reason most ladies prefer to handle the necessity upfront.
Most guys are true gents to the word and are mortified to be thought of behaving anything less than that, but it is the cheeky few that makes it important to follow a certain protocol consistently no matter who a gal sees to avoid such unfortunate situations.
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... greenbacks... not actual flowers.
In case you didn't know... "roses" are lingo for "money / currency".
Serpius
"Has any provider ever left without THEM," it is far from clear if he meant actual flowers or the damn envelope.
Posted By: serpius
... greenbacks... not actual flowers.
In case you didn't know... "roses" are lingo for "money / currency".
Serpius
odd to get them from someone who is paying me. I have gotten them from very good friends, but always locally. When a lady tours, she can't exactly bring them back on the plane with her so they would have to be tossed before hitting security. That's just a fact. If you like bringing flowers, only do it with the local gals or ones who are driving in vs. flying, so at least you know they won't end up in the garbage. Even then, I guess you would never know. I can tell you the best gifts are simple gift cards where the lady can actually pick out what she likes or get something for her sister, mother, whatever.
I don't think the OP was talking about real roses....unless of course Ben Franklin has a species named after him.
Posted By: London Rayne
odd to get them from someone who is paying me. I have gotten them from very good friends, but always locally. When a lady tours, she can't exactly bring them back on the plane with her so they would have to be tossed before hitting security. That's just a fact. If you like bringing flowers, only do it with the local gals or ones who are driving in vs. flying, so at least you know they won't end up in the garbage. Even then, I guess you would never know. I can tell you the best gifts are simple gift cards where the lady can actually pick out what she likes or get something for her sister, mother, whatever.
... correct, sethric!!
I guess some people just don't get the lingo. Sighs.
Serpius
Posted By: sethric56
I don't think the OP was talking about real roses....unless of course Ben Franklin has a species named after him.
Posted By: London Rayne
odd to get them from someone who is paying me. I have gotten them from very good friends, but always locally. When a lady tours, she can't exactly bring them back on the plane with her so they would have to be tossed before hitting security. That's just a fact. If you like bringing flowers, only do it with the local gals or ones who are driving in vs. flying, so at least you know they won't end up in the garbage. Even then, I guess you would never know. I can tell you the best gifts are simple gift cards where the lady can actually pick out what she likes or get something for her sister, mother, whatever.
If he is talking about money, leave it upfront in the bathroom. I have never forgot the damn money...no. It's usually in a safe place before I do a thing.
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For my "Immigrant Love" Latina ladies, I'll occasionally bring them calling phone cards as gifts. They're quite practical and always appreciated since they almost all have children back home that they're supporting, for whom they're doing this degrading but lucrative work. Such occasional cards allow them to stay connected to their children by allowing them to call them more often or for a few extra minutes. Helping them with minor things such as this also allows them to send more of their money back home. I can't tell you how many such ladies have sadly told me how, even as they are trying to provide a better life for their children back home, their young children are becoming more and more distant over time as their mother works for them in a distant land...
It might be arkward to drive the distance if I forgot... but I would get it to her.
My normal proceedure... I dispensed with envolupes long ago unless the circumstances are such that a special occasion card is appropriate.
What I do is separate the correct donation in advance & secure it with a paper clip so the bills can't separate. I carry the donation in my key pocket to the meeting. It would be my right pant pocket in sport clothes, right jacket pocket in a suit or spring jacket. My reason is that's where my keys go & I'll feel it before leaving as a last ditch Opps! preventer.
Early in my hobbying, once I was dressed to leave in her bed room but had not placed the donation when she gently reminded me about forgetting & I handed it over. I thought about why it had happened. She had a chair placed to recieve my clothes, very nice... but no place for my other things so dressing was arkward & the dresser had a big TV & candles but place for the donation. I had already undressed when I washed up so I didn't have it with me in the bathroom. I guess I could have stepped into the bathroom again or left it on the chair... Honestly the Gal was stunning & my mind was still in a whirl... (she may recognize herself in this... I hope to connect with her again sometime)
It's uncomfortable dressing with pockets full... and the risk of things falling out which happened to me once long ago (prehobby)... so I normally empty my pockets onto her dresser next to my clothes. The item on the bottom is the donation with it's paperclip. When I redress, the donation is left behind without comment.
Once I had a young provider swoop in to retrieve the donation while I was still dressing... she was not with the program & spooked I guess. I saw her unfrequently & that was the last time for other reasons however.
My Favorites know the plan & it's keeps the GFE illusion better than other methods. I don't observe the donation after I pick up my things, it's no longer mine... it's about 50/50 sometimes in the back & forth of dressing & bathroom it disappears, other times not...
I asked because I have had a lady leave without hers ( she left a bracelet as well ). I called when I discovered it. She was going to drive back, but I asked her where she was and told her I'd bring it to her at a bar nearby. I got to the bar ten minutes later and she was super embarrassed and grateful. We ended up drinking till closing time. I gave her cab fare and put her in a taxi before I took my own taxi home. Neither of us was fit to drive anywhere, but it was a fun time.
2006, Washington DC. I was traveling for business and scheduled a 9am hour outcall to my hotel with the ravishing redhead legand named Robin. With all outcalls I like to place the donation on the counter in the bathroom. Knock on the door and when I let this gorgeous girl inside, we attacked each other.
Clothes flyin' everywhere and we completely lost track of time (almost 11am). Realizing how late we were, she jumps up and hops in the shower, dries off and runs out the door. After she leaves I head to the bathroom and there sitting on the counter was 3 bills. I was stunned.
I opened my 20lb laptop and sent her an email. I few minutes later there was a knock on the door. Robin stepped inside and said, "Thanks for fucking me silly, I totally forgot the donation." I handed her the cash, she stuck her tongue down my throat one more time and I felt like a man 2 feet taller. Talk about forgetting it was a service.
Since this thread is confused, I'll give you my actual take on flowers too
I ask that people do not bring cut flowers that will die but rather potted orchids...they stay alive and bloom a couple times a year...much more nifty than roses
