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Retirement Age is Subjective and Different for Everyone
fanoftheo 824 reads
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Some set a particular age or timeframe, retire and are never heard from again. I know of quite a few ladies who had a monetary goal in mind, met that goal and got out of the business altogether. I have been blessed with being able to stay in touch with some of them as friends and they have not ever had the desire to return.  

Some do the above only to return a few years later for one reason or another. Could be money, could be the relationship they thought they had went sour, the job they got didn't work out, etc., etc., etc.

A cynic would say a lady should retire when her looks fade. That is subjective to say the least.  

A cynic would also say that some never really truly retire. They see a few, handpicked gents they are familiar with to continue seeing on the side. I know of a few ladies who have done this as well, again, for one reason or another.

My advice to the ladies who ask me about retirement?

When your services are no longer "wanted" (i.e. - your phone stops ringing, your inbox is empty, etc.) maybe it is time to think about retirement.

When you truly have a difficult time "mentally preparing" for your appointments, even with your favorite gents, maybe it's time to think about retirement.

To directly answer your questions:

I think it depends on the individual provider. Age range is not as important to me and while looks are important, it is attitude and performance (thanks to those that write accurate reviews) that play a bigger role when I am trying to make my choices.

Gentlemen:  do you feel there is a certain age that providers should retire?  Or do you think that it depends on the individual provider and how she keeps herself up?  Is there a typical age range that you normally see?  Or do you base it on the individual provider?

ROGM967 reads

A Provider that used to live in my city Retired in her mid 40's. Then she got her Massage License and did Massages for a while. She moved out of state and did Massages there for a little while. Now she doesn't do any Massages at all because of Health reasons. I do drive to see her a few times a year. She's still a joy to see. Always shows me a Great Time even in her mid 50's. I've encouraged her to get back in the Business in her area. But she's pretty contented staying Retired.

It depends on the lady.  I have had some wonderful times with ladies older than 30.  They all know what they want and how to make their fella feel comfortable.  I've also had great times with ladies in their mid to late 20's.  I rarely visit a lady below 28, so my view may be slighted a little.

I do know Julia is not anywhere close to retirement age!!!!

fanoftheo825 reads

Some set a particular age or timeframe, retire and are never heard from again. I know of quite a few ladies who had a monetary goal in mind, met that goal and got out of the business altogether. I have been blessed with being able to stay in touch with some of them as friends and they have not ever had the desire to return.  

Some do the above only to return a few years later for one reason or another. Could be money, could be the relationship they thought they had went sour, the job they got didn't work out, etc., etc., etc.

A cynic would say a lady should retire when her looks fade. That is subjective to say the least.  

A cynic would also say that some never really truly retire. They see a few, handpicked gents they are familiar with to continue seeing on the side. I know of a few ladies who have done this as well, again, for one reason or another.

My advice to the ladies who ask me about retirement?

When your services are no longer "wanted" (i.e. - your phone stops ringing, your inbox is empty, etc.) maybe it is time to think about retirement.

When you truly have a difficult time "mentally preparing" for your appointments, even with your favorite gents, maybe it's time to think about retirement.

To directly answer your questions:

I think it depends on the individual provider. Age range is not as important to me and while looks are important, it is attitude and performance (thanks to those that write accurate reviews) that play a bigger role when I am trying to make my choices.

There's a gal in the Bay Area named Zoe Zane is is over 70 and as far as I know is still going strong.  I met here at a BD/SM fest in SF a couple of years ago and she looked as hot as can be.  She has the spirit too to match.

I know two other gals up in their 60s and they rock my world too.

I also see young gals too so it's not like I have a fetish about older women.

I am just saying that age is nothing but a number, and it is the person who counts.

There is no "retirement age."  Because lots of guys actually prefer older women.  It's like any other sexual preference.  I happen to prefer women from 18 to mid 40s, but that's just me.  You should retire whenever you want to, when you have enough $$$ or no longer enjoy it.  Or when they stop beating a path to your incall.  Other than that, keep doin' it.

captain7555 reads

of the body, but by the number of pokes! High volume probably needs to retire earlier than occasional providers.

I prefer 35 plus.  I have found that they know what they want, who they are, what they are doing and enjoy the moment.

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I feel each lady will plan her retirement differently and retire when she feels comfortable to do so. I suspect there are many factors that will contribute to a lady's retirement, attainment of another job that she has been working toward, a serious relationship with a SO, burnout (I could see this as being a major contributor) etc.

But for me or any other hobbyist to say providers should retire at a specific age, it just isn't any of our dam business.

There are tons of very sexy ladies on here well into their 40s and older. There's a market for all shapes and sizes and ages. So when a lady retires is up to her. There will always be demand.

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Like a fine wine (eom) The best hands down mature.

It's like everything here.  Personal taste and preferences.  I feel more comfortable being out in public with someone closer to my age.  Walking into a Scottsdale resort or restaurant with a youngster on my arm that is young enough to be my daughter has no attraction to me.    

Personal preference, but I prefer to build up a business relationship over time, with multiple sessions.

She gets to the point where she just can't stand the idea of another strange swinging dick walking through the door.

it honestly is one of the last things I look at,though I am more concerned about a girl being to young than to old and most of the mature women I have been with rock it in both looks and performance!

It all depends on how well one takes care o themselves

To all of the guys who appreciate a mature provider.   We only get better with age ;).  I didn't even start in the business until I was over 35!

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is more important that the provider as well as the hobbyist both have a youthful enthusiasm for life and its experiences.  If the provider wants to "just lay there" then it doesn't matter what her age is.  My doing proper research, a guy can limit his poorer experiences.

While I agree that younger women are more physically attractive, I don't think that there is a particular retirement age.
Sex is part mental and physical, and I think women under 24 or 25 just aren't there yet mentally. For me the "ripest" age is around 28-32.

Furthermore the physical aspect of sex can be prolonged with diet, exercise, dress, etc. I'm with others, a provider should retire when she no longer wants to work anymore

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