This is more of a vent but at the same time, I'd like to get some feeback from any providers if they don't mind.

I contacted this provider back in July.  After going through countless emails for about a month with her assistant, I finally nailed down a time/day that was convenient for both parties.  I was told in her last email to me that she would phone me the day of the appointment to give me the room number and location of her hotel.  When that day came and went and I heard nothing, I got on the phone and left a message asking why I was blown off.  A few hours after that call, I received an email apologizing for the ommittance on their part with the reason being they got me confused with someone else with a similar name. Then, the next day the provider actually called me at work and apologized herself.  And I was told I would be sent courtesy emails in the future when she would be visiting NY again.

She came back a few times and I wasn't able to find a time/day until last week. I was supposed to meet with her last night after going through the same process giving out all my personal information to their liking.  Well, last night never happened as once again I never heard from either the assistant of provider.
Fed up with playing f$$$ing games, I didn't even bother to waste my time getting on the phone again.

Is there some kind of screening process providers go through and decide at the last minute to blow someone off if they don't find the other party suitable for whatever reason?  All I know is, I'm safe, clean and my money is real.

Seems to me, your reviews say it all...Either you're making bad choices in Providers and should do your homework, while being more selective, or you're someone who has unrealistic expectations that can't ever be met, if it's the latter, this companion and her assistant are lucky they missed you. No quality Provider would intentionally(sp) overlook you unless there was a good reason...

Well, NJ, my question would be what made you select her in the first place? Her stellar reviews? All the good feedback you've heard about her? In looking at your three reviews, it seems your selection found you somewhat disappointed.
I'm sorry she was flakey - any number of things could be the cause. I'd chalk it up to a learning experience, and seek out well reviewed ladies, and in particular focus on the things of importance to you. Don't be afraid to do your homework.
It will definitely be worth your while..then let us know all about your success!

Warmest regards,
Sedona

Its bad enough that they back out after an agreement but what bothers me the most is not contacting me.  Of course I'll be disappointed but at least I can try to make other arrangements.  Incidents like this make you appreciate the really great women that are out there!  What comes around goes around.

I have heard similar stories, although the 2 times I booked NYC visitors I had no problem at all.  Be that as it may, perhaps they had a better offer and simply put, blew you off for more $$, a longer session, someone they already knew, etc.  Not that I would wish this behavior on you or anyone else, I think that your experience is just one of the pitfalls of booking visiting providers.

I am sorry this happened to you, but wouldn't take it personally in that it is something about you.  There are many reasons she could have done what she did.  It just reads to me as if it is very, very poor management on her part.  If she is a popular lady or it is busy at times, it does get tricky in juggling the schedule.  It is the only logical explanation I can come up with.

I myself have been guilty of a poopah or two during hectic times, we are human, but twice, sounds a bit overboard and am amazed that she did not offer to make it up to you in some way or even realized the mistake.  

To speculate further, tours are quite risky from what I understand.  I haven't toured myself, but there have been countless times in which I have heard horror stories of ladies booking only to be stood up themselves and sitting alone and waiting for someone to arrive.  The costs on touring can hurt a great deal.  In order to alleviate the risk, she may have been double booking for her own assurances and unfortunately ended up losing an upstanding gent in that process.

Another possibility is that she may know you.  It is the one and only time that I did the unthinkable and stood someone up.  I had set the appointment and when I finally got to speak with him on the phone, I realized that I did know him.  I did not know how to handle it.  I was afraid to speak with him again for fear that he would recognize my voice too.  I felt awful about it and it still bothers me to this day.  He never did try to contact me again, and wonder if he realized it too because of it.  But had he, I would not of set another appointment, but come up with anything to let him know that I could not see him.

We are human and make mistakes, but given the business aspect, we should be professional enough to not let someone hang out in the wind.

Lauren