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Pokai1 11 Reviews 2599 reads
posted
1 / 23

Very often now, I am coming across ladies who advertise on Eros, Slixa etc., but explicitly told me they do not want to be reviewed.  They are good providers, more often than not, much better than average.

There has to be a reason?  

PM  me if someone can tell me someone who is UTR  .

mrfisher 115 Reviews 140 reads
posted
2 / 23

At least that's what a few gals who told me said.

Makes sense to me.   Who among us would like to be subjected to that?

There is one gal I know who is a very committed tantrika, and her desire not to be reviewed comes from not wanting to be associated with the more commercial side of the hobby, which I can also sort of see.  She nevertheless does have reviews, and they are good ones.

hardknocks6 37 Reviews 105 reads
posted
3 / 23

I can't imagine why a woman wouldn't want to be reviewed in the current hobbying environment...free publicity is good publicity.

But in the pre-FOSTA/SESTA days I was told by multiple providers that it was about volume control or the illusion of volume control.  That is, fewer reviewers made the provider appear to be lower volume, therefore more exclusive and able to justify higher rates.  Also, in the case of the women seeing multiple guys a day, every day, they didn't want a lot of reviews to make them appear "high volume".

But, also in the pre-F/S days, and when TER ratings started to climb towards 9s and 10s being as common as M&Ms on Halloween, many women used a "no review" policy as a tool to manage their reviews.  I remember a number of cases where an explicit discussion of no review turned into a request for a review after a really good session and a prodding for high ratings.

Finally, and specifically in my experience, providers who are retiring, or who aren't retired but are only seeing regulars, don't want the increase in first-time contacts that comes with a new and good review.  I've been told by multiple providers that a new and good review was followed by a week of higher contacts than normal, and some women just don't want the e-mail and phone text traffic.  That is understandable, especially in review sites where the phone number is included in the review.

JackDunphy 133 reads
posted
4 / 23

I know that comes as a shock to many here, but many girls just don't want them because they don't need them any longer, and if they have never been reviewed, they were talked out of doing so by the twitter crowd.

 
They found other avenues to advertise when TER went dark and found success doing so, and thus decided they no longer needed to participate in "review culture" and that is due, in large part, to the #metoo movement.

 
It is becoming more common, and I think its a trend here to stay, sadly,

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 79 reads
posted
5 / 23

should not have any trepidation about being reviewed.   However, once they take the plunge, they should try to get as many reviews as possible so that their "averages" reflect the level of service they provide.  Too many times a provider will have a few reviews, and then some unhappy customer scores there really low, which causes their average to plunge because the sample is so small.  Then the response of the girl is to cut off reviews in a panic.   If a girl is an 8 or 9 for service most of the time, she can keep her average in that range by having a lot of reviews as opposed to just a few.  

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 93 reads
posted
6 / 23

There's a number of reason, all mentioned. But I know of one girl in Vegas who's banned by some hotels and has been busted by LE. So she needs to keep a low profile, that I get.
I remember one girl who had a real life girlfriend. We had a great passionate high energy date. Way beyond any of what her ad had in her description, non GFE, CBJ, No DFK...blah, blah. She knew I was a serial reviewer (at that time of course). She asked that I didn't review our date...which I respected. So I guess maybe some have SO that they're trying to shield from what really goes on. Who knows
Almost like massage girls who escort on the down low....

cleavers 92 reads
posted
7 / 23

There are many reasons why ladies don't want to have reviews. I've been asked or told not to tell anyone or put our date in a review(I don't do them anyways), because she said what happened in our time will not happen with others.

KJ5233 33 reads
posted
8 / 23

Melissa

I get that. But as a consumer I am looking at what I hope to experience therefore the reviews help me decide who I want to see. If she offers BBBJ or DFK could be a deal breaker for me. I know a lot of reviews are bogus and I try to look at the reviewer's history to determine if it is genuine. I do understand YMMV and I try to take that into consideration. I always hope that I don't scare away providers when they see me LOL

Johnnycade 28 Reviews 85 reads
posted
9 / 23

For me a do not review is a red flag.  If she doesn’t want reviews, then I assume it’s because she’s hiding something, usually 20-30 extra pounds, 10 years, or a serious attitude, neither works for me.  It can also be because she is inconsistent: like she’ll suck a dick, just not your dick. Reviews provide a gauge of consistency, a dozen 10 reviews  with no refusals of services helps get over the fear of YMMV service (the scourge of our hobby).

That said, I have had one date that had a no review up with TER, but that was after she had dozens of great reviews posted, and I only found out when TER kicked it back . . . And she was exactly like her reviews.  Maybe she liked her reviews that were already up, and wanted to lock it in.

A final note,  review ability is a plus, because I can squeeze a little extra value out of the date with the short VIP bump; not as big a deal now that there is the gift card pay option, but back in the day it was a deal breaker.

Pokai1 11 Reviews 28 reads
posted
10 / 23
Pokai1 11 Reviews 129 reads
posted
11 / 23

One time I saw a girl referred to me by  another girl,I know well. Service was excellent,  I said she wanted to be reviewed here, she politely declined. That is why I brought this topic up.

