I saw a girl pose a question on Twitter, something like asking providers if they'd take a vacation with a client if they paid for hotel, airfare, meals etc, but not her time. Most of the responses were 'no.' Talking about having to be "on" the whole time, spending every waking moment together etc. Didn't respond myself, as I didn't know the girl, seemed aimed at providers. But got me thinking as a client, wtf? Maybe it's just me, but I'd have to be EXTREMELY comfortable with someone to even ask that, if a provider, she'd have to frequently and consistently be spending otc time with me. I'd make it explicitly clear we'd be doing something like that as friends. I took my mom on vacation and didn't spend every waking moment with her, can't imagine doing that with a relative stranger. Maybe on my honeymoon, otherwise I want my alone time. Do people really do this?

And if so, what are her rates?

I travel a LOT for work. I've had providers fly out to come hang out OTC. Typically I'll donate my miles for airfare since I got more than I'll ever use. If I'm somewhere for a significant time I'm usually in nice corporate apartments with multiple bedrooms. Or I'll use miles to get her a room at the same hotel. But beyond that purely OTC, not transactional, and no expectations. It's a gift to a friend not a barter. If we were to have a good time and end up in bed I'd still pay usual rate....this has never actually happened during a trip tho, always stayed platonic.

It would go much smoother, if you went into it with the mindset of hanging out with someone and the guy gives you space by not suffocating you.  

A gentleman I've been seeing for 5 years, proposed a trip together for a music festival down south. He paid for everything, my time + hotel + airfare + meals + uber/lyft ride to the airport and back. Honestly I was a bit nervous about it but I've known him a while and he's such a sweetheart, I thought what the heck!

A few of the gals I've seen over the years have always said that I'm an easy person to chat with.  To the point where some have even opened up about themselves.  An act?  perhaps, but sometimes I ask what they do during their off-days.  To my surprise, many literally don't have any friends to "hang with".  I've always just wondered if asked, would they just wanna have a drink or lunch or dinner?  Heck, even a SBUX drink.

But how did you calculate your time? Did you get paid for three complete 24-hour days??

Well my 3 day rate is actually right on my site so that's what it would be. However, he's a long time client (5 years now) and we worked out a slightly lower rate for the getaway. So it was more like 2.25 days for the rate.

Escorts are female (for this discussion) and females are hypergamous.  Therefore like females, 80% are chasing 20% of males.  If you aren't in the top 10-20% of males, they just aren't interested.  If you are in the top 20%, you probably don't have to go searching for chicks to hang out with.  They'll be finding you.

I’ve actually discussed taking trips with providers and SBs. The room safe has never been discussed. I’m thinking that you REALLY trust the other person in order to commingle your property and share a code. Any thought, observations and criticisms?

I've found that many providers don't have a ton of friends. Probably nature of the job. If I develop a good enough relationship that I would want to hang out with them on a platonic level I usually just tell them they can always reach out on off days. That way I'm not bugging them and it's their choice. Of course by the time I offer this we're already well acquainted and I'd say about 25% end up reaching out

My regular at home is a 55y/o mostly retired UTR.  She likes to gamble so every couple of months we make the 1 hour drive down south to New Orleans for a day and a half.  Several years ago we worked out a deal, pretty much at her suggestion, that I’ll give her $500 along with paying for the room, two queens, and take care of meals.  We do a BJ/DATY after checkin and then either late at night or in the morning.  Usually we’ll also do the same when we get home.  It works out great because once we get to the casino we’ll each do our own thing and pretty much only meet up for dinner and maybe a drink or two.  Perfect arrangement for both of us.

Ooof not an ounce of manipulation? If you truly believe that you're either naive or she's really that good. Not saying she's not trustworthy but 100% she knows how to manipulate and hustle you if she wanted to.

I thought it was 78X.   What happened?  

He’s a complete douchebag, unlike his ancestors ggdaddy and gggdaddy who were pretty decent guys. I keep hoping that Admin will step in and do the right thing, but I’m starting to wonder.

I thought the same at 1st, but he said go BACK 77 times. So that technically would make it 78X total.

Yep...you are right.. My bad..  

that the guys that she can manipulate to go back many times are just weak-minded and insecure.  It all makes sense now.

STILL, it was 78, what, a couple of months back!
Haven't seen her since then?
Or she's done with him, and he's got 78 memories!

with a long time client. He paid for my airfare,hotel,food,and our activities.
We had an awesome time I did give him a slightly lower rate as I have known him for many years but he definitely compensated me for my time. Going with a client and not getting compensated for the time is not a vacation in my opinion but every lady is different. So a provider would have to be frequently seeing you OTC for you to ask her on this type of trip?
There are many providers whose rates are lower for multiple day rates versus paying by the hour

I’ve been on vacation with clients that are my real
friends & we did not spend every minute together.

“Going with a client and not getting compensated for the time is NOT a vacation.”  

I suppose it depends on the expectations. I have zero expectations if a providers travels with me OTC, and I make that very clear prior to buying tickets/rooms. And up to now it's never gotten physical.  

I have gone on many vacations OTC with providers and I have NEVER paid for their time.   I pay for air, hotel, meals and all activities.  The must agree to fuck me every morning and again at night, so sex two times a day.  During the day, I rarely see them.  Usually, I'm either on the golf course or out on a half-day fishing charter.  Meanwhile, she has permission to charge up to $500/day to our room.  This can be used at the spa or the resort clothing store, but keeps her busy and out of my hair while I'm having my OWN vacation.  I tell them before we go that if they want to work while I'm busy doing my own thing, it's okay with me.  There are usually plenty of married guys (and some single guys who came for the golf) at resort hotels that would be willing to pay to see the kinds of ladies I bring with me.  This lets them pick up a few bucks on the side while we are not together.  They don't discuss the specifics with me, but I know some of them have taken me up on it.  Others just want to lay on the beach or fall asleep on the massage table.    

Kinda a fmty situation but otc. Paid airfare and hotel and for all activities. 3 days / 2 nights. Separate rooms. No compensation for time (although I did get her a nice gift). Absolutely wonderful time. If the relationship is right I'd recommend it 100%

That you can do this in the middle of the week. Mine usually have to be weekends because of the nature of my work even though I’ve cut back to only 20-25 hours a week.  I agree on getting separate rooms if the lady I’m taking snores.  Lol

Luckily I even though I work about 70hrs/week, my schedule it very flexible. Perks of owning my own businesses (of course it also means I'm on-call 24/7)

You must be a gigolo, and a very popular one, at that.  Lol

If I could go back in time I'd have made that my profession. I've got the looks and intelligence.