...I read with care the posts and responses on what gals want for DATY.  Great posts and it might even lead to a trend (see kissing post below) for sex advice!  One part that stuck in my mind was that most (not all) providers did not like fingers and I must admit, I was totally unaware of it.  So with this new info downloaded, the weekend rolls by and my SO gives me that sort of 'it's the weekend and let's do it now kind of look' and I keep those fingers at bay.  She gets very excited but then (!) grabs my hand and looks at me saying "NOW use your hands!!!!!!".   Well as I live and learn LOL!   And to think this hobby will improve my marriage!

bet you can't eat just one...

OOPS...I'm mincing my commercials again.

Tally-Ho!

My wife is the same way about DATY and fingers.  If the fingers are inserted too early it can be uncomfortable or in some cases maybe even a little painful.  I usually wait and follow my wife's lead.  After about 10 mins of DATY (mouth, tongue and gentle sucking), the juices are really start to flow, and the labia/clittoris becomes engorged (sp?) with blood.  It's at this point that I PLACE a finger by her vagina and allow her to slide down on my finger IF she wants it.  When she accepts my finger I usually allow her hip motion to dictate the depth repitition.

God just reading this is getting me hard...

Any other opinions ladies?

Regards,
David

Baddabing!

Don't worry you do less mincing than the real Dirk Bogard!

Quoi?  Porn does not teach one anything except what most men want to see.

...do commercials really teach you anything but what you want?  Can't they be thought of, then, as porn minus the sex, with your "market demographic" substituted for the male gender (a market demographic in itself, I would say). "Cheaper" porn.

But that's just the iconoclast in me coming out.  In the '70s, I was one of the few young men in the country to never watch "Charlies Angels" (and I still haven't seen an episode.)  Because by then, I felt manipulated and teased by it.    

/Zin