I was thinking tonight after a particularly delicious encounter, what it is that just "Does IT" for you guys before and after seeing a provider. And ladies what was the best experience?

For example, what was your best experience when one of you walked thru the door? Was it the way they looked? The way they smelled? The way they greeted you or said your name? Or did that feeling come later after a wonderful romp or a great conversation?

I have read so many reviews of so many different providers and the ones that strike me are the less graphics ones. You know the ones...that describe the scent of her perfume..or the feel of her skin..or that look in her eyes as she was pleasuring you. Maybe its the chickie romantic in me..because we all know this is fantasy and romance is always fun.

onight is one at the top of my list as best moments. Here I am..bed hair and all...feeling quite satisfied and he brushes a hair away from my eyes and says "You are simply the most sensual woman I have ever encountered". It sounds so simple, but his tone and gesture made it quite an exqusite moment.

So tell me...what does it for you? This inquiring lass wants to know.....


xoxox
Lass

For me it is great chemstry
a big eyed smile great conversation and good coordination during the event good flow
Yeah

Actually one of my best experiences was when a stunning lady walked in, had a look at me, said "I'm lucky tonight" and proceeded to jump my bones before I had a chance to even close the door. Only happened to me once (unfortunately) but I will remember this one to the end of my days.

Except for that one, what does it for me is a lady that gives herself completely. My ATF is beautiful and her skin always smells so good, but what really is different with her is that when we are together time simply stops. We look into each other's eyes and forget everything except giving pleasure to each other. She is so intense, passionate and devoted to the moment, it is incredible. It's not what kind of acts she does or does not do, it's really the intensity. Difficult to describe with words. At times like that we do not even need to talk, no more than you need to talk to your hand to do something. We just become one.

Well looks like you're not the only helpless romantic out there.

Personally, I'm always pleased when i walk in and find the lady i'm about to spend time with is still vertical and has a pulse, but i'm easy.
On the serious side, there is one time that stands out. It was with a lady that i had seen before, but not often. On a purely phtsical scale, i would not rate her a ten in my book, but she is without a doubt attractive. I guess the thing that draws me back to her from time to time is the rest of her, her personality. She is really down to earth, open, and brutally honest. Good, bad, or indifferent, if you ask her something, she will give you a straight answer. I like that alot, it's important to me to be with someone that is real, or least my version of real(different strokes for different folks, ya know). Anyway, i show up and she answers the door holding a glass of champagne and a plate of strawberrys. The lights were dimmed, the music was soft and soothing. She looked breathtaking. We sat and talked and kissed for what seemed to be forever, and as it turned out, was. Our 2 hour date turned out to be almost four. It was the best conversation i have had with anyone in some time. Looking back, i guess you would have to describe it as a "Oh honey, you look like you've had a terrible day. Sit down and relax and let me pamper you. Don't do a thing, just leave it all to me" experience. I really was having my doubts about leaving the couch and moving to the bedroom, i could have sat there like that all night. But as it turns out, i was not disappointed that we did. It was wonderful!! Slow and passionate.
I haven't been with many ladys in this capacity, but i think that no matter who you are, you can tell with someone is just going thru the motions. There wasn't even an inkling of that. If i didn't know better, i would have sworn that we were longtime lovers who had been seperated for a prolonger period of time. I'm corney, i know. What can i say. LOL. I have seen her since and we always have a great time, she's alot of fun to be with in any capacity. But for some reason, that one time just took the cake.

P.S.  A cattle prod Lass?!?!?!?!  Good lord, what have i gotten myself into????  And by the way, i'm not really into Wheaties, will Viagra do??

"when she opened the door, I remember looking down at the most devastating eyes and smile that I have ever seen. We leaned in to greet each other with a kiss, as my hand slid behind her waist to pull her close, it got so quiet. I remember when we kissed, our eyes opened  and locked into each other, somehow making that kiss so much softer and longer. I don't ever remember a kiss like that."...... "I honestly can't remember what it was like to undress this beautiful woman. What pleasures I missed in seeing her magnificence appear before me slowly and delicately. My first conscious thought that I recall is when my hand first cupped, what had to be, one of the softest most perfect...."
...Well, I think you get the idea. You never know who or why it is. But when it is, I think you can agree, it is fanatastic.

