Most provider sites that I visit express displeasure with hobbist that don't show, are rude, unfresh etc.  I can totally agree with those feelings and always strive to be a gentelman.  I want to ask the providers to  provide the same level of courtesy to your clients.  For some of us, our windows of opportunity are limited and arranging time may be complicated.  I was resently strung out for 4 days by a provider who posted a message of availability of September 12.  Numerous contacts via e-mail, references provided, times suggested and changed at least 4 different times, promise of a call etc.  In the end, nothing happened.  Please ladies, be thoughtful curteous of us as well.  Just say no if it won't so we can move on to other options rather than string us along for days and not come through.  thanks

in this profession clownboy we have to deal with this on a daily basis. there are a lot of guys out there who are woman haters and call around all the girls they can get ahold of and make appts. and not show up. then were left with time we could of filled with someone else. if she screw you once it was probably b/c she had a regular client call and again she's gonna take the regular over the new person b/c she knows 100% that he will show up. since she screw you over 4 times shes either really flacky or was very uncertain about you. she probably thought you were the le or just really got a bad vibe from ya. sorry man it happens but atleast you dont have to deal w/ it like we do. I'm sure your very curteous and gentleman-ly but realise in this business your about 1 in 10.