Talk about a loaded question!  Hehehe.  I would love to hear from both the ladies and the gentlemen on this.

Ahh, the feeling of a warm tongue seemingly wandering off track, then lingering there, then exploring further...  :-P~~  Has it happened to you?  What was it like?  Did you enjoy it?  Did it make you physicially uncomfortable, or did it bring up any uncomfortable thoughts or feelings?  Would you do it again?  

If you've never experienced it, is it something you've dreamed of?  Would you allow it, or does the idea of it freak you out?

Would you do it to your partner?  Lets say you began your lovemaking session by bathing or showering together (a soapy finger teasing his or her ass), so that you knew he/she was squeaky clean.  Then would you?


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awesome! cant get enough of it

Seems like in the not so distant past, a little bit cuter and a lot less heavier...all I had to do was initiate it once on a girlfriend and it was on the menu from then on.  Maybe I was lucky and just dated freaks. These days it's non-existant. Wife enjoyed receiving it but not anymore, and she's only given it once.  How can you be a freak in college and then turn into a prude. Anyway, I'm afraid to ask a provider because it could ruin the mood for the rest of the night. I've tried it with one and she let me go crazy but I didn't ask her to reciprocate. is this a request ladies get often? Would they be upset if I asked them?  Here's the thousand dollar question" how 'bout a rim job while her friend sucks to completion!

...but it is something I enjoy giving and receiving while both home and away. Like anything else, it isn't something I plan or look forward to, but if it happens as part of the natural flow of things, so much the better.

I am not wild about sticking anything near it or in it. I will always forgo that part. But, I do love licking beneath the "cubes". Also, the booty has to be VERY, VERY, VERY, VERY, VERY, VERY, VERY, EXTREMELY CLEAN/NON SMELLY (or I will get turned off, and refuse to go in that region on him again). I had one client who gave himself an enema (how I wish that most men would!), just before he met with me, and it was the best time I ever had!!! How I loved kissing him back there, and hearing him moan..purr purr..  As for myself, as people already know, I don't do greek, and, nor do I want a finger remotely close to that area LOL As for him licking on me, I can take it or leave it, it doesn't turn me (( I actually get more turned on by being licked in the frontal area Hey, at least I am being honest here lol

Mel


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That's about exactly what it costs.    But, I've been told the feeling's incredible.

Awww, I'm sorry to hear you're not getting it anymore.  I've always heard it's part of a wife's job to stop doing the good stuff in bed, but you haven't found providers to do it?  Initiating it sounds like a great way to hint for it, but, if that isn't working, then you might try the old pulling-your-knees-back-behind-your-ears trick.    Hey, I get the hint that way, though it's really not necessary with me.

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As you know very well, Laurel, it depends much on who are the people, who is the rimer and who the rimee, regardless of who is the client and who the provider. As long as you are one of the Luscious participants, it's great.

I had never had this performed for me until I started seeking professional adult counseling. But the first time, OH MY GOD...it was one of the few times that I had a BBBJTC, and the orgasm was so intense it hurt.

I don't, in general, ask for it. However, most women I've met enjoy it immensely too. And you know the Golden Rule: do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Of course cleanliness is a prerequisite. I would (and do) reciprocate if I'm confident of the hygiene.

My first experience with this was in a 69 position and we both rimmmed each other. Wow, what a great feeling! This led to more experimenting and now I enjoy that as well as fingers stroking, tickling or even probing inside.

Haven't worked up the nerve to let a girl try a strap on just yet, but I figure that's bound to be next for me based on how much I like the other forms of anal stimulation.

I'm pretty hairy back there, and I feel awkward asking for it.  Anybody have any suggestions ??

as I apply different standards with different ladies. My wife/lover and I always have our tongues mutually wandering every nook and crevice that the human body possesses. However, when with a commercial companion, I am not as enthusiastic about reciprocation  

Everyone has their own individual reasons for paying for a ladies time. My sole reason for engaging in this type of business enterprise is of no great importance. These business interactions, unlike my marriage or the straight social relationships I had in college, result in disproportionate reciprocation. In other words more is done to me than what I feel comfortable doing.

I realize that many clients can really get into the fantasy and believe they are spending time with a girlfriend. I can't get into the fantasy thing with a commercial companion. I think of this business lady as a girlfriend, as much as I think the easter bunny will be sitting next to me in a bar a la Harvey.

Another area other than rimming that I am uncomfortable with is kissing. Many posters seem to take a do or die attitude towards kissing. Personally, I only find kissing to be meaningful is when I know there is real passion emoting from my partner. Does paying $500 include REAL passion? In fact after engaging in oral sex, I would sooner end the session than kiss her again. The reason being is that if after eating the paid lady's pussy and we would kiss I would not want get oral sex from her again. I would feel that if there were any little organisms in her pussy, I then transferred them to her mouth and if she sucked me again she then would transfer those organisms to my cock. Strictly from the male perspective, I equate having mutual oral sex, kissing, and more oral sex with uncovered intercourse. That is not a comfortable thought.

In summary, I just love rimming (both as the doer and doee) and may other things with the right partner, while being scared of it with another type of partner.

I don't really like it done to me, although there was one fbsm girl that would rub her index finger lightly over my bunghole and it felt pretty good.  I've only done it to my ATF (without tongue penetration).  She seemed to enjoy it, as did I.  YNH.

shaving one's ass has got to be one of the most awkward tasks.  It probably takes me 20 minutes but the results are nice!  Use a lighted mirror and a high quality razor.

