I am not trying to get into a debate with regard to Providers and Hobbyist and their comparative hygiene habits. I personally shower every morning and usually try to have my hobbying appointments by 10:00 am. But I can't speak for other hobbyist.
However in this instance with this provider, I think I have legitimate concerns.
PP
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I was having a massage the other day with a provider who did fully-nude services and who would also allow you to touch her breasts and buttocks. As I neared a happy ending, to my surprise the provider took my little hatless member between her breasts and finished him off Russian style. The provider gave me a wipey to clean myself and also used one to wipe my little soldiers from her breasts. We got dressed and I prepared to leave.
I know that this lady was going to see other Hobbyist that day. I also know that unless she went somewhere else she was not going to have an opportunity to properly shower because there were no facilities at the particular incall location.
I later read one of this provider's reviews and the Hobbyist talked about kissing and sucking on her breasts.
Now this is gross, but if you were her third or fourth customer of the day and you began to feel and kiss her breasts, how many little soldiers do you think would still be there and whose would they be?
Any suggestions on how I might recommend better hygiene for this young lady considering the lack of shower facilities.
PP
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Sounds like a case of Handi-Wipes might be in order. eom
Pensive Poster,
You certainly make alot of assumptions about this lady. Quote "I know that this lady was going to see other Hobbyist that day. I also know that unless she went somewhere else she was not going to have an opportunity to properly shower because there were no facilities at the particular incall location"
First off, how do you come about the information of her other appointments and their times? Maybe she has plenty of time to freshen up between her appts. In addition, how do you know that shower facilities or the like would not be available to her at the particular incall location? As far as I know most providers are very discreet and do not give out such info.
I will email you more details because I don't want to get specific enough that someone might make a connection to this provider.
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... I think you should be more careful about your choices! If you feel you need to be her first client of the day and you don’t think she cleans up properly between clients, you might want to reconsider your methods of choosing a provider! You're making a choice which could potentially jeopardize your heath... you have to believe you are worth more than that.
Take care,
kisses
Suzanne in San Diego
How do I know that hobbyists shower before I seen them? We're probably cleaner than you think, hon.
Hugs,
Ciara
I am not trying to get into a debate with regard to Providers and Hobbyist and their comparative hygiene habits. I personally shower every morning and usually try to have my hobbying appointments by 10:00 am. But I can't speak for other hobbyist.
However in this instance with this provider, I think I have legitimate concerns.
PP
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He is just a little grossed out by the provider he saw perhaps not keeping personal hygiene standars as high as they might be.... Those who castigate PP for assumptions and perceived biases are missing the point: if his facts are straight, ugh! EOM MA
Yes, PP has some valid concerns, however I asked the questions because his post leads the reader to wonder if he is making assumptions of this lady. Maybe he could politely ask her the next time he sees her about her grooming habits... find out that way. She might be willing to share her tricks of the trade and calm his fears.
By the way PP, I can't recieve PM's or email on TER, but you are always welcome to email me through my site anytime sweety!
I know that I won't shower in front of a client unless he showers with me. I might be paranoid but I don't want him going through my purse or leaving my incall while I am in the shower leaving the door partially open or ignoring him until he is out the door. I even walk with some of my clients to their car to say goodby and tell them I am going somewhere when I am actually going back to my incall the fix up.
too much info isn't good for a client
you are going back to the incall
One of your secrets is out
I am willing to broach the subject with this provider and take the bullet if my assumptions are incorrect. Truthfully, I hope I am wrong. But until I know for sure if I see her again, I plan to be the first appointment of her day.
So that said, I am just looking for a little direction ladies.
PP
We're saying: Don't assume. If you're curious, ask her. By your post you didn't say whether she showered or not. You're just assuming. She probably wiped herself off temporarily before she could get into the shower. By the way, most sanitized wipes are better than soap but dry the skin out. Wink!
Hugs,
Ciara
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me everytime I go to see a provider. I have NO PROBLEM with wiping down a woman's chest, breasts and other parts.
Better safe than sorry ... and it would also be a lot of fun.
TOMC
Questionable there.... but stuff happens. Don't know what to say, yea - kinda gross, but CDC reports that the alcohol based wipes are better than 95% effective in killing stuff on the bod.
I am not too worried about that... I worry more about other things... especially if I know that they are using the appropriate disinfectant wipe... hey, at least she used one! I know, it is just the thought! and here is one for you.... the water in your tap....
usually after I had partaken of the fruits.
PP
After every single girl finished her "routine" of spinning on the pole (including rubbing most of her anatomy against said pole), they would spray it down with some liquid from a non-descript spray bottle and wipe it down with paper towels. It took around a minute between each woman to do it.
It was funny to watch a naked woman cleaning the pole after she had practically fucked it with the lights up and no music playing.
I saw a lady a couple of years ago who went to the bathroom to get me a warm washcloth. In the mirror, I happened to see her wipe herself thoroughly first while she thought she was out of sight, and return to the room to offer me the same washcloth, slightly cooler.
There was some ambivalence, since I had been at the Y anyway, but on the whole not preferable.
Hey, we're all human, and sometimes we all take shortcuts, especially when we think no one is watching. What was that about character is what we do when we think we're alone?
the reason she wiped herself thoroughly, wasn't that it was her after appointment cleaning habit, but because maybe she doesn't like spooge or spit to dry on her, or dislikes the feeling on her. Maybe she did it when she thought you weren't looking because she didn't want to offend you (like wiping off your face after a kiss on the cheek).
As to the first poster in the thread, I don't know if the lady went elsewhere or not, any more than you do. But when you say NO Facilities, does that mean absolutely no way to clean herself? No bathroom, no shower, no sink? and if so I would assume she would have to go elsewhere if for no other reason to occassionally urinate. As to her wipng off her breasts at the time with a moistened cloths, again that doesn't mean that is all she does, it might just be what she does immediately to keep the spooge from drying on her, or she may not like the feeling of your "soldiers" on her anymore than you would like someone else's second hand via her breasts, so she wipes it off right after you are done, and then goes elsewhere to clean herself better.
If you really believe all she does is the moistened towelettes then I don't really see too much of an issue for you, either don't see her again, or if you like her service enough be her first client...but if she is that dirty and unconcerned about what is on her throughout a whole day, maybe she has something from her SO or the day before on her forst appointment... *smirk*
I've always assumed that providers are reasonably finicky about personal hygiene; the ones I've seen have all been, although they might not have been as focused on keeping the place neat and tidy. I also assume that they don't like being messy and sticky any more than I do, and they'll figure out a way to clean up, even if it's just popping over to the gym for a "workout" and a shower.
If you're really that freaked-out about someone else's "little soldiers", you might consider that she'll kiss you with the same mouth that she might have done a BBBJTC with. Frankly, I don't get bent out of shape about it, and unless I can actually taste something that I don't want to taste, I don't worry about who or what has been there already.