Okay...I'm a little frustrated this morning and would like to vent. I have a lot of reviews on this board and think that they do a pretty good job of painting a picture for prospective clients. My average rating has always been a very respectable 7 in appearence and 8 in performance.

Now, my appearence rating has gone down very recently with an influx of 5's. I know that when a girl complains about her reviews, that there is little sympathy. But I feel I have a legitmate gripe. Each guy that gave me such a low score put something in his review along the lines of "I don't like bigger girls" and if you check their other reviews, I am the only "bigger" girl they have ever reviewed.

I'm glad that my "cheap" prices enticed you into trying something new, but to go and complain afterwards really makes me feel hurt & almost betrayed. I put so much into every session and try to connect on an emotional level with every client, so when you turn around and say such crass & inconsiderate things, it bothers me.

I just had a photo shoot done that and there are several proofs up from that, including full-length shots, that are not retouched and show you my body. Yes, I am aware that I am a big girl. I'm almost 5'10" without heels, so that should also be taken into consideration. I am sure I do appear bigger then my photos to a guy who is barely 5'6".

My point is, if you only see little girls, and then because of your own spending habits decide to see me, don't compare me to them. In fact, don't see me period.

If you want Italian food, go to an Italian restaurant. Don't go to a Chinese restaurant and then complain that even though the food is good, you dont like it cuz it's not what you wanted.

Providers have feelings. Being called "average" "plain" and "cheap" are hurtful. My service is far from average. And my face is far from plain. My prices may be less then most, but you can say "inexpensive" or "a good value" as opposed to cheap.

I know some will say "Take it with a grain of salt" or "If you dont like it, then have yourself delisted." Yeah, yeah....thanks, but no thanks.

If you only like thin providers, then only see thin providers. Same goes for if you only like white providers or if you only like younger providers. Don't go see someone outside your judgemental little box of what you think is attractive and then complain that they weren't what you like. Those little numbers mean something and effect our total score. I worked very hard to get my average so high and would like it to reflect that.

I can imagine it's very frustrating for you, especially since your pictures make your body-type quite clear. Best to forget it, however, since there's not much you can do.

--b.

I think you look great.  Wish I still traveled to Chicago.

... You are honest about your size, and your photographs show you clearly, and (by the way) you look to me like a very sexy girl in some hot outfits.  Surely no one complains that they've gotten something other than they bargained for.  As for the appearance comments, I think everyone realizes that these are entirely subjective.  Some of the superstar providers have received isolated negative reviews, too.  They don't like them, either, but they just shrug them off as part of the business.  When your performance reviews consistently say "she knocked my socks off," people understand what you're all about.

I haven't seen your pictures, but the concept that a guy is narrow-minded and limited if he doesn't think your beautiful is a bit odd.  If you normally get 7s on appearance and you get a few 5s, well, that's what all providers go through.  Even the small ones you reference have plenty of scores 2-3 points apart.  

For many men, the hobby is about expanding our boundaries and experiences.  So we might try a provider that's not our normal type.  Since we're paying for the experience, why should we limit ourselves to one category?  I hope guys continue to see a variety of ladies and rate them truthfully.

-- Modified on 3/15/2005 5:08:43 PM

...that made my blood boil.  I wonder if the review was just fake.? He makes it plain, at the beginning, she's not his physical type anyway.  Why a review under that circumstance?  I guess he got his 15 days.

Lisa don't let one guy who probably got smacked by his wife spoil things for you.  Just figure he was in a pissy mood or his regular said NO MORE to him so he tried you.

Now when are you coming to Orange County CA so I can book a date with you?

Nothing wrong with what I see and your no where near a BBW dear.

It is simply a matter of a guy rating her according to his criteria. He is entitled to his opinion, and if he thinks she is a 5 looks, then he has a right to say so. No different than a guy who is really into BBW's giving one a 9 looks rating.

The only condition is that he should not do it in a mean way. No woman likes to be rated a 5, but it certainly isn't right to do it in an intentionally mean way.

There are guys in this world that if they were laying in bed next to Pamela Andersen and had just had the best sex of their life, would complain that she wasn't a brunette, or that her boobs were too big.  I wonder what he was thinking when he looked at your pictures. Notice also how, even though she's not his type, physically, he still goes through with the appointment.  Some guys will find something to complain about no matter what.  I look at your photos and I think to myself, Damn, there is a fine looking woman!  I don't see anything but a beautiful lady.

Lisa, you can play in my sandbox anyday, beautiful!

I love your pictures, and I think that you are VERYYYYY SEXXXXY! If you ever travel to Boston, please look me up Hang in there!

Luv,

Mel
http://www.voluptuousblackbeauty.com/

From looking at your pics, You rate an 8 easily in looks. Different storkes for different folks I guess.

Ok, at the risk of hurting your feelings (and for that matter my own, after all I am Bizzaro looking!).  Let's be honest, there is a sort of accepted "norm" for what looks good in our society.  This does not mean that there would never be some who would rate you a 10 while others would rate the flat stomached "lollipop head" types a 2!  What it means is that if you polled (now there is an interesting use of the term) 100 males... (or their members) you would get most of them ga ga over the model type with some going for you!  So, there are guys who like ya (obviously) so I would say, you appeal to a certain crowd, and others will try ya on to see what it is like.... who knows, maybe you will "convert" one or two to the full figured woman type... After all, from your pics - ya are an attractive lass....

This is another way of saying that there is a reason that madison ave uses a certain "look" to push products... and avoid another look altogether.... now if someone could just explain the excitement over kelly clarkson, I'd be all set.