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Sophomoric Humorist 839 reads
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I wonder -- are you enjoying sex more now because absence makes the heart grow fonder? [LOL]

Wait.  Just kidding.  But that certainly explains a lot in MY wretched case.

I suspect that, as you have matured [very diplo-speak, to be sure], you realize that sex is as much emotional and intellectual as it is physical and hormonal.  You, and even me!, have simply gained the maturity and insight and experience to see its complexity in many dimensions, not just the purely physical one beloved by 19-year olds with raging hormones and torrents of testosterone [not that there's anything wrong with that, though].

Your comment about being held, so very true.  I'm planning one day a session where I do nothing for an hour except spoon the lady, gently hold her, and maybe just nuzzle her neck a bit before taking a pleasant little nap.  

Here's a toast to the wisdom that [we hope] comes with age.  And a really big boo for the dimished capacities which follow in the wake of age. Ah, you can't win them all.

Ooh, my head is starting to hurt realy badly, again, and i fear that another of my multiple personalities may emerge.  Can the advent of Pontificating Poster be far off?

dragonfly20062004 reads

Has being in the hobby changed your notions about physical beauty?

Did you always find certain body types unattractive until you were intimate with them?

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BizzaroSuperdude761 reads

I have been reminded that some women are very generous, and kind.  A fact that I forgot in large portions of my marriage.  I have also learned that for the most part, we all have needs - and one of the greatest needs is the need to be comforted by another human being.  To just be held and told... it will be all right...

As far as physical beauty... I still find some body types unattractive but less so than before.  I've also found that I enjoy sex more - and I am not sure why that is... even with civies....

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Sophomoric Humorist840 reads

I wonder -- are you enjoying sex more now because absence makes the heart grow fonder? [LOL]

Wait.  Just kidding.  But that certainly explains a lot in MY wretched case.

I suspect that, as you have matured [very diplo-speak, to be sure], you realize that sex is as much emotional and intellectual as it is physical and hormonal.  You, and even me!, have simply gained the maturity and insight and experience to see its complexity in many dimensions, not just the purely physical one beloved by 19-year olds with raging hormones and torrents of testosterone [not that there's anything wrong with that, though].

Your comment about being held, so very true.  I'm planning one day a session where I do nothing for an hour except spoon the lady, gently hold her, and maybe just nuzzle her neck a bit before taking a pleasant little nap.  

Here's a toast to the wisdom that [we hope] comes with age.  And a really big boo for the dimished capacities which follow in the wake of age. Ah, you can't win them all.

Ooh, my head is starting to hurt realy badly, again, and i fear that another of my multiple personalities may emerge.  Can the advent of Pontificating Poster be far off?

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mrfisher1277 reads

as in: "I'm going to fuck your brains out."  :o)

But seriously folks,

BS and SH make very good points and also make me dwell on another truism..

"Youth is wasted on the young."

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Mary O Malley683 reads

I have never found height to be a turn-off issue.  Weight?  As long as you are aware of the hygeine issues that involve gaining weight and take care of them, then it, too, is not a turn off.

I know this sounds like a provider just trying to stroke your ego and maintain business, but as far as I know, you and I have never seen each other.  So, just throw that theory right out the window and take what I'm saying to heart.  PERSONALITY AND THE WAY YOU TREAT SOMEONE ARE FAR MORE IMPORTANT THAN PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES.  Do you want to know what is really sexy?  Self confidence....not arrogance...but a good dose of confidence...knowing who you are and it being okay with it.

Has the hobby changed my notions about physical beauty?  Honestly, I think getting a little older has done that.  I think its hard to appreciate beauty when you're very young and think that everyone should look the way you do.  As we get a little older and gravity catches up (yep, she's a bitch...lol), you can begin to appreciate the laugh lines on someones face and the character that lies within them.  Suddenly a few wrinkles and body type matter less.  Unfortunately, I don't think that attitude is prevalent among hobbyists toward providers.  I think it is the rare exception to the rule and I'm always gratified to hear someone voice it.

As a poster said earlier...the brain is the sexiest part of the body.

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