I notice that some providers state in their websites that they only see clients above a certain age, typically age 35.  Why is this?

Personal preferences!!

Older Guys are Good Guys!

Older guys are probably more polite and take as much interest in giving the woman pleasure as they do in receiving it.  Also, younger guys are typically better looking and in better shape and as such, can intimidate the girl (she'll have to work harder to impress him).

I'm not intimidated by young guys-- I'm in excellent physical shape myself and can certainly "keep up." However, I do find some young guys have an "I'm entitled to whatever I want since I'm paying for it" attitude... not an attractive quality at any age.

.....can intimidate the girl (she'll have to work harder to impress him....

You are really joking right??? ~let me guess, you are 26? 28??  *LOL* and no doubt a legend in your own mind...

My preference towards more mature men has more to do with the fact that:
~Younger guys have a need to brag to their friends, thus jeopardizing my anonymity

~Younger guys do not have the life experiences to know in advance how to safe guard our meeting... usually resulting in more drama being added to my life than I care for

~Younger guys usually have younger girls monitoring them (*and their finances*) more closely than a gentleman who is more mature and more in control of his life & finances

-Do I need to continue. Trust me it has nothing to do with what he looks like or what kind of shape he is in.

(*And just for the record... NO guy under 35, anywhere could intimidate me!!*)

Most of the established providers that I know work hard to impress all of their clients, so that too was off base. Based on the sceen name that you posted under, you don't seem to have any reviews to back up your logic & reasoning. I suggest you see a few mature, established providers and then base your statements on their mannerisms....  kisses ~T

I was chuckling too- on that very rich- poor intimidated providers...

I always let the lady know I will be no challenge- and I seldom am...

My SO and I often get a chuckle when we walk the beach and see the boys who impress themselves almost more than the passersby- together we repeat "young and dumb and full of come..."

Young men can be pretty stupid and self centered- I know- I was/am one...

here goes.

Older men are usually bigger suckers because it's probably been awhile since they've had a sweet young thing. Also they can, for the most part, only manage one pop.

PS: No escort,stripper etc. will EVER admit to this BTW.

-- Modified on 5/31/2006 8:40:09 PM

According to one provider, age doesn't matter as long as they pay up and then finish the deed fast and easy.

i am under 30, and i enjoy the companies with the ladies in this business and i respect them. i think if you have communicated with the ladies be respectful and be true most of the ladies will not have problems to see you.

So you agree ?

Actually what I meant to say is, so she agrees ?.........lol

fbz

-- Modified on 6/1/2006 4:57:50 AM

Haven't had any problems as far as the age thing, just making a statement.

I always treat'em right btw.

fbz

Clearly you have a position that permits a "lifestyle" and I wish you well.  But the chip on your shoulder will burden you in life.  For those of us "chonologically challenged" we may offer a bit of sanity to the providers we choose to see, or actually, in my case, providers that mutually agree to a meeting.  

Oddly enough, recently the "hottest" looking woman I have met (she is about 24-26 or so) was very blunt about wishing to see me "outside" of this "hobby." (AND NO, I have not reviewed her.)  I will not disclose her reasons, but they were excellent reasons, unfortunately it would not work the way she envisioned for a wide variety of reasons.  On the other hand, there are others who, for a wide variety of reasons, I find very attractive - and I would not mind spending some time with OTC, whatever that "really means"!  I actually am more of a clock watcher than the ladies.  Usually I am in a rush, trying to get somewhere for something else... the last tryst I enjoyed, I had to get up early in the AM!  I scheduled a couple of hours... and was actually worried that I would be late for my meeting!  it worked out ok... but I was a bit worried...  and to the lady - I apologize for appearing "rushed"!  now there is a twist.

So you see, women think more with their braim and heart - than with their equivalent of the "little head" when it comes to spending a moment or two with a "companion."

WRT "cups of coffee" - some older dudes do ok.  They keep fit (not me, I kinda am a slob and get out of breath just lookin at "Playboy"), eat sensibly and are pretty good lookin.  (I mean really, look at Sean Connery - and let's face it Michael Douglas not only snared a hot lady - but left his ex - still wanting him!  there are other examples...)  Some of the over 50 crowd run in 10k's and even marathons.  Me?  I would like to sit in box seats at the Eagles' games, unfortunately that would mean that I would have to climb all those stairs. - Ahhh football season... time to work the "remote thumb."

In high school, I worked part time as an orderly in an old folks home.  There were some that vegged.... even at 65!  there were others who had that twinkle in their eye even at 90!  SOG?  hey for them, it was appreciation for the beauty of the world surrounding them - and enjoyment in that.  I know which I would rather emulate... cept of course the drooling that even now afflicts this ole timer.  Yea, once you pass 40, you are absolutely useless....

Treat 'em right?! yea... I try, and sometimes it is good.... and sometimes - it is not so good.  But it is life and as you pass 35 - keep this post, look upon it and remember one thing... age, it happens to all of us.  You can either live gracefully with it, or, as I fear you may do, fight it and loose.