PinkPentouse23 105 reads
posted
12 / 23

Don’t want to risk to have this one review when  she is described as a little heavier , a slightly older, maybe even a little smellier down there .  It could ruin her business.  

Rule of thumb, just see TER friendly providers only .

thatgirlsforu 16 Reviews 119 reads
posted
13 / 23

I have never seen a profile on ter without any reviews but came across this recently. Can a provider have all reviews expunged now and still have a profile that only lists her appearance info and services offered?

GaGambler 143 reads
posted
14 / 23

Stacey gets a review which creates a profile for her, for some reason her reviewer has HIS reviews removed, hers along with the rest of his reviews, which leaves her with a profile, but no reviews.  

 
No offense to Stacey, but somehow I doubt we are missing out on much

Jayk47 109 reads
posted
15 / 23

Yes delisting is s trend, but most providers who are doing it are doing it bc it is the trendy thing to do not bc. I believe those who are doing well enough without reviews when TER was gone are the exception not the rule. The anti-TER providers are a very loud minority. I believe delisting is a trend due more to social sanction from this loud twitter crowd rather than providers delisting because they don’t need TER to do well financially. Many of those delisting do so as to be accepted by the cool girls and not meet their wrath if they ever dare say reviews aren’t the worst thing in the world. Peer pressure is powerful and many are going against their financial interests to not be seen seen as enabling review culture (even seen some providers compare  reviews to coercion, as stupid as that sounds).

A lot of providers who bash TER and delisted and brag about raising their rates will also tweet about it being slow and start begging for followers to send them money. I don’t believe this crowd is doing as well financially as you say.

Clients who prefer to see reviewed providers vastly outnumber the twitter white knight clients who bash review boards ( they are even worse than the bsc provider rants)There is ultimately much more money to be made by catering to the the former crowd. I now notice that when I do google searches of a provider’s e-mail their TER profile is starting to show up in the top results. Who do you think the average prospective client will decide to go with? The reviewed providers or the twitter prima Donna who rants about review culture and not being a menu? Eventually the new girls will figure this out

kylalavi See my TER Reviews 136 reads
posted
16 / 23

I used to think reviews were corny but I understand the need for from seeing if a women has gained weight over the years or if her appearance or attitude has changed. In all honestly I skim threw all my reviews briefly. But never take them to seriously.  

But at the end they are needed for us as providers and hobbyist for safety and satisfaction.

Xoxoxo
Kyla

OldRanger 62 Reviews 88 reads
posted
17 / 23

I suppose a provider that wants on this site can post the add as long as she has another add and/or website.
Do not ever remember seeing a rule against it.

AdrianRose See my TER Reviews 109 reads
posted
18 / 23

Basically what the other ladies said plus sometimes it is not a good thing to become too “well known”. Because when you are too well known you could potentially attract the attention of LE, scammers, weirdos, and psychos, hell even people you might know outside of this line of work. Literally anyone can read a review as many are free and even so if someone wants to all they have to do a pay a few dollars and then they could read every little nasty detail (true or not).

While I love a good review I personally would rather remain discreet but if someone wants to leave a review for me I kindly ask them to spare the dirty details. I do not like kissing and telling and am especially cautious in the current atmosphere as more and more people know of review boards.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 107 reads
posted
19 / 23

But he wasn’t talking about an ad. It’s a profile with no reviews. Providers don’t create their own profiles, and reviewers can’t create a blank profile.  

Basically what happened is someone reviewed her, the profile was created with her first review, then for some reason the review was deleted, leaving the empty profile. If the review doesn’t come back or she doesn’t get a new one soon, the profile will get taken down. While this is rare, I have seen it before.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 107 reads
posted
20 / 23

Reviewer writes a review, created the profile, profile posted, then review was removed, leaving an empty profile.  The reason for the review being removed could be several. Could be the reason you suggested. Could be suspected as a fake review, (discovered by TER or reported by another member), could have even be removed for the reviewer to edit and resubmit. There are a few other reasons the review might have been removed. In any case the profile won’t stay like that forever. Eventually the review will be replaced, or a new one will appear on her profile, or TER will remove the profile.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 126 reads
posted
21 / 23
zigzag22 24 Reviews 85 reads
posted
22 / 23

I only see ladies who have reviews. I want to know what I’m getting into.  I think it’s valid to say experiences my vary but there are some girls that everyone should absolutely stay away from.  Those scammers need to be  exposed. Unfortunately those few scammers ruin it for the rest of the industry. That’s why reviews are necessary.

JIMBOY 149 Reviews 108 reads
posted
23 / 23

For those ladies who eschew reviews, and their clients, more power to them if that's their preference and they can make it work. For those clients who insist on reviews, that's a reasonable position and there are plenty of providers who are more than happy to occupy that space. The key point, IMHO, is to know in what niche you're most comfortable and to realize that complaining about the others isn't going to change anything.

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