I've had this problem on an in-call. The girl opened the door and I said, "I'm sorry. There must have been and mistake," and I just bolted. These people should be sued for false advertising.
When Newbies ask advice about scheduling an unrated provider….
The forum advice is often “leave this to the more experienced hobbyists”. So, what is the actual consensus of the cognoscenti on this? What do you do when the provider you meet is clearly not as pictured or otherwise advertised? What do you do if it’s an outcall? Do you do the same if it’s an in-call?
I’ll go first on the outcall question: I had the bad experience of two in a row show up at my hotel room that were clearly not the ones pictured in the ads; the differences decidedly not positive. After the first one, I had even asked for extensive verbal guarantees that the girl coming over was the one pictured, to no avail. In both cases, I gave them $40 for cab fare and sent them on their way. The way I look at it, it was $40 too much, but it was worth it to get them out the door.
I've had this problem on an in-call. The girl opened the door and I said, "I'm sorry. There must have been and mistake," and I just bolted. These people should be sued for false advertising.
to just not answer the door. If she gets noisy in the hallway, call hotel security and complain.
Now incall, when the door opens and it not clearly the lady you expect to see, respond "I must have the wrong room/address" and be on your way.
If you are seeing well-reviewed ladies, neither situation should arise.
"Now incall, when the door opens and it not clearly the lady you expect to see, respond "I must have the wrong room/address" and be on your way."
If she is unknown and unreviewed I bring a copy of the providers photo.
If she looks nothing like her photo, I hand her the photo, and tell her I came to see this one.
Its been a few years since I've done that, since I learned it is much more efficient, only visiting well reviewed providers.
Warning: I did have a problem one time, with a pimp a couple doors down who came out and confronted me, when I walked from a bait and switch. I had no choice but to turn it into his problem. YMMV
When I book, I tell them I review on TER. I am what I represent and expect the same. I don't expect pics to be 100% accurate, but I make it clear if they are ten years out of date, I'm not paying for anything. That gets a lot of hangups, but I don't waste my time now. I fell for a bait and switch once and only once. Send the fakes packing.
If you are going to see a lady or a lady is coming to see you makes no difference if the provider is using fake pics why give anything?As long as gentlemen take chances on ladies that they know use fake pics the ladies will keep using them since they figure someone will take a chance regardless if the pics are accurate or not.If your encounter starts off with a different lady than what is advertised it is going to be down hill from there.A lot of ladies take time to post pictures that are accurate and currently reflects what they look like but the ones using fake pics they do not care they know someone will go ahead with the appointment anyway.If the lady is not a true representation of her pics leave or if she is coming to you tell her she misrepresented herself so you will not be wasting anymore of your time.No gas or cab money in my opinion!
The forum advice is often “leave this to the more experienced hobbyists”. So, what is the actual consensus of the cognoscenti on this? What do you do when the provider you meet is clearly not as pictured or otherwise advertised? What do you do if it’s an outcall? Do you do the same if it’s an in-call?
I’ll go first on the outcall question: I had the bad experience of two in a row show up at my hotel room that were clearly not the ones pictured in the ads; the differences decidedly not positive. After the first one, I had even asked for extensive verbal guarantees that the girl coming over was the one pictured, to no avail. In both cases, I gave them $40 for cab fare and sent them on their way. The way I look at it, it was $40 too much, but it was worth it to get them out the door.
Very nicely said! I'm glad a provider weighed in on this question. We all want good experiences and weeding out the bad apples is the only way for this unregulated business to police itself.
You are exactly right, reward bad behavior and the bad behavior continues. B&S means walk away for me.
My take is, since you got me here on false pretense, I don't have to honor my commitment.
The forum advice is often “leave this to the more experienced hobbyists”. So, what is the actual consensus of the cognoscenti on this? What do you do when the provider you meet is clearly not as pictured or otherwise advertised? What do you do if it’s an outcall? Do you do the same if it’s an in-call?
I’ll go first on the outcall question: I had the bad experience of two in a row show up at my hotel room that were clearly not the ones pictured in the ads; the differences decidedly not positive. After the first one, I had even asked for extensive verbal guarantees that the girl coming over was the one pictured, to no avail. In both cases, I gave them $40 for cab fare and sent them on their way. The way I look at it, it was $40 too much, but it was worth it to get them out the door.
More gentlemen do not feel this way I can only speak for Vegas I don't know how many times I have heard "she wasn't the one in the pics"but the lady was still hot so I figured what the hell!That thinking will leave you disappointed,frustrated,and out a whole lot more than if just a little research was done.For the ladies that are trying to establish themselves(I am speaking only for me)it gets to be a little irritating at times.
Just speaking truthfully from my standpoint on this topic!
Something tells me they would have left anyway, maybe even quicker, if you'ld have said:
"I only paying the girl in the photo, and that's not you!"![]()
HalfHour
I just dont understand why guys go through with the appt if they see that the girl is not the one they thought they were getting?? Just leave, you dont need to make an excuse the girl will know why you left. I truly just dont understand why guys go through with a paid appt and then get mad when they dont get what they expected????