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Re:YMMV
megapig 4306 reads
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You're right Eric ...

Sometimes it is the hobbyist that brings more to the table than than they think:  Bad breath, cheesey smells and bad attitudes are much more common things that we bring to the table than you'd probably suspect ... er .. ah ... um .. at least, that's what I've been told... that just HAVE to turn the girl off.

I LIKE the mixed review providers!  It tells me that they at least react to me as an individual .. and not merely the next 'hon' that knocks on their door.   It means that if I treat them fairly and courteously like I would treat any other business person that I run into, I can expect the same kindness in return.

But with that SAID ... it's a good idea to toss out the lowest review (assume he was a jerk and deserved a bad session) and toss out the highest (assume he's a toady looking to somehow gain her undying devotion) and look at the rest as an average.

Also .. check out the other reviews by the hobbyist.   How many 10's does he give?  I mean .. if a 10 is defined as "once in a lifetime"  (yes, I'm sure I read that somewhere) that should sort of mean that NO ONE gets one doesn't it?   Or maybe the reviewer himself only gets to GIVE one in a lifetime, doesn't it?

I read reviews; some are good, some are bad.  What piques my curiosity is that sometimes these good and bad reviews are for the same provider!  One review basically depicts a provider as the next best thing since sliced bread, and the very next one makes me think I'd be better off doing the Wicked Witch of the East, bareback.  I understand the concept of YMMV but was looking for some feedback.

I read some of the bad reviews and wonder, "Hey, dude.  Did you ever stop and think that maybe she just laid there because your heinous?" So, my question is this:  to what degree does a client's looks, and personality I guess, influence a provider's treatment of that client or her attitude during the appointment?  I used to think, "It's your friggin' job.  If you don't enjoy it, at least pretend that you do.", but I've realized that chemistry is important even in this setting.

Your thoughts, please.

My interactions tell me that the man’s treatment of a Lady GREATLY influences her response.  The best evidence I can point to is the numerous times I have met a Lady for the first time and she would start with one level of warmth/personal interaction, and depending on how I behaved, she would change.  If I got upset, she got more distant.  If I treated her nicely (I’m not talking about fancy gifts, etc.), she acted nicely.

Of course, sometimes people just don’t click, and other times we have preconceived expectations of looks, attitude, or whatever, that just not survive contact with reality.

Wow, nothing different than in “real life” I guess.

(And then, unfortunately, there seem to be posts, good or bad, that have ulterior motives)

Sorry, I wasn’t referring to you at all.  I was commenting on (obviously unclearly) the reviews that just don’t track:  a Lady has 14 great write-ups and then one guy who rips her about everything.  I’ve even seen one Lady I personally have seen, all 4’(‘ & 90 lbs of her, described by a reviewer as “slobbingly overweight”.  Or the woman who is consistently written up as a rip-off who gets a 10/10 review.

Again, sorry for not making my comment clear.

"Hey, dude.  Did you ever stop and think that maybe she just laid there because your heinous?"

Well, I seriously doubt she will whisper in your ear, YMMVH.
YMMVH= You Make Me Very Horny...unless of course she's a klingon.
Sorry, couldn't resist....I had Star Trek on my mind from the
above topic on the muff discovery channel.

Cheers! Warp speed Scotty!

megapig4307 reads

You're right Eric ...

Sometimes it is the hobbyist that brings more to the table than than they think:  Bad breath, cheesey smells and bad attitudes are much more common things that we bring to the table than you'd probably suspect ... er .. ah ... um .. at least, that's what I've been told... that just HAVE to turn the girl off.

I LIKE the mixed review providers!  It tells me that they at least react to me as an individual .. and not merely the next 'hon' that knocks on their door.   It means that if I treat them fairly and courteously like I would treat any other business person that I run into, I can expect the same kindness in return.

But with that SAID ... it's a good idea to toss out the lowest review (assume he was a jerk and deserved a bad session) and toss out the highest (assume he's a toady looking to somehow gain her undying devotion) and look at the rest as an average.

Also .. check out the other reviews by the hobbyist.   How many 10's does he give?  I mean .. if a 10 is defined as "once in a lifetime"  (yes, I'm sure I read that somewhere) that should sort of mean that NO ONE gets one doesn't it?   Or maybe the reviewer himself only gets to GIVE one in a lifetime, doesn't it?

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