Recently while DATY with one of Baltimore’s finest ladies, the tempo of a couple songs on the radio fitted really well to this activity.  It worked pretty well to stroke to the beat. I found this very interesting as it had never happened like this to me before - at least not that I’d noticed.

Several days later I received a CD in the mail as a gift from a vendor. Of course I listened to it to see what it was. It turned out to be classical music, which is not something I usually listen to, except in the dentist’s office. But perhaps due to the recent experience described above, while listening to one of the first selections, it crossed my mind that this might be the right tempo for DATY!  Then I really began to pay attention, imagining tongue movements, changes in direction and so forth as the music changed.  Much to my surprise, I began to believe that several of CD’s selections could really work well, and would even enhance DATY.

So, now I’m rolling these thoughts around in my mind, wondering what kind of music really is good for DATY? What is a good tempo? How much switching of movement, should the music employ?  What would be best early in the session, perhaps for the approach and tease?  How about the first half of the session; something to fit in the playful mood and the variety and changeableness that works at this point? Something to create a build up?  How about later when it gets intense; what works best then?  How about when it really gets close to climax time; something rhythmic that would be good for keeping on keeping on, steady as she goes, to bring it on? How about afterward, during the wind-down cuddle?

I did a search on this General Discussion board, going back a year and found nothing about this subject.

I’m wondering if you have experience with this? Do you have specific songs that you like for DATY?

Or have you assembled a selection of songs on a CD that you like to play? If so, would you mind sharing which songs they are and in which order they play?

Have you ever heard of any music being composed specifically for DATY?

Responses from everyone, both ladies and gents, are welcome.

I'm thinking that music that provides a rhythm for the DATY-er is less important than music that the woman finds sexy herself.  Trying to follow the rhythm of a particular piece of music would probably seem too mechanical for most women.

BUT you bring up another very interesting DATY subject when you say:  "How about when it really gets close to climax time; something rhythmic that would be good for keeping on keeping on, steady as she goes, to bring it on?"

So my question to the ladies is:  When you are very close to going over the edge, do you indeed prefer a steady rhythm, "steady as she goes", or do you want him to keep varying the rhythm?  I realize that every woman is different, and we can't generalize, and that with a given woman, it may vary from one time to another, but what is YOUR personal preference the majority of the time just before climax?  Steady as she goes, or vary the rhythm?

hmm...how about: The Ride of The Valkyries?

check the ryhthm (NOT THE WORDS)of "Sympathy for the Devil" by the Rolling Stones. The ryhtyhm, can you keep up with the beat?

Foreplay music:

ClairDeLune by Debussy

http://www.geocities.com/Broadway/Orchestra/4624/cldlunez.mid

And now...

Ludwig van Beethoven - Symphony No.5, Op.67-
Movement number 1


For major DATY...C minor of course

http://w3.rz-berlin.mpg.de/cmp/beethoven_sym5.html

Click on Allegro Con Brio

Cheers!

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I tend to believe there's a type of music to fit every possible scenario, from hardcore PSE to slow and seductive sensual play. I pick mine based on my mood, the mood/attitude and preferences of the gentleman I'm meeting with, and the overall atmosphere I'm trying to create.

For hardcore nasty fun, Nine Inch Nails, Billy Talent or any other harder edged music can do it for me.

For sensual, I love the voices of sultry soul and blues singers - Billie Holiday, Nina Simone, Diana Krall, Nora Jones.

For playful fun, Sarah McLaughlin, Leonard Cohen, jazz in any of its many forms, or world music.

For DATY, I can't think of any music I wouldn't want to hear, although I have a feeling that I'll end up drowning it out with my *own* music...We might have to go with Wagnerian Opera, just to appease the neighbours

Morgan

iTunes:

"I'm the Wolf" Howling Wolf,  Acoustic version, very important...

"Something Inside of Me" Take 3, Fleetwood Mac

"Black Lotus" Bill Lasswell and Sacred Sytem et  al.

The rest you will just have to see me in person to hear. For my last reviewed session I played these and had good results. But don't ask me, ask her.

