To request to a provider to use the female condom?

no

However, you may want to give her a heads up prior to your meeting.  Not all providers have them and they are not available at all stores.

I personally offer them to my clients and some of them try them and love them and some choose to stick to regular condoms.

SINfully sinthia

I'll keep that in mind sinful........

Not at all, but I agree, you need to either provide one, or make sure she has a heads up in advance!