The moment of anticipation is what does it for me. About 10 minutes before the session begins, I'm wondering what the provider will look like, and how everything will go. The mystery of it all, gives me a rush.

I also enjoy talking and listening. I love sex, but what I remember most are good conversations. That's just me.

What memories bring a smile to my face..? Oh sure, we've all had Hot, Sweaty, Mind Blowing, Off the Hook, Fuck sessions, that are etched in our minds forever. But, I think for me, it has to be the time spent with a regular...Maybe I'm unique...No..I AM unique..ha, I mean different, but my regulars seem to say the same things, "This is just the best time of my life". "I feel I can tell you anything","Where were you, all my life.?"  "I never feel like "Just One of the Guys" or my all time favorite, "Will you marry me", done "tongue-in-cheek", (I think)LOL. Those are the guys, I know, care about me as a person, not just as a "Piece of Meat". Their the ones that make me believe, I have the best job in the world. When I hear their voice, or see their face at my door, I know we're gonna have one hell of a good time....I'm a Nuturer, a Caretaker and a bit of a Healer and get to use these abilities everyday to make a difference...WOW...Doesn't get any better than that!!!!. I don't have a husband, boyfriend and my kids are all raised, so my clients are my passion. They're why I do what I do , Kisses, Robyn

I think if she can make me feel that she cares that I enjoy my time with her, everything else falls into place.  Sure, I want to get laid, but I want to feel like I've done more than just masterbate in a vagina.

…was one of the best I have experienced.

I’ve been seeing this lady for quite a while now, and I can’t imagine how things just keep getting better and better with her.

Whenever we set up a time to get together, I have this smile that can’t be removed. The anticipation of seeing her face, feeling her lips on mine, holding her in my arms, all gets me though some of those seemingly less important tasks in my day.
Last night when I walked in the door, my expectations as usual, were met beyond what I could imagine. She had a glass of wine waiting for me and informed me that I was just in time to wash her back while she finished her shower. After making sure I didn’t miss any spots and planting a few kissed on the back of her neck, I waited for her on the couch. Here, I found a present wrapped for me, but more memorable was her arrival in her bathrobe, ready to cuddle for a while and get lost in some kissing. After moving to the floor, and getting reacquainted, we reminded each other that we did have dinner plans, so a short shower together, and off we went.
Dinner was perfect. Wonderful wine, great food, and the type of waiters that leaves you alone so that you can enjoy each other like lovers do. Lots of great moments talking, touching and feeding each other samplings of our meals. We decided against desert, at least anything they could offer us.
Leaving the restaurant, it was beginning to rain harder than ever, which sparked a few more romantic thoughts in our heads. We ran back to her place and grabbed a half bottle of wine and switched into my SUV to find a quite place to park, and listen to the rain hit the roof. Seats down, a few blankets and some soft music created some memories I will never forget. The intensity and feelings of being with this lady are indescribable, seems obvious to us both, that our bodies communicate to each other, like no others.  I think we woke around 2:00am and headed back to her place to finish off the morning in each other’s arms. My head’s been in the clouds all day and the smile just won’t go away…

So, what does it for me? I think this pretty much hit’s it on the head. Not really sure why the long post either, accept maybe to let you now that it’s not all about the bump and grind, romance is still alive and thriving in the world.  
I’m sure there are many great women out there, but I feel fortunate I found a pearl in the first oyster I opened!

Luv ya babe!!!


-- Modified on 2/25/2003 8:46:21 PM

... we are talking about a client/provider scenario here, right?  

After reading some of the responses to the lady's original question, especially this one, I'm beginning to wonder if we're all on the same page.  Yeah, I know I'm a little ATF-burned out right now, but let's try to keep it in perspective.  It's too easy to let our feelings get away from us in this game, and it's a tough dream to wake up from.

Take care, everyone.

PC

There are many people in my life that hold a special place in my heart, filling needs that I as a human desire and require. It’s not just a one-way street either; I give what I can back in return. I play the role of Dad, Husband, Lover, Employer, Friend or whatever the hat I may be wearing at the time is, and there are many who rely on me to help support them, to some degree.  