... Michael Jackson's "Beat It"; "Eat the Music," Kate Bush (double credit for last name); "Ain't Gonna Eat Out (Your Heart Anymore," the Young Rascals;  and my personal fave, Dizzy Gillespie's classic, "Hey, Pete!  Let's Eat Mo' Meat!"

Something with a slow to medium steady beat.

The Enigma thing has been done to death along with Enya in various places, but I still like it.

A few faves....

Soul II Soul "Keep on Movin" (Keep...on moooo-ving... Don't stop....)

UB40 "The Way You Do the Things You Do" Reggae beat keeps things chugging along and has an island feel for those on vacation (or just a mini mental one)

Men at Work "Down Under" ... uh ok... not really, it just sounded funny with those 5 words strung together.

Phil Collins "In the Air Tonight" The German remix version that adds a little more of a peppy backbeat to it.  (Or the Lil Kim remix that adds a street edge to it...)  OK, we can all thank Risky Business for this one.

Art of Noise "Moments in Love"  Madonna got married to Sean Penn with this song playing and that woman knows how to set a mood....

And while we're thinking of Madonna .... Three songs from her Erotica album... The title song, "Waiting", and "Where Life Begins" which is an ode to DATY (Best line.... (while moaning)...better bring your raincoat.... i think it's gonna raaaainnn.)  Actually the whole album is great.....

Honorable mention to another song of hers from her first greatest hits album... "Justify my Love".  great beat and another line that typifies what drives us to this hobby.  "Poor is the man whose pleasure depends upon the permission of another"

Paula Cole "Making Love" The girl who wonders where all the cowboys have gone also knows what do do with them when she finds one.

Bonnie Raitt "Gnawin on it" from the Silver Lining album.  OK, another joke song that doesn't fit but sounds funny....

Def Leppard "Pour Some Sugar on Me"  Slower beat than their usual songs, double entendre working overtime, for those woman who identify with wanting "to be on the hood of Whitesnake's car" like the "1985" song goes.....

Sheena Easton "Sugar Walls" for the 80's obsessed only.  Hearing Sheena moan about you spending the night inside her sugar walls ALMOST overwhelms the wretched 80's pop beat.  Ditto for the other song from that same album, "Strut" (Strut, pout, put it out, that's what you want from women... you make me feel like a girl for hire...) Extra points for the extended version that removes the lecturing AGAINST what the song seems to be about and just repeats the chorus.

en Vogue/Salt N Pepa "Whatta Man" Something for the ladies and a great beat..

Telepopmusic "Breathe" - another great Mitsubishi car commercial that has a simple chorus, but sets a mood for those who like things a little quicker.

Suzanne Vega "Stockings" and "Love Made Real". From her happy album after her honeymoon (to a marriage that has since failed).  "Stockings" talks about sapphic love while "Love Made Real" talks about her being tied down for her birthday.  Both are sung over a playful pop beat.

Thompson Twins "Storm on the Sea" 80's pop band slows it down for a song that gets in your head and swims around while you are otherwise engaged.

Christina Aguilera "Dirty" - OK, only for the swinging from the chandeliers types.....

The System "Don't Disturb this Groove"  Great old school quiet storm esque song.

Talk Talk "Life's What you Make It"  A great slow tempo song.  I'm begging for someone to remake this song soon.... (Gwen Stefani redid their "It's my Life" to huge success)

Annie Lennox - Legend in My Living Room.  Great song with a fun chorus.

Nine Inch Nails "Closer to God" For those that like things a little darker....

Prince "Gett Off" ....Nuff said'

Stuff those Ipods and have fun!

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My music pics for DATY or any sexual activity.

Shaft Soundtrack, Issac Hayes
Fear of a Black Planet, Public Enemy
The Harder they Come soundtrack, no pun intended
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas soundtrack

Do you happen to remember which songs were playing, I wasn't listening to the music.  LOL!

Can you hum a few bars of that one?

Thank you

There's no doubt what she's singing about.

The sound of me breathing through my ears in time to the beating of my heart.

being played after one of VR's favorite movie lines...
"I love the taste of pussy in the morning"..."Asetofpussylipsnow"...

