Is weight an issue with any of the providers. I am a very sensual guy with a giving attitude, but overweight. If I am squeaky clean, intelligent, and sweet, are there providers out there who will change their routine drastically if i'm overweight?

If you are squeaky clean, intelligent, and sweet, I will guarantee that you'll have the time of your life in this hobby.

Hmmm I am always clean and polite... but I have never rubbed anything to see if it squeaked

I leave that job for the Lady LOL

Just be squeaky clean and ready for fun, in most cases you will not have a problem.

Hugs*
Tamara

It's not an issue for the professional providers (although from what I hear, they could double their money if they charged by the pound).

You'll mainly see that problem in the amatuer (or as I call them the Princess Providers) that believe that you and all your fellow Hobbyists exist for the sole purpose of making their rent payments for them.

I've said it before and I'll say it again.  I don't mind a bit.  It really has to do with your own attitude.  The only time weight has been an issue for me in my professional and private life is when it makes my partner so uncomfortable with himself that he stops feeling sensual/sexual.

This is a non issue for most providers. If you haven't already, but yourself a VIP membership to TER, do some homework to find a provider who has reviews you like, as well as the looks you like ... and be honest when you contact her. Honest, and not ashamed or afraid ... be clean, be on time, be polite ... you'll have more fun than you ever thought possible.

I'm 5'8", 419 lbs. (God I can't wait for my gastric bypass) I have seen three ladies and have had so much fun, and really made some new friends; as we chat and write back and forth on email quite a bit.

It's just important to do your homework, that way you know the lady is professional, and also that way you don't blow your money on some teenie bopper wanna be who looks good/smells good and rips you off.

In fact, you may find a good provider who is more open to see an overweight guy, because we typically are more generous, giving, appreciative and treat them better than most guys.

Happy Hobbying,
Jimbo

I am certainly no light weight (5'8" and 230 lbs.) and have been fortunate enough that no one seems to mind.

I hope that is true for the ladies I have been on dates with....

As long as you are honest and feel comfortable all should be well. I dont mind until I can see that the client is uncomfortable.
Have fun! stay safe!
Apryl

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