By largest, I mean weight wise. What do you consider large? If a large man comes to see you, do you fake or rush your way through the session?
How about the guys are you or do you consider yourself large, ok fat?

I'm 5'10", 250 lbs.  I am a pretty big guy, but have had no problems with any providers in that respect.

But, that's a good question.  Providers?

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Fat, thin, tall, short, black, white, young, old, handsome or ugly it doesn't matter to me at all.  As long as they are clean, respectful and kind I treat them well and enjoy the session. Attitude matters most for the providor as well as the client.  

To answer your question, the largest client I have been with was nearly 500 pounds (about 6'3 tall) and a true gentleman. I enjoyed our time together very much.

Don't know why I am curious about this.But,I am. hehe
What is the oldest gentlemen,that any of you have seen?

The only thing a large person maybe limited to, are certain activities performed. A large man can still be sexy fun and a great conversationalist. Just as the men say about us.. as long as your nice clean and fun why does it matter?
I would not decline someone or rush them through their time, unless it were someone extermely rude. (In which case I would tie them up and spank them until they learned some manners...)

It was a joke : )
xoxo
Mo Jo

The heaviest client that I have seen was about 5'6 tall, and about 400 pounds.
I thought he was nice and a gent, and we had a great time. The funny thing is later, he went ahead and posted a review( good one) on me, in which he mentioned that I was a little bit heavy! lol
I don't know why he did that( I'm 5'8, 125), I guess it makes him feel good about himself.

I read some of his other reviews and sais that about pretty much everyone he sees. lol

To answer your other question, as long as the person is clean, well groomed, and a gentlman, his weight will not be a problem for me.

I don't know how much that would be in pounds. One man was probably 6'3 and the other 6'. I'm only 5'4..

No problems. You just adjust. Hey, where there's a will, there's a way, right?

The only thing I might say is one man didn't know his own strength and tossed me around like a sack o'tators and when you have that much weight pounding you hard, well, easy guys..I was sore for days..

No Alias needed

He was about 6'1" and weighed 550lbs if he weighed an ounce. He literally had to walk sideways to get thru the door and even that came with difficulty.

He originally booked a 2 hour date. At first glance I was not sure how that was going to work and then the date ended up being 7 hours long. Between the talking, the oral (both physical and intellectual) stimulation, we both seriously lost track of time. I will always remeber him as one of my most favorite dates.

Being a large woman myself, I have never looked down my nose at any gent who was large in stature that wanted to see me. My only qualm and this goes for hardbody clients also, is cleanliness.  My love is a large man and I love every part of him and I realized that its not the physical but the mental and emtional.

just my .02

xoxox
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I have seen alot of large men....being a large gal myself they tend to feel a little more comfortable scheduling with me(meaning they don't feel like they will break me or hurt me.)

I try to treat all my friends the same never based on their size, shape, color, ect. (of course there are those few special clients.)

Depending on the size of the man sometimes he is limited in what he can do but we always find fun alternatives.~Smile~ Chrissy

Speaking only for myself, I'm a short and fat guy (5'8" and 230 lbs.).  I know this and don't kid myself.

I do enjoy spending time with a beautiful and intelligent woman.  Cleanliness, scented candles, great conversation and massage oil are always at the top of my list....

This has been something that has bothered me. Not to put anyone down, but I am only 220# and people call me fat! Then again, it is all mostly belly.

Ladies, considering both men would have attractive features, do you have a preference to either (say big belly or overall big person)? Im not saying providers are not women, I would just like to know this from a civilian womans perspective not a providers. I guess you could say a non-business opinion, did that come out right?

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Do YOU feel that you're fat? Do YOU like the way you look?
Weight is just a number. It's the size and how comfortable you are in your clothes that determines whether you're fat or not.

Health and appearance are two different things. Good health is what's important - eating right, getting the right amount of exercise, etc. A pleasing appearance is often the byproduct of good habits, but sometimes appearance gets more of the attention than good health and we focus on the wrong thing.

If you can improve, then do so for yourself, not for anybody else. We'll love ya just the way you are.

In my personal life, I like my man to have a 'tummy' - not a big, overhanging belly, but a nice tummy. A 'six-pack' while really hot to look at, is less fun to hold and cuddle. But that's completely MY OPINION.

Thanks Sedona. Guess Im the type of guy your into. Too bad most woman dont think that way.
I really dont feel fat or look it, just the belly thing thats all. Back in my youth, I was very physically fit. Age and other factors have limited my physical activity since then. I know that exercise will help that. At least thats what everyone reminds me of.

Because of the women I had been seeing, I decided to go on an exercise regiment to make myself seem less conscious of my body.  I was never what one would consider fat, but I certainly could've used some renovation.

I have had a couple of ladies comment on my improved physique which, even if they were just BSing me, made me feel like the work was worth it and provide more motivation to continue.

That is one of the positive results (aside from the obvious ones) that I've gotten from this hobby.

Naturally, being a provider means we are conscious of our appearance and I do watch what I eat.
In the first 5 years of the nineties I had gotten into bodybuilding, was a vegetarian, and worked nights so I could have the regimen that I did during the day..but

NOW I have to squeeze in whatever I can! LOL!

I remember a civvie friend of mine who was divorced and single for a number of years when she made this comment. She begun dating someone - had maybe two dates with him - when I heard this long sigh coming from her 'cube'. So, I went over to see what was up. She looked at me and said " I just realized that this means I have to start shaving again..!" We both burst out laughing!

I had weight loss surgery and went from the low 300s to 180 (where I am today).  I'm 6'2''.   Health wise, I would suggest this is a viable alternative to any person who is more than 100lbs overweight.  I am also very physically fit.  No 8-pack (it isn't a 6 pack, but an 8-pack), but that is due to some residual loose skin from the surgery that hasn't shrunk back.  I recommend this to anybody on the post who know they are more than 100 lbs overweight.  The health benefits are enormous and the benefits FAR ourweigh the risks (from the risk analysis guy).   One very good indication of the safety and benefits is that your med insurance will almost always pay for it:  is isn't like an elective surgery and they know that the cost of the surgery will be returned in the reduced health costs later in life. There is a version of the surgery that minimizes scaring.   PM me if you have more specific questions.  Harry.

there are a few who will be undergoing that surgery, or contemplating it.

I'm sure you can offer some good advice based on your experience!

Sedona,

I'm glad you don't mind us short, fat guys.

XO

People aren't BAD when they are seriously overweight, people are sicker than they have to be and they die earlier than they might have otherwise.  It is worth taking serious moves to fix problems when they endanger your health and your life.  Your health problems when you are seriously overweight put you at much higher risk than anything you do when you hobby.

One nice side effect (often noticed) is that your penis grows an additional 2-5 inches in length (guys only).  I have heard stories about the highly increased sensitivity of the clitoris, but I cannot verify it....Harry

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We love ya all just like you are! And, of course, when it comes to the gentlemen, we have no preferences, other than the clean, gentlemanly, kind, fun ones!

However, in my personal life, I am not into rock hard abs, but wanna feel some 'tummy'. Gotta be hugable!

So THAT'S where it went!

>One nice side effect (often noticed) is that your penis grows >an additional 2-5 inches in length (guys only).

Reammit, so all this working out was for nothing?

I pretty much stay with women who make me want to get better.  It has been tremendously motivating for me to get myself in shape for them.  I'm probably in the best shape of my life.  I'm even picking up civilian women on occasion simply becuz my body is in such great shape.  The sad thing is that I find most civilian women quite lacking in the sex department.  Can't beat the pros!!  And so much easier to deal with!!