The problem with making it an Option (i.e. a check box to indicate whether the Provider only dates within a certain race), is that a given Hobbyist may not know.
Example: A year ago, I set up an appointment with a well-known Las Vegas Provider/Porn Star. We talked on the phone at great length, exchanged e-mails, etc, etc. Shortly before leaving for my trip to LV, I mentioned to her that I'd seen another lady (a "Porn Star" who she knew). In an e-mail to me, this LV Provider wrote (these exact words) : "You know she likes BLACK COCK!!! EEEEWWWW!"
I was absolutely stunned...and quickly canceled the appointment.
If racial matters don't come up in a conversation, a Hobbyist would have no idea.
For 3yrs and about a half dozen message boards later, this same old b.s. still comes up. I am not a hater, not even a disliker, not a racist, not a bigot, not an ignorant Southern yahoo.
It's all about levels of comfort, ok? Now, you're comfort level is verrry important to me, but my level of comfort is equally important. Trust me, if I am not cozy, you definately won't be. If gentlemen are unhappy due to my discomfort, I will not stay in business, which, believe it or not, is a very important idea if you like to, oh, I don't know, maybe eat, have a roof over your head, wear clothing, etc.
I have been called every name in the book, been reviewed falsly by men who have been denied my services, and been threatened. I have NEVER EVER defended myself because I think that one should stick my their convictions and beliefs, for whatever the reason is, I am sure that it is very important to you.
But, this is really just too much. I had to say something in my own defense this time, especially after the Jewish statements. (BTW, Jewish people have been slaughtered, repressed, and pushed out of there homes more than any other people, but you never see me bitching about racisim, bigotry, and what the f^@$ ever else) Back off me, I am getting P.O.'d and will start to fight back even tho it is completely out of character for me.
LaChaim (sp?)
The Shiksa Goddess Samantha
(Hey Sully, with modern technology as it is, you can have that piece the Rabbi overcut at the bris replaced. I love Manischewitz too, but your parents could've kept it away from him until it was all done)
