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I'd like to take a poll of forum members. I have a reason for asking this, and may have a provider view this thread. Please don't use whatever you may think of me as a basis for your answer. This is a question about what you would do.

Here goes.

You have an appointment with your favorite provider on Friday. Would you post comments using an alias in a thread on her regional forum on the Tuesday before the appointment, and in those comments say really mean, vicious and slanderous things about her?

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MasterZen 33 Reviews 1043 reads
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89Springer 594 reads
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Posted By: 89Springer
I'd like to take a poll of forum members. I have a reason for asking this, and may have a provider view this thread. Please don't use whatever you may think of me as a basis for your answer. This is a question about what you would do.  
   
 Here goes.  
   
 You have an appointment with your favorite provider on Friday. Would you post comments using an alias in a thread on her regional forum on the Tuesday before the appointment, and in those comments say really mean, vicious and slanderous things about her?  

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OhMe!!!! 733 reads
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MarkusKetterman 150 Reviews 1033 reads
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she might think you did :p   some are hypersensitive to the max and also a bit paranoid....

RussianWithLove 849 reads
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It's such a direct and fucked up thing to do/ask.   It's not like conducting a poll about which titty you prefer left or right.

There are malicious people out there who participate in this experience.  Thankfully they are few and far between.  We shouldn't be giving them anymore attention.  Just make an attempt to out them, send a message, and move on.  

I could never imagine a situation to get that upset at a provider.  And if its an ATF that is causing the drama in your life, then maybe its time to find a new ATF.  Its not like you're fucking married to her.  

There are new girls everyday all looking to touch your small penis for dollars.  No need to get so hung up.

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MatureGFE See my TER Reviews 1235 reads
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WickedBrut 27 Reviews 899 reads
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I cannot think of a reason to post anything about an upcoming rendezvous aside from something like, "Today I have a happy-go-lucky feeling because I'm looking forward to a enjoying a terrific evening later this week!"

 
Posted By: 89Springer
I'd like to take a poll of forum members. I have a reason for asking this, and may have a provider view this thread. Please don't use whatever you may think of me as a basis for your answer. This is a question about what you would do.  
   
 Here goes.  
   
 You have an appointment with your favorite provider on Friday. Would you post comments using an alias in a thread on her regional forum on the Tuesday before the appointment, and in those comments say really mean, vicious and slanderous things about her?  

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Fridays117 27 Reviews 943 reads
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keystonekid 114 Reviews 961 reads
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Arovet 62 Reviews 937 reads
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This is obviously the Chi board post from this past Tuesday under the JohnnyAppleseed alias.  I'd sure love to know WTF is going on and why I got dragged into it via PM.  The post was written as if he'd already seen the provider; if it was actually done as you state that is some sick, twisted shit.

1705218 10 Reviews 890 reads
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No, even a hell no

mongo19621954 23 Reviews 895 reads
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Let me guess - somebody posted something that your date did not like; she doesn't believe you posted it.  And so, you would like us to help you out here to prove that you did.

Well -  we'll do our best to make sure you get more drama.   I can think of a number of reasons someone might do such a thing.

1. You might feel like you want to do the white knight thing.  How better to rescue a damsel in distress - than putting her in distress in the first place?

2.  Some like drama - let's call this it the Wife Experience.  If you want a good WE, then obviously you need some conflict to start her off with.

3.  Some like role playing make up sex - gotta have something to fight with before you have make up sex....

4.  Pimping - how do you "protect" a girl, if she doesn't feel threatened to begin with....

I am sure if we think about it hard enough - the guys on the board can come up with a number of ways to prove that you were the guy who posted that stuff.

Glad to help out.  I wouldn't do something like that - but if that's your thing, who am I to judge

cocktail-party 1138 reads
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I'm getting the sense that you're a much more difficult and demanding client than you let on here on the boards.

89Springer 904 reads
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Actually, I'm a very easy client. I let stuff go that other guys would be furious about.

This is a hypothetical, and a poll, not an analysis of me, which I stated at the outset.  
Posted By: cocktail-party
I'm getting the sense that you're a much more difficult and demanding client than you let on here on the boards.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 772 reads
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There's a slight "preferred outcome bias" on how you posed the OP. I wonder if you would have gotten different results had you asked: Would having an upcoming session with a provider prevent you from being brutally honest if a discussion about something she did appeared on the board?

Not saying that the results would NECESSARILY be more accurate, just that maybe some of the same individuals might have given a different response.

cocktail-party 930 reads
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The OP is worded to elicit only one sane response. Not much of a poll if there's no real choice. Are we gonna get the full story, Springer?

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 817 reads
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You're right, but I didn't want to say confirmational bias, because my feeling is that he would have been quite content if there were a few "He'll, yes!" responses mixed in.
 
Could even have started a mangina thread, of guys who habitually put down women taking shots at those who responded as apparently every has on this thread. So far.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1258 reads
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Then have him come see me.  

A review will then pop up that my reviews are way off because I scrape my teeth against the shaft during BBBJ. Hard.



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Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 876 reads
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Obviously I wouldn't teeth his dick - because I would be sure to have him 'accidentally' show up at a really ghetto neighborhood with cash in pocket.

If he tries to play karma for stupid things, why not play back?

Totally wouldn't do that, but it's fun to think about. :D

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89Springer 855 reads
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You will get the full story, and you'll understand why I phrased my question as I did.  

This is a poll to see if anyone would trash a provider he's going to see a few days before the scheduled session, referring to her by name and on her regional forum. Simple as that. I don't expect to see many "yes" responses, but I'm often surprised.

