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GLisHJ 4480 reads
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For the exchange of money for sex to be a win-win, both parties have to think that they are getting a good deal, but convince the other party that they are also getting a good deal.

The men have to feel that sex is worth more than money, but act like they think money is a big deal.

The women have to feel that money is worth more than sex, but act like they think sex is a big deal.

Yeah, yeah, I know it's oversimplified as stated above.  Just my observation.

Met a fascinating person that does this simply because she likes sex.  Has a day job, earns good money, and while the $$$ are nice, she's divorced and 30 something.  

Her dates are:  50+ year old guys who aren't interested in second families, 40+ year old guys who have 2+ kids aged 5-17, and 30+ guys yearning to date 20 year olds.  

So in the meantime, she acts like the money is important, but sex is really the big deal.  Every situation is unique.

Anya4991 reads

Actually, my zen-ish theory is that the exchange of money for sexual services is really an illusion, because sex isn't a commodity, and as a "service" it actually depends entirely on the chemistry between the two individuals.

So in other words, grasshopper, none of this is actually happening....

-Anya

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