No duh!!!!!

that providers who like their job & women that aren't into monogamy & prefer variety & non-commital relationships,etc. are really men??? What it really is in my opinion is alot of women are still stuck on what society expects of them as opposed to their natural sexual desires.A majority of women in our society are still sexually repressed due to the pressures placed upon them/us to behave a certain way & to be a 'respectable' young lady & seek one partner to reproduce with,get married,have 2.5 kids,a house with a white picket fence,one cat,one dog & a damn goldfish.Hogwash!!!                                                                                                              We all are very aware of this expectation I just described;we've all heard it before.Why??Because it's been instilled in our brains & memory bank from childhood.There were pictures of this image in all of our schoool books as children;just think back.The reality is human beings still have the natural animal sexual instinct for sexual pleasure & desire,men & women alike.The difference is how society has repressed those desires in certain people,especially women & how succeptible we are as an individual to accept it & be brainwashed.Hence; we then have the closet freaks:i.e providers; or women who are unable to have orgasms....how sad.                                                             Some women are still afraid to be branded with that invisible 'Scarlet Letter'that society places on us for being a 'bad' or 'dirty'girl.This is not mideaval times & the need for sexual expression is much stronger in both men & women.It is also shameful or disapointing for women who do not desire to reproduce,though however,willing to adopt.Have we forgotten how many already born unwanted kids are out there with parents who don't want them or can't care for them.                         We are in a time where woman have goals & ambitions & a desire for variety which is considered a masculine urge.Where did this come from;do these women have power issues & want to compete with men??The answer is no:women like this have been around forever they just have been forced to repress this need for self expression & we are now in a time where it's a little more visible & people don't really give a damn whether it's acceptable or not because the urge & need to express has gotten that much stronger & uncontrolable as time has progressed.There is only so long that you can hold someone back from their natural desires that have been waiting to come forth through many lifetimes.Unfortunately some of us are still stuck in a pattern.How long do you think that's going to last.I don't know.....but the thing is everyone is here to fullfill a purpose:i.e.:women who don't want to give birth can provide a home for already born children with nowhere to go & noone to turn to.Providers provide a service for todays advanced & increased sexual need & desire which relieves a whole lot of stress & makes more people have a good damn day,less road rage,arguments,stress.Yes sex is a natural elixer..lol.                                                Also,women who provide Independently get a chance to take on a role of a business person & actually take charge of their lives & maybe even start a business outside of providing(while following their natural sexual instinct) as opposed to having a pimp or an abusive husband,etc. which very well may have been the case for some & unfortunately still is,but for those who are able to see the light at the end of the tunnel,there is more opportunity now adays to accomplish goals either under societies standards or our own individual ones.                                                   I.E.>:What's good for the goose ain't always good for the gander,but if your a goose,be a damn goose,be proud to be a goose & be good at being a goose....food for thought.Ta Ta for now.xoxoxo

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