Has any one been outed to there SO by a provider?  Happened to me.

I like to invite a lady from time to time to my office. There are lots of neat things about that, but the stupid thing about this is, she now knows more about me than she should know, such as where I work, my full name if she's paying attention, etc. (Granted, providers who screen heavily ask for this information anyway). The LIQ became one of my ATF's for a while, and was pissed because I had to cancel a meeting at the last minute. She claimed she had turned down 2 other dates, and had to bum a ride from a friend and had already paid them gas money, so now I owed her. I said I would make it good, but she wanted it right then. I couldn't, for the same reason I had to cancel. Long story short, she found my listed private number, & threatened to call my SO to tell her what an asshole I was. I was already  PO'd when she first started trying to strong-arm me, and then I went from there to enraged & scared: not so much fear of being ratted out, but fear from knowing that I was now dealing with an irrational person. Visions of "Play Misty for Me" were dancing in my head. It took me quite a while to get over that one!

A provider that thinks that I posted unflatering posts about her on another board called my SO.  I did not post these things but they were true.  She is an absolute nut case and is insane.

my worst nightmare.  I saw a provider who asked me to post reviews.  I said I might but that I was already uncomfortable with it being a topic of conversation.  She was very intent on it and became a bit hostile.  I told her that if she keeps $50 and I leave now, we would call it a night.  I got the strong feeling that this one was nuts and it could have ended with outing.

How about at least providing the city where this flake lives.  Private email can work too.  I feel for you man. That's got to be awful.  I'd personally do everything I could do to make the woman's live an utter hell!

one provider i saw was constantly lying. changing stories. no consistency. did not trust anyone. she wanted it all. boyfriend on the side,  easy money from clients, and access to power for her son's education. Just a plain flat bitch. never wanted someone to "control her". I ask her one time to wear these pink shoes and she went ballistic, cursing left and right. wtf. for god's sake your a ho. accept it. do not try to be a control freak wench.