so this past week I finally had an appointment with one of Washington DCs most sought after, and hardest to reach ladies.

We hit it off right away and got along well.  It seemed she was having just as much fun as I was.  I ended up staying and chatting with her for 30-45 mins after our scheduled time was over. Before I left, she asked if I would swap e-mail addresses and personal cell phone numbers with her, (which we did) and insisted that we should get together and "hang out" or something.  The places she frequents at night are pretty close to mine.

Now, Am I dreaming? how would you take this?

A.  maybe she does want to hang out with me sometime.  perhaps I just made a new friend (with benefits)

B.  She wants me to be a regular of hers

C.  It was all an act.

D.  fill in the Blank _______________

run.

Been there on more than one occasion. Treat it as a friendship with some scenario B) thrown in, especially at first. If it's going to progress beyond that (unlikely but possible), you'll have a better feel for what's going on in a few weeks. Be honest and keep the communication lines open. Good luck

This comes up about once a week. Since we don't know her and we don't know you, please realize that our advice about your particular situation isn't worth a damn. She could enjoy your company and want you as a friend/hang out buddy and still have you as a regular client; she could want you as a friend with extras; she could want more; she could be sucking you into a Web.  It sounds like the first option, but only she knows.  Why not ask her?

why is this a question?  Someone you're attracted to wants to spend time with you and you need help with that?  Dude, I've been waiting for that offer for years.  Just do it man.  You'll find out quickly enough what is the real deal.

I am there right now. My Significant Other is an Interior Designer who supported herself through Otis Academy of Fine Arts by escorting (outcall).We MET in her then professional capacity and after several dates we were confronted with the same question as you.

Being emotionally involved with an escort can be either a life-changing experience or a complete disaster. The hardest thing for us was being emotionally involved with each other during her last year of school while she was a provider. Every emotion you have will be severely tested and the odds are not with you on this unless you truly have an exceptional lady, as I do.

Best outlook - a) without benefits and b). I fell in love with Barbara (not her real name) after about four 10x10 GFE dates and she asked if she could see me outside of her work hours.
I was going through a tough divorce and had decided that I was not hoing to get involved again for a while and would rely on escorts to fulfill my needs. She came along and completely changed all that!

If you have a provider that wants to see you in her off hours consider yourself lucky. Go out with her, be an old-fashioned gentleman, and establish trust by not hitting on her for extras just because she's a social date. Pay her for her sexual favors
and continue to be a regular. She'll tell you when you can put the benjamins away and your pleasure is on HER. Most escorts have a strict policy about getting involved with clients but many are looking for a life beyond that of a provider and if you seem to be the man that can help them out of the life they'll maybe give you that cchance. Just roll with it one day at a time and see what happens.

prove that she really loves him?

I truly envy you...
Some of the nicest women I've EVER met were providers.

I'm joking of course.  You didn't click on here to see who was the axe murduring escort, did you?  Damn perverts.

Who is she? Who is She? Inquiring (or is that Enquirer) minds want to know.

I'm not just lucky... I'm truly BLESSED.

Barbara and I share virtually ALL of the same interests..
Contemporary Jazz, Antiquing, camping, sailing out of Long Beach
on what I laughingly call my "yacht".....

We are sailing the "leaking lena" over to Catalina Friday AM
for Jazz Festival for the first time...usually we stay at Seaport Village Resort.....

After a lifetime of abuse from the b**** that I finally got the courage to break away from, Barbara has not only restored my faith in humanity she has restored me to life. I have not just Provider-quality sex with a woman who is eye and arm candy
but a true soul-mate... the woman I should have had many years ago and made children with.

BTW even though I am a professional guy I'm neither strikingly handsome or extremely wealthy. Just Blessed. I learned from this that if you truly can conceive of it happening to you, it will happen....

Take Care

No offense bud, but get a grip. This question has come up a number of times lately where a guy has a great session with a provider and now he thinks she wants to bang him for free. Trust me......if she wants to bang you for free there will be no doubt in your mind about it. If you are posting on a discussion board because you are uncertain of the answer.....you already know your answer and it's a "no".

She sounds like a great provider....not a clock watcher, you clicked, had fun, etc.. She did her job very well and made you feel good, ie.....the ever sought after GFE. Don't lose sight that this is a business. Again, if she wants to bang you for free you'll have no doubt about it. Until that is as obvious as the nose on your face, don't forget that you are a customer and she is a business person.















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Good Advice

It was almost a year for me before she told me to put the donation away. And that was AFTER she told me she wanted to see me outside of her work.

BTW I STILL spend approx "hobby $$" (if not more) on her now that we are together but it's been worth every penny and I'd do it again in a heartbeat.

But your advice is well taken. A good GFE provider will give you the illusion that IT'S LOVE. That's her job.If you are generous, clean and a gentleman she WILL want you coming back again and again as a REGULAR. That's even more true if you are a good lover.

Be advised and GOVERN YOURSELF ACCORDINGLY