Projecting a positive attitude towards others is an essential part of successful marketing.

This post is certainly not going in that direction.

You have a slew of nice reviews, a nice website, reasonable reviews, you're in the greatest market probably in the world, and you look sexy too.

This may be just a post Christmas slump you are in.  Don't do anything too rash and wait it out till tax refund time.  I bet things pick up then.

Some gals have told me that mid-April to May is a good time for them in that sense.  Also guys start to get the spring hornies at that time.

7s and 8s are respectable ratings for many people and shows at least that they are not the kind of gal that insists on all 10s.  We've had enough threads on that subject so that you know where that's at.

$300 in New York is also a very reasonable rate.

Am I doing something wrong? I can't seem to generate any interest in myself anymore. maybe it's just time to retire, and move on.  Some constructive criticism....

First off you are in one of the hardest markets in this country (NYC) and you have 30 reviews-that's pretty impressive to me personally. Sometimes new photos with new wardrobe and such can spark new interest. Obviously, you're doing something right. Good luck to you.  

xx kisses
Stevie

I've never heard any gals discuss guys waiting to get a refund.  Heck, if they're married it get's direct deposit into the joint account...I would bet  LOL

As for her reviews being reasonable...sorry mrfisher.  In NYC at $ 300 and 7's...maybe she'd do better in Kentucky?

Look at it this way. Even the best and biggest companies and/or grand names in the world sometimes go through hard time.

That's what "sale" and "special" are for. Everything in this world has a price. Looking from the seller's POV, if it's priced low enough it WILL sell

But I can unequivocally tell you that most spouses are quite aware of a potential tax refund  LOL

They tend to look for it so they can spend it on the kids, house or whatever  

Maybe you should check out some of the OP's reviews...there are quite a few really NOT good scores!

I'll pass along to my gal pals who work NYC and tell them that $ 300 is a reasonable rate.  Maybe a few of them will lower their rates?  I'm sure that once some of them return from Vegas they'll get right on that.  

Nope...the OP has a history based on her reviews.  Perhaps she needs to explore why all she could command was $ 300 (in NYC)...and now she isn't getting that based on her OP.  I suggest she try Kentucky...or Kansas.  

will succeed.  There is a market for all body types.

One improvement I would suggest would be to either improve your current website (contact me just doesn't work for rates) and add some better photos.

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Thank you for being so candid.  I doubt there is a lady in the business who hasn't felt the same way at one time or another.  

In my experience, business fluctuates in ways that defy logic.  For instance (in my case anyways) it doesn't seem to adhere to any normal financial cycles such as year-end bonuses or holiday expenses or tax returns.  Nor do tried-and-true business boosters (enhanced advertising, new reviews, etc) always pay off as expected.  Basically, every month is a surprise!  Fortunately, over the long run, the good surprises have far outweighed the bad surprises.  

You are young in the business and may not yet have found your "niche".  After looking at your ad, I do agree that new pictures could be helpful.  Regular board posting can draw positive attention.  (As for the negative attention, just ignore Dr. Douche and his ilk - some folks just need a safe place to randomly revel in their own self-importance!)  Also, reach out to other ladies to find out which photographers and advertising platforms have worked best for them.  Like a gent above said, their IS a market for all body types.  (I am proof!)  

At the end of the day, I'm pretty sure that the single most important thing a lady can do to succeed around here is to give every client and every appointment her best effort.  

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1) spell check all your listings, and when you have time, update them. You are funny, but it doesn't show through as much as it could in your writing. Rather than tell them you're sweet or sexy or interesting, show them with your words. Make it clear who you are, and how you are going to come across at the office so that you can not only attract business, but business that will stick around because of YOU, not because of some trick or discount you can do. Having your rates clearly laid out helps a lot too, as most aren't going to spend more than 20seconds-1.5 minutes on your site. All they need to know or see needs to be right in front if their face.  

2) get some new pictures done. Candids are great for showing exactly what you look like when someone is staring right at you, but you are in a very competitive market, and professional pictures will elevate you from "some girl" to "someone serious". You don't need to photoshop anything, just show yourself in your best light by having someone there who knows how to pose you, fix lighting, and show off your best traits in a sexy setting.  

3) have you toured lately? A lot of guys will pass you over if you stay in the same place for too long, thinking you'll always be there while the touring girls will only be there for a short time. Try tossing an ad up for a city a couple hours away from you, and hop on a train or bus. Both are cheap and will get you there. Start your visiting ad about two weeks before you get there, and then post it again if it's been buried or you still have openings. Two or three days will be enough to be profitable, but not so long that you'll have to worry about getting there and blowing money.  

4) your reviews. Honestly, kissing is kind of a big deal, and that issue may be scaring the guys off. If it's a YMMV thing, have some of your regulars write reviews outlining that. Getting all the "don't knows" filled in will also help you show up in more searches, and I'm pretty sure you can update that yourself by doing the "report a problem" thing that should show up when you click your profile.  

