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Re:Unable to perform with SO
MovinOnUp 6 Reviews 3418 reads
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1 / 7

Lately ive found that I havent been able to perform when I'm with my SO...Im thinking it has alot to do with my hobby...Is it time for a break?  Has any other hobbyists and providers run across this same prolem?  Don't get me wrong...I am still very attracted to my so, but find it botehrsome that I am not able to get satisfied when im with her.

FreedomRider225 4211 reads
posted
2 / 7

With all the beautiful providers available to answer your most ribald desires it is easy to look at your SO as
"Ho-Hum, same-o'l same-o'l".
Try thinking about how lonely and disenfranchised you would feel if you didn't have your SO. Maybe this will put her and your libido into perspective.

  FR.

LOVEDEFACTO 10 Reviews 2067 reads
posted
3 / 7

in the mood!!! - It can make or break the whole interlude...

Catlin 4 Reviews 4019 reads
posted
4 / 7

Could be GUILT!  The Brain is a large part of all this activity.

kirsche 11 Reviews 2044 reads
posted
5 / 7

as I do with a provider. Since I'm not "covered" with my SO, there is more sensitivity and I tend to finish faster.  But I have found that a break from the hobby does indeed help.

llcar 10 Reviews 2362 reads
posted
6 / 7

Yes, I've been having the exact same problem and believe it is due mostly to guilt.  Now, I don't have a problem initially it is just that my wife tries so hard to please me that within a few minutes I start to feel so damn guilty.  I then try to get re-aroused and it is a vicious circle - I tell her I had fun but know she is disappointed (+ more guilt).

thevirginiadude 8 Reviews 4258 reads
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7 / 7

Well I only had that happen once the night after I had my most incredible provider everience... Three pops that session,  well I couldn't pull off a forth that night. Guess because the SO was significantly worse at it than this provider was. And was wishing  I was with another I really wanted to see that day.  Guess that was just too much on the mind.  Not because I couldn't. Was a mental and not a physical thing. The batter was on base ready to play, but just couldn't it that home run no matter how long he kept swinging at the ball.

Wife was happy but couldn't understand the no pop thing. She got about an hour of solid pounding just no finsh.

Usually get off better with wife because of no cover.  Most important thing is the mind. It can do al sorts of things.  

Like keep the soldier from standing at attention to not being able to finish.

Could be guilt could be you sucked the well dry that day.

Depending on age it might even be medical issues starting.

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