How exactly am I supposed to put a girl's mind at ease when it comes to screening?  I called this girl and she just went off on me about how classy and exclusive she was, and that she wouldn't see me without extensive screening.  But when I asked her what info she wanted, she wouldn't ask anything!  Twice I called her and twice she yelled at me and hung up on me.

Now, I'm always extremely polite, and I certainly wasn't trying to waste her time.  But WTF am I supposed to do to put someone at ease?  What the heck did she expect me to say?  I was totally confused as to what I was doing to earn that kind of treatment.

Why would you want to put someone like that at ease?

Find a girl that's not so full of herself and rude.

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don't keep on saying they have class like they're trying to sell you a used car.

I concur with the others, just MOVE ON.  

I had a similar experience once where I called a visiting provider to get the info not covered in her Eros ad and she went on and on about how flaky guys in San Francisco had been and how they weren't serious, etc., etc.   I must have been on the phone with her for almost 30 mins before I had a chance to ask what her rates were and if she had an racial/ethnic preferences in her clientele.

I figured she needed to vent at that moment so I just lent her my ear.     When her rant was over, she was appreciative of my willingness to listen to her and sounded like she would have been open to seeing me BUT by that time I figured things probably wouldn't go well so after I got the rate info (more than I could afford at that time) I excused myself and wished her better luck with the remainder of her stay.

Peace...

Nobody else seems to be having problems with her though, which makes me think it was something I said.

How do people normally screen?

Just look for another girl sweetie. It seems she may not want to take time to deal with you and seems a bit on edge. Sorry for your loss on that one but there are many more out there still for you to wine and dine.. Kisses
Renee (tampa)