Usually I post only on the politics board however, Im really really intrigued by one question!!  Ladies, I would love to hear a sincere answer to this question from all of you out there.  I have a male friend who pretty much could get laid any time he wanted to.  To this day I have not met a woman who finds him anything less than gorgeous.  He started joking and said he should charge women to have sex with me so I can make money at the same time as getting laid.  
  I said that pretty much no woman would ever hire a male escort!! So we both start to talk and became very curious as to why it is that a woman simply would not hire male escorts.  Im just thinking to myself that if the demand was there, the supply would be as well!!
  Im certainly not one to claim that I understand women well at all but this question really really made me curious.  I would love the opinions of all you lovely ladies out there.  

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...so somebody must be hiring...a few state they will see ladies only so either they have another job or there are women out paying...but I am also curious to see if there are any responses.

wouldn't if I felt the need. I would say most Ladies wouldn't pay, as it is much easier for them pick up a man anywhere. IMO

Not, sure there would be a big demand for women, but more for the gay men.

Just my opinion,
Kelly~

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Its true...women have it easy, lol, when it comes to that.



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Yes, I've considered hiring a male escort.  In fact, I found this site when I got the idea to look for one.  Haven't done anything about it yet, though.

A while ago I went on a trip to Vegas and it was while I was there that I got the idea.  I suppose it's because the whole sex thing is so in your face there (pun intended).

Anyway, I got back and looked at the internet.  I quickly learned that this site is for men looking for women escorts, but I continue to check it out because I find the posts entertaining.  When I checked out the male escorts on places like Eros, it left me in a quandary.  I'm not sure that I'd trust the escorts to be straight, even if they claim to be, and I don't want to be with a guy who is bi or gay.  

As far as looks are concerned, I'm not actually interested in someone who is THAT good-looking.  You see, I'd probably want to have dinner or something in the first instance (getting to know you sort of thing) and I wouldn't feel comfortable if I was with someone who was either a generation younger than me and/or male model material.  I wouldn't want to look or feel ridiculous in his company.  Does that make sense?  On the other hand I don't want someone who looks like Quasimodo!  

Why do I want to do this?  I'm a married, professional woman in her 40s.  I'd like a more active sex life but I don't want to get embroiled in an affair - been there, done that and it was a painful disaster.  I don't have the nerve - or the lifestyle - or even the inkling - to be a provider myself.  The concept is a bit of a fantasy, but one of those fantasies that is best played out in my head.  The idea of a male escort is a much more practicable one.  If I'd had the opportunity to do this, I might well have taken the plunge by now.  Like everyone else around here, I wouldn't like to go into it blind, and don't really know where to start.

BTW, this isn't the first time I've seen this question raised, but it's the first time I've gathered up the nerve to respond.

...I wouldnt, unless I knew I couldnt find exactly what I wanted in someone else. He would have to have something pretty special about him for me to consider it even, just because I like sex, and for me work is enough-- Im not going to trun around and go give my money to someone "just because"....

I do know though for a fact that some ladies do; I have a friend of mine that I hooked up with some ads and other things and he has told me he has gotten ladies, young and attractive ones at that. True his majority of calls are men, and even couples, but he has gotten two girl calls for thier first threesome, he has gotten nodage and cuckold calls, and all sorts of crazy (but fun) things...

SO I guess what Im trying to say is it does happen....

Like you I am also a lady in my forties, not an escort either.  Several factors would stop me.  Yes, being in my forties I wouldn't want to look ridiculous, I don't have an escort's body that's for sure!  Shouldn't I, as a reasonably attractive women, be able to get guys easily without having to pay them?  With men, that doesn't seem at all wrong; with women, I think it seems kinda sad?  It's a whole different world out there for women when it comes to sex I think - unfortunately so.  If I were not married, I might try it, but it would take many a stiff drink to make that phone call!!!  It's a great fantasy though, no doubt about it.  Just my two cents.

If I ever found myself in a situation where I thought I could not find interesting, physically pleasing, no-strings-attached, company, yes, I'd consider an escort. Male or female, since I go both ways actively. I don't date, at all, since I found that most people consider dating to be a forerunner to a relationship and I have no interest at all in a relationship that extends into anything more complicated than general friendship. I'm not sure how much I'd be willing to pay, I guess I'd cross that bridge when I came to it.

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A woman told me once that she thought women hire a male escort for the companionship (going out on the town, etc.) moreso than for sex, whereas it seems to be the opposite for men.

Very articulate, honest and interesting comments.  Thankyou for contributing.

As far as not knowing where to start, I have a suggestion.  It seems that (some) men in this community might be a good match - looking for a more active sex life, with no strings, just like you.  You might want to consider this:  Create a (free) email account and post it here.  You will get a number of messages (I guarantee it!) and you can selectively begin a dialog and if you feel comfortable, perhaps hook up.  Another idea is hang out in the chat room.  I think this community might have what you're looking for. (and vice versa

Now that you've taken the plunge, I hope you will continue to post here.

