I have read about many providers offering or requesting the guy takes a shower at their place ,but I worry (if I don't know the provider well)that they might take some money or credit cards out of my wallet, or might swipe my handheld organizer. What do most guys do,take these with them into the bathroom, or take a chance by leaving them in another room? I appreciate your responses.

If your that concerned about something like worrying about your wallet, then you haven't done your research. Any lady that you spend time with should have checked out your references. You should have as well. Check her reviews here,
if she is well reviewed, then she is not going to jeopardize her reputation by stealing anything from. Also, don't be foolish and take any thing with you that you don't need, ie: hand-held organizers, extra credit cards, the fifth condom that you have been carrying around since high school. Just kidding. If you have done your work carefully, just as she has, this should not become an issue. I am not saying that it hasn't, or won't happen, just be careful. If all else fails, bring a couple of ziplock bags and bring your stuff in the shower with you.

If you are that afraid of us, take up stamp collecting.

Do you honestly think the pocket change I might get from swiping your wallet can be compared in value to the time and work it took to first a reputation as a legitimate provider, and maintain that reputation???

Don't get me wrong, those things happen. But your post lumped every single woman into a single category, and labelled all of us as potential theives, who can't be trusted with the material jewels, but are good enough to take care of the family jewels.

We aren't all alike, and thank God for wonderful sites like TER that allow the cream to rise to the top, while shining the spotlight on those who can't be trusted around your valuables.

Try shoving the wallet up your ass.

Have a nice day.

here is a solution .... leave your clothes and your electronics in the bathroom then lock and shut the door during your shower.

xo Lisa

Why bring your wallet and handheld in the first place?  Leave them locked up in your vehicle.  All you really need is the donation and maybe some ID if it's your first visit.

causes you to worry about this, then you're already screwed.

On the couple of occasions that I have taken a chance with an agency girl (where I KNEW I was taking a chance) the pants went into the bathroom with me.

On the other hand, last week in Vegas I gave a couple of ladies my extra room key for their collection without any qualms at all.

Depends...

I have a couple of providers that i see every now and then and i trust them with my eyes. Nevertheless, i have never gone in their incall place with my wallet or cell/blackberry. I will leave everything in my car. All i take is the envelop and some chocolates. Do your homework is the keyword

Reepends...

Thanks for your replies (the helpful ones, at least). I certainly didn't mean to lump all girls together as not being honest, but I've been ripped off occasionally over the years, and it just takes one bad experience to make you more careful. I once met a lady on CL and while she was massaging my face with her tits,her roommate must have come in and swiped around $150 from my wallet (she introduced me to her roommate on the way out, but I only noticed the $ missing after I was in my car, and I just let it go). Another time, I had my car broken into near a somewhat seedy motel in Hollywood(luckily, I had my wallet with me). Well, thanks for your ideas.

Reepends...

I am reminded of an old parable I once heard....

A man encounters a snake trapped beside a river that is flooding. The snake needs to get to the other side of the river, but if he gets in the water, he will drown. The snake asks the man to bear him safely across the river. The man says to the snake "But you are a snake. If I pick you up, you will bite me." The snake assures him that if the man takes him to safety, he will not bite him. So the man picks up the snake and carries him across the river.

As the man is reaches the other side, the snake suddenly comes to life in his arm, and lashes out and bites the man. Now safely on the other side of the river, the man laid on the river bank, and with his dying breath says to the snake "I carried you to safety, why did you bite me?"

The snake shrugs and replies "I am a snake. It is my nature. You knew that when you picked me up."

If you find your potential companion somewhere like CL, then do not be surprised if you are scammed or ripped off. If that is where you found an ad for a lady, then be grateful if the worst thing that happens is to find a lady who doesn't look quite like the grainy, camera phone pic that accompanied her ad. That is the nature of CL, by now you should know that. So if you are bitten, who's fault is that?

As you said in your post - be cautious. Do your homework. Check for reviews. If she gives you an incall address for a "seedy motel" - don't GO. Tell her you forgot that today was the day you need to floss your cat, and that you'll have to cancel, and move on until you find a woman who ISN'T located in a part of town where you are afraid to walk around without a bullet proof vest.

Reepends...

I would say this to you, if your so damn worried DO NOT SEE ANY PROVIDERS.

Go buy a family size jar of vasiline and take the matter in hand.

Hey end result is you still cum.  You have no worry about anyone stealing your last penny.

Sorry but you sound more like one not to be trusted.

For sure you never do any homework, I mean parking in Hollywood CA is one of the highest crime area's around and most of those motels are known for street girl hourly rental.

There are some true Providers but I doubt most would chose a Hotel in Hollywood.

Sorry but I think you asked for it and for sure insulted the good Providers here, they told you what to do with your penny so bend over and do it.

and scrub my back then I will scrub your.............. I find starting in the shower to be quite enjoyable so if I am sending you to the shower when you get there chances are you will not be alone.

Reepends...

it is rare, but i have been ripped off by a ter very well rated provider

i decided to just let it go- i wanted to post, but she brags about how close she is to the ter management- and since she knows where i live and (obviously) was not a classy lady- i just didnt want to take the chance

I find that I post this general thought time to time here.  SHE let you into her room, her incall place...she just took the biggest chance compared to your wallet left in your pants.  Take your shower with the door open, but don't insult her by showing immediate mistrust.  Anyhow, never had a problem...oh yes, once when I left a very nice cashmere sweater with a provider and it was a kick trying to connect up so that she could give it back to me.  



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