I would like to know how gents feel about touring ladies. Basically if a lady is touring and she's popular, it stands to reason that she's seeing a great deal of clients. If I was in the clients place, I would feel like just a number.

I am not touring but I would like to know how to handle this if I do tour.

I think so & really nothing else matters.

But why would a lady have to be seeing more men than usual? A stop in say.... San Antonio Texas for 5 days nets $5K and expenses are $1K and you get to see The Amamo and hear some Texas Blues on the Riverwalk.... ain't that a good week?

Turn Manhattan and the same time investment will net $7K but costs $2.5.... still not a bad week.... and you see Central Park, the Bull charging Wall Street, The Statue of Liberty and Battery Park.... I love Manhattan!!!!

I need to be a touring pro! What???!!!??? Oh?

No demand, eh.... A well...

I've posted several times that I really don't understand the appeal of seeing a touring lady, for just the reason you cite. It is production line sex, pure and simple, a notion reinforced by the several independents who have posted here that they only see one or two clients a day typically.

But...some other guys have posted that they love to see touring ladies..that they wait for their favorite to come to town, and spend large coin to wait in line for chance to see her. And I gotta assume these ladies make it worth their while.

Still, as I have posted before, I couldn't do it. My mind wouldn't be fooled, no matter how well she "acted" out her role. Just knowing that there had been a guy there an hour before, and that there would probably be a guy after me within the hour, would simply serve to remind me that this was nothing but an exchange of sex for money.

Odd...because I'm the guy who constantly preaches that this very idea is one every hobbyist should keep out the forefront of his mind. But I guess that during the date itself, I just as well not have it reduced in my mind's eye to just a business transaction...

So how do you address it? I'm not sure...except to say that you should make every effort possible to make every session as special as possible for each client.

I don't think that just because a lady travels to do tours necessarily means she is seeing more clients.  Me, personally, love to travel and tend to tour cities I'm interested in visiting and make sure to have some "me" time and take a mini-vacation at the same time.  I go out and see the city, hike the trails and do some exploring.  I also like to tour cities to visit with friends who have come through my hometown on business and keep in touch as I would much rather be with clients I feel comfortable with.  I would hope to say that for myself that I try not to treat any of my clients as just another number (perhaps that's easier for me to do as I just do this as a moonlighting opportunity) but as humans.  I suppose it helps that I have a passion for meeting folks from different walks of life~

Nadine


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And for some reason you think perhaps a local provider is not doing the same (scheduling mulitiple bookings in a day)?

Nadine

good point Nadine. Back in Canada I knew an Asian lady who saw 70 dates a month.. Ouch

but I just got back from visiting Chicago and DC. To be honest, I dont see more than 2 gents in a day. Physically, mentally and emotionally, I personally can't do more than that.

I did end up seeing 4 one day in Chicago. It started early (6am) and ended at 1am. I was crying when I fell asleep because at that point I was so exhausted on every level. All of my gents were extremely wonderful and treated me like gold. And I had an incredible time. I made sure there was plenty of time in between as to make sure I was rested and fresh. So far I haven't heard any complaints. (crossing fingers)But in order to make sure that my gents were well taken care of, I exhausted myself.


I do know some ladies who tour book as many in a day as they can. More power to them...LOL...oh to be young again. But for me I like to be able to spend alittle extra time and not worry about pushing anyone out the door because the next one will be there soon.

I would never want any of my gents to feel as though they were on an assembly line....and for me personally, I would never like to feel as though I am just a quick romp in the sack. Touring is so much more than that. Its a vacation, a chance to meet those you have corresponded with for a long time and a chance to experience new and wonderful things. But hey, thats just one Irish Broads opinion.


xoxoxo
Lass


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I had to write my opinion on this:
I have toured few times to a few cities and I have to say that I do not overbook myself on my visits because for me there has to be some fun on my behalf involved as well and gentlemen who have seen me on my tours know well that I don't make anyone feel rushed or feeling "like a number" ! even it's happened few times that I've ended up sending them away 15 -20 minutes later than their "time limit" !
I always take my time to go around and see the sights ,go to the gym or do some shopping etc. so I always pick my hotel in places where they have lots of attractions around and a nice pool and fitness room.
I usually book my appointments before my trips for a limited# of clients per day and when I get to that city no matter how many more calls a day I get I don't "squeeze in" anyone ! I will only see them if there is a cancellation.
and that is one reason that I charge $100 more than what I charge in Miami so I won't have to see so many people a day to cover my expenses etc. and the quality of the date will stay the same.
I know that there are some traveling girls who see a lot of clients but there are so many local girls that do that as well so it depends on the girl not the "traveling" issue!  
and if you've read this far thankyou for your patience!lol xoxo Leila

Over the past couple of months I have actually visited several visiting providers who have come my way.  I can honestly say that I have not had any experience where I felt this "assembly line" effect.  In fact these experiences have all been very good experiences, and one experience was spectacular.  I saw a visitor from Las Vegas yesterday, and it seemed as though she was all mine for the time we were together.  I booked 2 hours and in fact we spent almost 3 hours together.  I couldn't ask for more exclusivity than I received. Another provider a few weeks ago, also with a 2 hour appointment, was so good, I asked her to move to my city.  There are probably some providers who attempt to visit and sock away as much as possible, and they burn out, so to speak.  But I firmly believe that if she is a QUALITY provider then her touring schedule will not differ much from what she does at home.