First thanks for lumping all escorts, strippers and etc... together (*heaven only knows what your ETC
includes!!*)

Just for the record, my largest benefactor (*that is regular client*) is 30 years old. He doesn't turn 31 until July of this year. I only state this to make the point that you lack credibility in your statements.

My main point is that he is unlike most younger guys as he is able to afford to see me anytime he wishes to (*this is a very uncommon fact*)and he is respectful & cautious.

There are decent clients who are under 30, I just haven't encountered many and they are not by far the majority of that age group.

I am not looking for a sucker and I don't claim to be a sweet young thing catering to the impulse of some gentleman to part with his money.

As I previously stated, most younger guys have tooo much drama in their life and not enough experience to establish an ongoing arrangement without jeopardizing me.

-And... BTW your mannerisms, your wording and the tone of your post proves my point. Not that any escort, stripper,etc would ever admit it to you *LOL*        kisses ....  ~T

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I think frostyballz's replies to this post easily explains why most providers prefer a more mature man.  They tend to be more considerate and respectful.  

I see younger men from time to time if they pass my screening and I get a good feeling about them after talking on the phone.  I have met some exceptionally nice and talented men in the younger age group but many times the younger guy is one who wants to make sure he can fit as many sexual aerobics positions into one hour as possible, and is kinda slam, bam thank you mam for as many times as he can.

I like a session where there is tenderness, sensuality and passion not just an exercise class and someone who cares as much about my anonimity and safety as he does his own. - Lia

and also apparently "indiscrete" in real life because I tell it like it is on an anonymous message board ?

I've seen a few ladies that would tend to disagree with you on that

"Anonamos" has taken an observation that is clearly supportable by the facts that there are some providers who prefer older clients.  (and older can be defined in a lot of ways...)  

This thread has obviously stepped on some toes... recently I had an appointment with a provider... she called me... and was blunt with me by saying... "I am older"  Did it matter to me?  It would have mattered IF her pictures on her web site were misleading (they are not, if anything they would lead you to believe that she is less than the spectacular person she is).  Oddly, she had a picture of me... that I provided.  Was she "disappointed" in my age?  I would hope not.... as I was not "disappointed" in her age.  We were there to engage in a fun time... and we did.  

BUT it is EVERYONE's right in this hobby to select who they will or won't see!  Providers included.  Get over it.

Some of the posts herein, make several assumptions with respect to "performance" and the aging process.  I know 30-yr. old guys... who, quite frankly, cannot get it up!  They are just too much out of shape physically.  I also know dudes in their 70's who have absolutely no problem with erection - with or without the blue pill.  are these exceptions... not really... but I also know that not all men seek the companionship of an escort for sex.  no matter age.  for me, sex is why I am there, the emotional part is why I will see someone more than once.

Yea, I know all of the pitfalls of that last statement... but with providers, I always know it is a business to them... always.  with the civie head games... I am lost.

without a statistical sampling program many, if not all, of the assertions in this tread are exactly what they are, assumptions or observations... lets all just get over ourselves.

Why this post?  Because some posters here are not self-aware that they have been offensive.  They need to understand that if they are to go forward in life... I am not saying that they will be unsuccessful, but that there are easier ways to go through life.... without the attitudes... and assumptions of the other fellows plight - or capabilities.

I think older guys have more girth to their manhood; you forgot that one!  

Besides what Tori mentioned, I have also heard that young guys are too rough, tend to be more interested in themselves and don't tip.  And their penis hasn't finished filling out yet.

I always say 25 as my age limit and then have them in incall as some do swipe their older brothers ID for beer

argument for "don't believe everthing ya hear"

PS: Are saying that my penis is going to get bigger ? Awesome !

and that is why I said the question was "loaded" to begin with.

What you don't realize about me BSD is that I've been around women in adult entertainment of all sorts for about 12 of my 35 yrs.

I am well aware not all women are evil or self serving, but in this "thing of ours" that is the exception, not the rule.

That is my "observation" so far, NOT the way I treat them EVER. I live by the golden rule as far as one on one interaction goes in the real world.

My response was intended more towards ladies who will only see men over 40. Many of these women are older also. My problem ? I like MILFs, so I'm SOL sometimes which bugs me because I feel I have been "stereotyped" in those cases.

You did nail it with these comments though:
"For me, sex is why I am there, the emotional part is why I will see someone more than once."

"Civie head games... I am lost."

Peace,

fbz



-- Modified on 6/3/2006 10:33:34 AM

and your ability to learn how to use whatever you have might improve.  As an example... you sated "the 1st 3 comments"  which 1st 3 comments? by who?

You are not a particularly articulate person.

By historian05 dude !

And I quote him:

"I have also heard that young guys are too rough, tend to be more interested in themselves and don't tip. And their penis hasn't finished filling out yet."

There is no need for your last comment BSD.
It's not exactly my fault you did not read the posts in order.

Is it ?.....