5) do you have a girlfriend in the business? Sometimes, teaming up is good for not only splitting room costs, but attracting new clients that may not have looked at you before. Plus, it'll give you a chance to get more reviews to bump you to the top of the "new reviews" section.  

6) in session, make sure they don't feel like you just showed up. Make a playlist for the allotted time to help you manage it, and to set the mood. Toss some rose petals on the bed, get a little oil and rub him down. A little bubbly and some candles and chocolate goes a long way too. Make yourself not only comfortable and accessible, but a better value than they were expecting for your price range. It's low, especially for your market, so it's not gonna be hard. It sucks to blow $70 on supplies, but it's an investment in your business and your future.  

Unlike others, I think your rates and reviews match up perfectly for your area. If they were any better, others here would be telling you to charge more. The friends I have that toured up there at that rate, with similar reviews, did gangbusters. The only difference were the pictures, ad, and simply being in town for a limited time.  

When times are slow, use the time to revamp yourself and figure out how to get yourself a raise. As long as you do that, you'll be golden. There will always be slow seasons, but if you make the time worth it they won't be so bad and the good seasons will more than make up for them

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And the pickings were slim since no ones around...

Do you boys even know what the industry would be like if you ran it? Hehehe

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While most of the posts are great, but the last two are superb. Be certain to reach out to Alex Kole.

Ladies are constantly adjusting their rates until they find their happy medium. If a lady is highly successful she will raise her rate. The rate will keep going up until the phone stops ringing. In which case, she found her happy medium, and will adjust it back down to where the phone starts ringing again. If you're not generating interest, adjust your rate until you do.  

I once had a popular lady friend raise her escort rate from 240 to 300. Of course, it didn't matter to me because I always got the 240. I never asked her about it, but a couple of weeks later, her price was back down to 240. There could only have been one reason. The phone. I have another lady friend who charges 100 an hour as an escort. She's fun, tan, has good reviews, and an athletic build. I was shocked that her rate was so low, so I asked her about it. She said when she raised her rate to 120, the phone went silent.  

Sometimes ladies forget that this is a business. They get it in their heads that they should be able to charge 500 an hour like lady X in the town over. There are a million other factors, some pointed out in this thread, but one bottom line is this. Sure, I might splurge when I'm traveling, but when all things are equal, who am I going to call, lady X in the town over, or my 100 to 240 an hour friends?  

Good luck! I wish you well.

Most successful businesses are built on repeat business. If you are not getting at least 75% repeat clients then you are doing something wrong.  I suggest you buy a few hours of time from a provider who regularly gets 9 and 10 ratings. Have her tutor you on the essentials on what makes men happy. It may just be the best investment you could ever make.

at least you got some good tips! (and some nice tits, I might add)

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...really good idea.

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You have been given a lot of great advice and support and I hope it puts you in a better mood about yourself. I suspect your business will improve. I'd also like to give a pat on the back for all who replied, with the exception of the resident moron who guzzles soda and spews nonsense.

Start with close by cities then expand

You're right. This is a business. And if the bump from $100 to $120 puts you dead in the water, you are doing a lot wrong. Even in places like Louisiana or Houston. Yeesh.  

I think this advice (to just keep lowering your rate) is damaging, honestly. Do you have any idea what it would be like to do this for $100 an hour? And I'm not talking about us being some spoiled brats who "need to find another job", I mean do you have even the slightest clue? This isn't about me thinking everyone should charge $500 an hour, but I do think hookers should be encouraged to be happy and healthy. There are a ton of factors, and lowering rates doesn't work as well as you boys seem to think or want it to. As clearly outlined by your lady friends...

I hope you tip those girls.

Lets' see...$ 100/hr x a 2,080 hour year would be $ 208,000.  

But I guess few gals can work 2,080 hours.  So they end up grossing about $ 30,000 and net around $ 12,000.

Just a guess  LOL
 

You're always telling their business on here.  

Thank you for reiterating my point on here though. It's nice to have a minion.

Why would they?  They're barely scraping by as it is...and at my rates they'd have to work a lot more  LOL

Thanks for playing again...you're always so predictable.
 

I didn't expect it to make sense, but I did expect better.  

Don't claim that most girls can't even gross 2-3grand a month because that's what allllll the girls you "know" do and then pretend you've never met one. Try to keep yourself straight, mmmmkay?

I bet your "negotiations" are more like "why hello. I see you are desperate, and I've recently googled the main principles of accounting. Care for a trade?"

As I posted elsewhere...she's netting between 1-2K.

THEY don't hire guys like me...they simply survive.

I don't charge for OTC...never have.  In any service business it's all part and parcel of how to create the appearance of value.

I suspect you're one of those gals that has talked to gals who know me...IRL.   And it ticks you off that what I post here is truthful.

Sorry...have a nice day!

I talked to him about you and he's going to do what he can to get you some proper photos : ))) Just stay in contact with me and I'll get your info to him!!! I'm excited & happy to help you.