Should a woman offer a partial refund if there is no penetration yet the guy stayed almost the whole time?
And secondly what do you suggest a girls does to turn a session around when you JUST ARE NOT CLICKING? should I have asked him to go ?
Or also what if a guy DOES NOT inquire about GREEK and just asummes it is with everyone or maybe you took it off the menu, but he never mentions before that he wants it, so you had no way to communicate that it was no longer offered because oyu did not know he wanted it ? he just went in assuming you gave it?
please advice needed!
I try to click with every one, but sometimes I DO NOT i guess..

oh well, I guess on bad review wont hurt, but some of it is BS only because of the exaggerating such as
all the men were bitching or complaining about Greek, I have like 2 guys out 6 maybe if that, that asked that trip and yet dissaoppointed, they were ok with other things..
so I am not sure why he exaggeratted
oh well
kisses still
sasha love

i read the review; just my one-and-a-half cents worth... if the review is accurate in the sense that you were unable or unwilling to perform up to your usual standard, then it might have been a nice gesture as well as a good business decision to offer the guy something. thing is, if he was really disappointed then he probably won't come back... so maybe you say look, come back next time for half price and i promise i'll be my usual white-hot self. as for the anal - you gotta look at it from the client's point of view: that's what i want today, but i can't ask for it over the phone, so i choose a provider with lots of reviews who is known to offer it. then i get there and it isn't available. of course i'm unhappy.

judging from the bulk of your reviews, i'm sure you are as tasty as you claim i wouldn't worry too much about one bad one.... your posts identify you as an intelligent and witty woman... you think you are tired now? if you lived in my neighborhood i'd make sure you were exhausted

Sasha, If you are even half as sweet in person as you are on this board then you have absolutely nothing to worry about.  

Remember you are being compensated for your time so unless you make the decision to cut the time short there should never be any kind of refund.  As far as not clicking I really can't help you there.  The few ladies I've seen have been great at what they do both emotionally and physically and I'm so thrilled to see them that clicking has never been an issue.  Sounds like the guy you're worried about has his own issues and it's not your problem but his.

If a client has a specific physical act he's interested in then he should confirm it's on the menu before the encounter.  (Remember guys ASSUME makes an ass out of you and me.)

Keep smilin' and doing all those wonderful things you do for us guys and have a great holiday weekend!

well hehe thank you :P
But see maybe I am a dofferent sort, I will answer the greek question or other questions on the phone just not too graphic of a question.. but if he says "do you still offer greek or i would like greek" i will answer rather than him ask me in person
Reasoning?
You can get in a whole heck of aalot more hot water discussing a act in person rather than a phone call

kisses always
sasha

If you were know so well for your anal performance, why do you no longer offer it?  Are you burning out?

thats the thing, I am NOT so well known for my anal performance!

FRench and my BBBJTCWS is REALLY what I am known for...
I stopped it because I have the right to correct? and I decided after bad experiences and other personal reasons not to offer it UNLESS i know the client VERY well and I TRUST him

sasha

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hahah remember those comercials?
thank you you are why I looooove this business!!


you have a great weekend too and cum to Sacramento Soon :P

kisses all over
sasha love

Since I don't speak Greek personally, this wouldn't be an issue for me.  That said, it sounds like you would have no problem being up front about that so why not just out and out tell a guy on the phone, "By the way, I no longer speak Greek."  Problem, I would hope, is solved.  Same for any other service you're not providing either permanently or temporarily.

I responded to your post because of your comment "...One bad review won't hurt".  I fail to see why a poster would write a review panning performance if the reason the session didn't go well has nothing to do with what you did, but rather how you looked, or how you interacted on a personal level.  I had a recent experience where the provider and I simply didn't click.  To her credit, she tried everything she knew to make that session enjoyable.  And she succeeded in that the performance was very good.  I, simply stated, wouldn't see her again because of the difference in personality.  She rang the bell, but didn't put a crack in it, so to speak.  Her review is posted here on TER, and it's a good performance review, because her performance was GOOD.  The review also states that we just didn't click.  That, to me, is an honest way of reporting a session.  Panning a provider because of personality, or even looks, even though performance was good, is dishonest.  Just state your comments to that effect in the review.  As far as one poor review on your file is concerned, it makes the guy look bad, not you.  And, by the way, if your French is so good, how come you don't know that the word is "forte" not "fortay". :-}  LOL

ok as for "forte" I went back and forth on the spellings and was not sure which it was heheh..
do not have a dictionary here darn it!
oh well...
I do agree on all other points, and if indeed the gentleman had mentioned it on the phone i would have told him, but i had no idea till he got there that he was hoping to get greek
oh well
c'est la via!

sasha

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We all know it isn't cool to mention sexual acts when contacting providers - makes them think you're LE or something. How do I ask if Greek is on the menu without mentioning it?

i think well I like it when they just say is greek spoken? on the phone
Phone is safer than asking in person

You did it again!  It's "c'est la vie"!!!!!  Your tongue must be in overdrive!!  I'm sorry I live on the other coast, but someday..........!!!


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