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bonordonor 747 reads
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it would sure make it easier on all of us that just want to be respectful & have fun. I do wish there was a way to weed out the assholes in a more permanent way. (from the p4p biz)

bonordonor 873 reads
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bored stiff! And btw, slut is just below streetwalker. lol

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 995 reads
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There are assholes everywhere, not just in the business. People who want you to fail and people who want you to succeed. Then there are people who simply don't care.

The goal is to surround ourselves with those who want us to succeed and help others succeed. The ones who don't for whatever reason, avoid like the plague. The best way to avoid those people is to cut them off the minute they start to become toxic.

There are poisons out there that kill quickly, and others that kill very slowly. Hopefully we notice the first signs of poison before any significant damage is done.

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bonordonor 860 reads
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If you could invite them into a roach motel where they check in but never check out, wouldn't that be fun?

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neither makes sense. the answer is no. I wouldn't do that.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 1270 reads
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The thought I keep coming around to is how many of the guys who regularly trash the women on these boards would do so if they knew that in a couple of days they'd be in bed with them and hoping for a good performance.

A much different question, really, but it functions on a similar premise.

And...how many women view the trashing these guys give them as proof of superior masculinity, and therefore can't help but do anything and e everything reasonable to get them as a client. That would be interesting.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 1254 reads
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There are games you could play on creeps, but you have to become somewhat creepy to play them.

But--the good news--even avoidance is a move in the game. And a good one.
Posted By: Courtney.Ova
There are assholes everywhere, not just in the business. People who want you to fail and people who want you to succeed. Then there are people who simply don't care.  
   
 The goal is to surround ourselves with those who want us to succeed and help others succeed. The ones who don't for whatever reason, avoid like the plague. The best way to avoid those people is to cut them off the minute they start to become toxic.  
   
 There are poisons out there that kill quickly, and others that kill very slowly. Hopefully we notice the first signs of poison before any significant damage is done.

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If you can't tell the answer is no.

89Springer 857 reads
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Thanks for the replies, everyone. For those who were skeptical about my reasons for this, I'll explain what happened.

Months back I was scheduled to see my favorite provider on Friday. On Tuesday, her name was mentioned in a thread on the regional forum for her city. Someone using an alias I've never seen before started attacking her, calling her all sorts of vicious names and accusing her of some pretty terrible things. As others replied to the attacker's posts, the attacks got worse. I have no idea who the attacker was, or why he/she was doing this. I suspect it was a rival provider, though. The provider I was seeing is I believe the absolute best in the city in every respect, and there's always been somebody trying to knock her down, for years.

Because of the nature of one of the many attack subjects, the provider actually suspected it was me doing the attacking. I tried to explain to her that it was in my best interest to have her calm and happy when I saw her on Friday, not upset. As it turns out, she was still upset, and it ruined my session.  

I've been certain that 99.9% of people would agree that it would be a stupid move to attack someone you're about to see. Might as well take the $1300 and flush it down the toilet.

I still sense that she no longer trusts me as she did before those attacks, and that disappoints me. I'd like to have her trust me again.

Now that there's replies that pretty much echo my sentiments, I may point her to this thread and again remind her that most sane people would not attack the person they're scheduled to see for a session they've been looking forward to very, very much.

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Posted By: 89Springer
I'd like to take a poll of forum members. I have a reason for asking this, and may have a provider view this thread. Please don't use whatever you may think of me as a basis for your answer. This is a question about what you would do.  
   
 Here goes.  
   
 You have an appointment with your favorite provider on Friday. Would you post comments using an alias in a thread on her regional forum on the Tuesday before the appointment, and in those comments say really mean, vicious and slanderous things about her?  

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89Springer 867 reads
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Below is a link to a short article in Psychology Today on what constitutes sociopathic behavior. Maybe MarkusKetterman can give a better explanation. I don't think the provider (or I) meet the qualifications. She's just sensitive to criticism. One might say she's paranoid, but you're not paranoid if they're really out to get you, and she's had many providers try to take her down.

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Posted By: 89Springer
Below is a link to a short article in Psychology Today on what constitutes sociopathic behavior. Maybe MarkusKetterman can give a better explanation. I don't think the provider (or I) meet the qualifications. She's just sensitive to criticism. One might say she's paranoid, but you're not paranoid if they're really out to get you, and she's had many providers try to take her down.

89Springer 947 reads
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No, I was clear at the outset. I said I had a reason for asking, and that I may have a provider look at this. Given some of the characters on this forum, I wasn't certain what the answers would be, but I expected that any rational person would not screw up an appointment by doing something like that.

As for "teaching a lesson", there's no lesson to be taught. Just a reiteration of what I've been saying all along.  

Whether I show this or not is another question. It might be best to let it pass. I did want to see the responses, though.

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Posted By: 89Springer
No, I was clear at the outset. I said I had a reason for asking, and that I may have a provider look at this. Given some of the characters on this forum, I wasn't certain what the answers would be, but I expected that any rational person would not screw up an appointment by doing something like that.  
   
 As for "teaching a lesson", there's no lesson to be taught. Just a reiteration of what I've been saying all along.  
   
 Whether I show this or not is another question. It might be best to let it pass. I did want to see the responses, though.

89Springer 847 reads
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Please explain how I manipulated the forum. Is there any way I could have phrased the original question that would have elicited a "yes" response from anyone? The question is pretty simple: would you do this.  

When I think of sociopath, I think of the outlaw biker who put my brother-in-law in the hospital for three days for absolutely no reason. The biker was just in a bad mood. When I hear "sociopath", I think of Charles Manson or Richard Speck. But a simple question on an internet forum? Sociopath?



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