Boooiiiiinnnng!

Cheers!

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Cheers!

Great song though!

as long as you can be little red riding hood...

Hoooowwwwwwl!

Cheers!

would be all I need. Those are music to my ears.

Remember the early days of rap when they used their mouths to make music. They used to make a spitting sound. Remember the Fat Boys? Now if you play that music backwards...

Wouldn't that be more like Sam the Sham's "Little Red Riding Hood"?

(Random edification:  thanks to the power of suggestion, I am now listening to Howlin' Wolf on "Smokestack Lightning" right now.    

As a professional DJ for 35 years, I can say without hesitation there is only one explicit yet well-done song about going down on a woman.

"You Suck" by Consolidated featuring The Yeasty Girls

It is so over-the-top there are night clubs that prohibit it's playing. The music is wonderful, but here are the lyrics. Below appears an Amazon link to buy the CD for less than $3, and a sample audio clip.

You Suck
by Yeastie Girls

I know you're really proud 'cause you think you're well hung
But I think it's time you learn how to use your tongue (yeah)
You say you want things to be even and you want things to be fair
But you're afraid to get your teeth caught in my pubic hair
If you're lying there expecting me to suck your dick
You're gonna have to give me more than just a token lick
Well, you may not like it but you better learn how
'Cause it's your turn now

(chorus)
Now, you suck
Suk it hard
Go down, baby
You suck
Lick it hard
And move your tongue around

If you're worried 'bout babies you can lower your risk
By giving me that special cunnilingus kiss
It's on your face that I'm gonna sit
You can wiggle you can jiggle your tongue on my clit
Don't worry about making me have an orgasm
Just take your time and do it with enthusiasm
I can tell it's making you scared just thinking of it
But you better learn to love it

(chorus x2)

When you hear 'safe sex' you snicker under your breath
We've gotta take cover we're flirting with death
AIDS is our problem, we've gotta talk
Break out your dental dam and your latex sock
I'm your latex lover wrapped like a gift
Got my microwave plastic wrap heating up my clit, wooh!
Dinner's on, get busy with my booty
Got a couple of flavors, sweet licorice and fruity
I know you said luscious pussy with a cover
I'm aching too, we can't taste each other
There's no slacking off with an unprotected stroke
This aint no joke

Sisters..sisters, you've got the power...use it!

chick: You brought a condom, right?
dude: Huh?
chick: I'm unprotected.
dude: Ain't you on the pill?
chick: Oh, that was great and everything, but you know,
        I think it's your turn to go down on me.
dude: Oh, I'm tired, I'm tired..
chick: What do you mean you're tired?
dude: C'mon..
chick: Come on, baby, come on!..
dude: No, no, that's awful...that tastes terrible!
chick: You asshole! You shit!

I know you think it's a real drag
To suck my cunt when I'm on the rag
Quit making up stories, ah, give me a break
'Cause I really don't believe that you've got a headache
You tell me it's gross to suck my yeast infection
How do you think I feel when I gag on your erection? ugh!
You're wasting your tongue with lame excuses and lies
Get your face between my thighs

(chorus x2)
Now, you SUCK!


http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/B000000QGH/ref=ase_zbone/102-4985648-4640138?v=glance&s=music

blues songs on her Grammy award winner "Blues to the Bone".

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Personally I would have chosen Queen's Bohemian Rhapsody if I could only get the sound of 20 finger's "Lick It" out of my head...

You gotta lick it
Before we kick it
You gotta get it soft and wet
So we can kick it

You gotta lick it
Before we kick it
You gotta take that extra step
So we can kick it

Thanks!

No, I don't know what the songs were either.  I just realized that the tempo worked good for my strokes and tuned in only enough to match the beat. Now I wish I knew.

Just think, your music was the inspiration for this post.

I've got a bunch of music to listen to! Won't it be fun trying them out!  lol

Really loved the music choices, especially since I'm addicted to the 80's music...good jokes too.  Great now I sound like Paula Abdul or something, "Great Job" *clap* *clap* *clap* Simon?

Shining just like gold....