When I tour I just dont tour to see multiple clients. I always pick a place I would like to vacation at and combine the 2 together. I have never seen more then 2 people in one day on any tour I have ever taken. the norm is one because I like to sightsee and do things while im ther instead of being locked in a hotel room the whole time


Susan of Orlando

See you in LA and San Diego soon!

Not if I'm to believe what the ladies here have said....as I stated in my post, the ladies here (independents of course, not agency gals) almost universally CLAIM to only see one or two clients a day...that they wouldn't be able to provide the "experience" they prefer, or take the "grind" on their bodies otherwise.

I really have no reason to doubt this...every time I've seen an independent, they seem rather flexible with their time (I work for myself, so I have lots of flexibility as well), suggesting that they DON'T have any sort of schedule / roster they are trying to keep. Add to that the fact that I only do outcall to my apartment...meaning said lady would have commute time in both directions...and no, it isn't likely she has seen a guy an hour before me, and is seeing one an hour afterwards.

But...who is to say, right? I mean, escorts don't tell fibs to enhance business...do they?  :^)

-- Modified on 9/6/2002 5:34:15 PM

This makes sense, and sounds wonderful...but doesn't match the impression I have been given from these boards of "touring ladies".

There have been many, many posts here from guys who say they have to call early to see their favorite gal when she comes to town (else she gets "booked up"), that they have to jockey for a time that meets their respective schedules, and that often times they find themselves waiting in the hotel lobby because of a "scheduling conflict"...and pass the previous guy in the hall as he is leaving the room.

From the other side of the coin, several ladies have posted here about needing to cover their expenses, and booking as many sessions as possible.

All this adds up to the impression I have...that "touring" is essentailly a money grab...a lady makes a decision to invest in a plane ticket and hotel room for a few days, and she is looking to recoup as much of that investment as possible, with as much profit as well.

IF ladies did what you seem to imply...simply pick a place to vacation, go there, and , "what the hell, why don't I meet a few guys while I am here...who wants to party all alone", then it would be a lot more appealing to me. In fact, I would find a sincere interest in, say, a dinner date and little bit of a tour of my hometown with a pretty lady, followe by desert.

But that AIN'T the impression I've been left with. Instead, what I imagine is young porn stars or porn star wanna bes, catering to guys who are there JUST so that they can tell themselves they've had sex with a hot looking chic, who schedule as many clients as possible, then take the money and run to the next town. If that doesn't describe you, more power to you. But, I'm still gonna stick with my "reputable indepentdent outcall to my apartment" routine. I just prefer it that way.

You are hot as hell...but then, you know that don't you? :^)

I tell you...10 times out of 10, I prefer the hot Latina / Italian babe with the soft, REAL curves over the gentically enhanced blonde Pamela Anderson wanna be. When I see a woman like you, I think "hmmm....maybe I will let myself fall just a LITTLE in love, just for an hour...pretend that I am actually lucky enough to date a babe like this...let me emotions dance on the edge...escape for an hour". When I see the photos of Barbie Clones, all I think is "sex"..and not even necesarily "good sex". Maybe that is the intent...I don't know....

So...you ever make it to New York?  :^)

I like your taste in women! liking women I like the same type of look myself!
but about the traveling subject I have to add that I don't have to say "I see few clients a day "to increase my business or give a certain impression in that regard!fortunately I am a little passed that level!
I said what I thought was the truth about "some" traveling ladies (not all, I know that),I don't even post here that often and I don't need to "promote" myself through responses to some threads here! fortunately gentlemen have been so kind to me that I don't need to do anything more than my ad and my visiting schedule posts to get the number of clients that I need in that city!I guess they all know the difference!
so please before you end up implying that providers just lie about the number of people they see just to get one more potential client interested ,make sure you are keeping an open mind to other people's comments specially some sincere posts that I have seen here (mine included!)
my guess is that you've had some bad experiences and that has made you draw the conclusion to all the rest,it is fine if you wanna stick to local independents doing outcall to you but please don't say we all lie or hide the truth about who and how many we see!
and abouta trip to NYC I am thinking about it ,but what if all the NYC guys are as stubborn as you?lol  kisses Leila

Well if I come to your town, I would be more than willing to meet you at your apartment for an outcall

I guess for me when I tour, instead of just taking a few appointments during the week, I am taking appointments each day, two at the most and with the more frequent days of working, it covers my expenses as well as bring in the normal amount I would bring in at home working say 2 days a week.

I'm not saying that this is the norm, just an exception to think about

Nadine

Taylor looking foward to your return
Akrobat

After looking at your web page, I can only say 'When are you visiting LA?' Or it seems that a visit to the Latin American capitol will be in the works. I fixed the url (fingers crossed).