Because my children need shoes, does that reflect on the love they have for their Dad?
Because my SO needs the security of a roof over her head, does that mean she should feel ashamed to love me?
Because my employees need a paycheck to support their families, does that mean their loyalty to me is based strictly on finances?
I recently leased a car for a friend in need, he was my friend long before I helped him out and still would be if I hadn’t.
A special lady I met, helps me live life fuller that I had known, opens my heart wider than I have ever felt, and helps me sort out some of the craziness of my world. She takes care of my physical needs like no other woman has ever connected with me before (you don’t always find your soul mate until after you’ve started to build you life elsewhere, unfortunately). Should I feel shame in helping her make her rent, or indulging in some of life’s other pleasures?

You may say “It's too easy to let our feelings get away from us in this game”, personally I don’t see it as a game and I’ve never been more in touch with my feelings as I am now.

Papercup, I certainly didn’t mean for this to sound like I am slamming you, I’m just sorting out a few things. I guess I also get tired of the “client/provider” arguments about exchange of monies and exchange of feelings and how it’s all business if this stuff is taking place. We all have needs and yes, every once in awhile, two people, who by the rules other have imposed, shouldn’t fall in love, but they do anyways!
Isn’t life GRAND!!! I’d like to think so…

Take care…


-- Modified on 2/26/2003 1:50:24 AM

I think "stealthmode" has said it all. It is great to find out I am not alone with this issue. Quite frankly,I have to assume many guys have considered this issue and most still do. While my "hobby" is false at it's core, It's nice to pretend someone needs me for more than support.....Mike

I fell hard for a girl and she fell too. We opened our eyes and it hit us both that theses we real feeling with real consequences. So we danced back and forth, drained both of us, getting close enough to feel the heat then pulling back to get to a safe place where we could say we didn't mean it. Exhausting but real. So here we are almost two years later and we finally have the courage to seriously open up to each other without the angst that its all doomed to be a horrible catastrophe. Then it becomes another experience. You can sit there and say nothing to each other and still have some kind of deep communication. There's enough substance that the props can be put back in the storeroom. This deeply alive queitness comes over you.

Far from typical, but not unusual.  I walked in to see a first time client one night and knew from the moment I walked in that he was going to change my life and vice versa.  He did....and I did, in the very best of ways.   Sorry, just had to comment.

No offense taken.  

It's not a game in a literal sense, I meant that as a figure of speech.  And being in touch with your feelings has a way of allowing you to fall out of touch with your powers of reason.  The way you and some of the others were writing gave me flashbacks to where I was not too long ago.  

You make a good case for your position, but I'm not sure you really know where you're headed.  Just be careful.  Good luck.

PC

Well, romance between a client/provider is probably doomed to be a short term thing.  But while you're in it, a little time lasts very long and the feelings are exquisite.  It is quite wonderful to feel like a schoolboy again, when you're middle aged, and if the lady of your affection responds then you can be king of the world if only for a few months or years.  I don't know where my current romance is going....obviously it is a silly thing, but I haven't felt this alive in years!

You make me think of my ATF when you speak in such terms. What "does it" for me with her is the entire package. She has every element that attracts me to women all in one exquisite person. Her expressive eyes when she talks... or does anything! She has the most feminine demeanor, most sensuous kisses, great sense of humor. In terms of just plain "orgasmic" fulfillment, she's not # 1. However, I would trade all of those fantastic "climactic only" encounters for a single evening with her. I saw her last Monday & it's still soooooo fresh in my mind. She makes me feel as though my company is a joy to her !! I can tell you now, if we spent too much time together, I'd absolutely fall in love with her; regardless of her profession! To me she is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. By that I do NOT mean the most physically attractive. The depth of her personality is something I'd want to plumb....just good looks don't make me feel that way. The sexual satisfaction I get with her comes from some personal place that is impossible to express effectively. She's playful in a way I can accept as "genuine" rather than contrived for the encounter. Boy I better stop! I'm working myself up! Sufficed to say, each of us is attracted to women on a level that is sexual and on another that is deeper. She hits 'em both dead on !! She really is the "girl of my dreams"!! That's why she "does it" for me !!