I love to do give and receive.  Some girl's assholes are irresistable so I have to dive in.  I've only received this a couple of times but it was great (thank you ladies...I'll never forget you!)  When I know a provider offers this, I prepare myself for it which includes shaving and cleaning.  Receiving gets me really turned on 'cause its so nasty I guess and because it feels so f***ing good...DAMN!  Because my favorite thing is BBBJNQNS and I love getting rimmed, my fantasy is to combine them and have one girl tongue-fuck my ass hard while another one is deepthroating as I'm ejaculating.
Am I a bad boy? (rhetorical)

I love it!!  Making sure you are clean before hand is important.

I had experienced it before and I neither disliked, but did not find it uncomfortable.  Being clean before hand is key to a tongue AND /OR a finger wonders there ....

Duh, like you expected to hear me say hate it....silly boys.

Oh, I like giving and receiving.

Shaye

I'm always up for exploration! And I know that I don't have to state the obvious hygienic requirements regarding any journey to that dark continent. Laurel, you sound like my kind of playmate!!!

I LOVE speaking asian,and I agree with everyone here on
cleanliness. Alot has to do the "HEAT" of the session I
think. I have had some providers that didn't really seem
like they were to wild about it,so it didn't go anywhere
in those cases,BUT(pun intended).......The hottest sessions
always have some sort of anal tongue play. I don't mind
recieving AT ALL,but(pun intended)I really enjoy giving
because I love to watch her eyes and facial expressions
and listen for the gasps for air as I lick AND probe
her with my tongue.What I enjoy the most is getting them
up on their knees and tongue f__king their ass along with
some DP and DATY. This combination seems to go over very
well as my providers have a tendency to come UNGLUED!!

Depends on the lady I'm with, if I'm comfortable with her, love initiating it. Love to receive as well. A lady I have seen many times back east, has recently begun doing Asian on me in a serious, deliberate way....can't think of anything that gets me off quicker. Always clean, well groomed and trimmed for my appointments, make the erogenous zones that much easier to reach.

Oh, don't use a razor guys, use an electric shaver, with a trimmer attachment. Razors lead to shaving bumps and ingrown hairs....ouch!

I've only had one lady that dove in (she was my first).  I've asked many others since then and nobody even came close to saying yes.  Funny though.......during the heat of action I've done it to some of them and they didn't complain one bit!!

For me, rimming is like oral...I don't enjoy giving anywhere near as much as recieving, but am happy to do the deed myself as a means to get it in return.

I feel as long it he's well-groomed, it's great. It makes the whole evening more sensuous and something that can be stimulating for both parties. I also love to softly lick the entire body after a back rub because the senses are more in tune, and it gives someone goose bumps (which is a turn-on in my book).

Hugs,
Ciara

Reying for it

Best anti-sex device: Wedding Cake!!

Personally i love getting it and doing it. IF #1 it is supper clean and #2 smooth shaven.

Its a wonderful feeling.

there the lady in question has been squeeky clean.

I do my best to be clean just in case. I shower, scrub, and usually give myself an enema before a date. However, I'm too shy to ask so being rimmed has been a rare experience.

Funny, but being penetrated with a finger (never been penetrated with anything larger) doesn't do much for me. Perhaps that is because (like many older men) I suffer from BPH (benign prostatic hyperplasia).

I think the first time I was rimmed was way back in the 1980's. The lady was giving me a BBBJ, stopped and pushed my legs up, went lower and started giving me the most incredible hand job. I was so innocent that at the time I didn't even realize where she had gone with her tongue or that it was what she was doing with her tongue that made the hand job so incredible.

Probably the ultimate experience for me would be to have one lady rim me, while a second gives me a combined BBBJ and hand job, and a third sits on my face. Perhaps that is why the link is my favorite erotic short story.


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It is awesome.  Enjoy both giving and receiving.  Some ladies I have been with have found it weird or awkward to receive.

There was a woman I dated once who absolutely loved it (especially receiving).  It was a nice prelude to greek for her (which she loved also).

It was my first time with a Porn Star. We'd "encountered" previously, but this time she invited me to her home. I really wanted Greek...particularly since she is somewhat legendary for her skills in that area. "You're too big," she said "You'll have to lick my ass first."  I gulped, big-time. It was something I'd never done, nor had any interest in doing. Besides, what would licking do that a good lube wouldn't? However, lust overcame my inhibitions and, once determining that the "site" was indeed Very Clean, I went at it. She seemed to really get off on it.  Of course, for me,  the "pay off" was well worth the "price"

Epiloge: a number of months later, I discovered one of the reasons why she was sooo clean. We'd spent several nights together and one morning, as she was finishing up her shower, she asked me to come into the bathroom. Then she handed me a razor and some shaving cream, and asked me to shave her around her asshole.

I've always thought of that request as a sign of trust.

She told me that she "could never see her ass doing that!"

had an appt today and out of the blue she dove right into rimming. It's been over a year since I've been indulged in the pleasure so I think it's quite a coincidence considering the topic of this thread.

Quality wasn't as good as my first experiences, but good none the less.

Amen, Miss Vicki!

There is nothing like a nice, clean, piece of a$$ LOL I would love to see the men who like a rimming to get enemas before seeing me. Is this possible???

Mel

So, are any of you providers that love it in Central Florida?
Personally, I really appreciate a provider who enjoys receiving prlonged oral attention. I love to nuzzle in the cleft of a shapely bottom.

.... and the dark and mysterious valley that lies between.

Never been there but have always wanted to go and spend a good amount of quality time. Having become recently single after 27 years this, frankly, is something I'm looking for. I haven't made the plunge yet but I intend to do it.

I was surprised to find myself on Faye Desiree's site two (or is
it three?) years after her death. Faye was a beautiful lady and a
real favorite.