Cheers, and best of luck...
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In a provider's situation, it would seem to be a little silly to pay for a mail escort, if that is what you mean. I think one of the benefits for providers is that they sometimes can have sex with men they really like and get paid, too.  Why pay a man for something unknown when occassionally you can get paid for a known? This is, of course, assuming that providers occasionally have more than a professional affection for some clientws.

Now, other women?  I think WWKelly has it right: I think the males on Eros are actually for other males.

Hell everyone,

I haven't posted in a while, but thought I could give a sincere answer to this question. If there were a serious market for it I think an attractive guy could make a career of it if he kept it simple. "Yes" I would hire a guy who was interested in dating women or men in private or public. Some women are seeking company outside of marriage for pleasure or business functions.  Some mens would like to experience a mfm or S&M experience. Some men have a queer eye for the straight guys. I have been in this business for 3 years and found several gentleman who have interest in it and trusted me enought to want me to set it up. Personally I can not handle two males at one time. "smile"



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Thanks so much for your advice, Linkmeister, and your good wishes.

I did originally consider posting on the ISO board, but was deterred by the realisation that no straight male escorts had any presence hereabouts.  

Basically, I didn't want to do the wrong thing and pi$$ people off here for doing something that was outside the bounds of what the site is supposed to be about.  I've never participated in chat for similar reasons.  

Some might say that this should teach me something, I suppose, but I don't think the dearth of women such as myself is because we're not looking around or contemplating the possibilities.  It's more a case, I suspect, that those who do so deal with it in a different way.  

Anyhow, thanks for your e-address - I'll drop you a line when I have my account set up.

It happenes all the time . Professional women with no attachments need a " date " for going out ( opera , theater etc )
and not nesserly sex . Giggloes have filled this need for many years . Of course there are now " stud services ".

I'm assuming you are seeking female companionship? Why else would you be on this board. If that's the case, why not ask one of the female escorts if she has a recommendation of a straight male... maybe a threesome could develop. I guess it all depends on how much you trust the female escort and of course if my assumption is correct!!!

During a recent trip to Dallas with several female colleagues (all over 40 and single), this subject came up as a very attractive women walked into the bar with a much younger albeit very professional man. Of course the ladies starting speculating as to whether he was a male escort or not.

During the course of this conversation (after several drinks), I was advised that their is an underground male escort service that caters to professional women (particularly those that travel a lot). These guys are between the age 25-45 and are all college educated and hold numerous other credentials. They charge by the evening, weekends or entire weeks at a time and see nothing but women. I was then told that most of these guys are very well off financially and have all of those things which most of us consider luxuries.

I was also told that you must book at least 30 days in advance and all payments are done in advance via wire transfer. Obviously, they are very selective in who they will see and it is only by recommendation from a current member of this elite club. They are located primarily in North America and have some affiliates in Europe. You can only access their website if you have the native IP address, after you are provided with a password through some other method.

The ladies seem to think that these guys were busy and making money faster than the U.S. Treasury, there appears to be a large demand for their company.

I did not think it was appropriate to ask any of the ladies if they had indulged (I suspect they may have), but as I thought about it, there are approximately over 1,000 females in my company who are in Sr. Mgmt. and travel extensively, additionally over 65% of them are either single or divorced and all of them are over 35, with the majority of them over 40.

This may be a bigger market then most of us think, the difference is women keep there indiscretions very quiet.

If I was 30 years younger, and had the body of Arnold and the brains of Bill Gates.

After the first call, it is pretty easy.  Glad to talk about it further if either of you want to back channel me.

(bad pun) we don't have to!   Men are easier than women and also have a higher drive of hunt, conquer, sex and reproduce.

Male companions usually get 99.5% of biz from men

Can't agree with you on this one Elle. Yes men are easier than women, they're also controlling, jealous, insecure etc. etc. That's part of the problem.

There are literally tens of thousands of professional, powerful and financially secure women in the workplace, most of them over 35, and more than half of them divorced. To assume that they are going to have sex with some underling, or get involve with some office gofer (who may or may not be able to get it up), is not a good assumption.

You are discounting an entire population of woman who just want no strings attached, discreet, orgasmic sex. And that doesn't even count the millions of housewives who are getting no satisfaction at home. The last results I saw (about 2 months ago), indicates that somewhere between 40% - 50% of married women are having an affair. While I not implying that they are paying for it, a market certainly has been created. And the market for professional women who travel extensivly is much larger than you can possibly imagine.

It's like anything else, you'd be surprised at the number of women who are willing to pay for no strings attached sex. Why should they be any different than men. They have both the money, and the resources, I work with them everyday.

It may not be advertised, and they certainly don't have a website like this, but I can guarantee you, it is a booming  business that generates a lot of revenue.